I am a BBW and am confident in myself...it is when I start thinking that others are judging me do I become my own worst critic. It does help to hear a man tell me how much he loves me and desires my body and my touch. I know that guys are turned on by sight, we'll I'm turned on by words...but they HAVE to be the TRUTH. As a BBW,I want the world to know that I will do just about anything for my man. I don't want a man thinking about having a warm body to come home to after he has been out all day window shopping. I want him to fantasize about me as I fantasize about him. I believe in PDA and think that there should be more of it between a couple. Let the world know we're in love, not because of our size or sexual preference, but because having someone to love and being loved is the ultimate feeling.