its simple women are looking for littel blue boxes

longhair what? don't say that about yourself you are wonderful and you deserve the best

women are looking for players. and they love em just watch pick up artist on you tube

are you talking about mystery? that guy is a joke.

Just be who you are ... that is enough.

Everyone is going to have preferences. You will not be right for everyone but you are right for some.

Do not start morphing yourself into what you 'think' women are going to want. The woman who truly sees you will appreciate you just as you are.

yes i am but i feel also mystery is a joke i really didnt want women to know about the society off players. but that stuff on the show works on every woman no matter what any woman says here it works

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A man who can treat her like a lady and respect. An honest, caring, and loving man, who she can be proud of and take home to mom and dad!

look, women have been familiar with the society of players since the dawn of time my son. the only reason why you think it works on all women is because we let you. (note: it doesn't. i prefer sweet nerdy guys who get nervous for you and fix your computer when its broken.) live and learn my friend, live and learn.

appearance definitely isn't very important, otherwise I would be more lucky

I have a thing for little blue boxes

Most women are looking for someone who doesn't toy with their emotions and is there for them. And someone who treats them the way they should be treated and not like a piece of meat. Like for me I want someone that I can cuddle up to, not afraid to cry on their shoulders, know I am the world to them, loves to be spoiled but loves to spoil me right back and is into racing and not afraid of just going for it since life is short lived as it is...

I've had men tell me that making women laugh is a good way to get a date with them, but to be honest, that doesn't impress me very much. It's like they're trying too hard. When a man is amusing, without even trying to be, then he's interesting.

"are you talking about mystery? that guy is a joke."
Yeah, and he's got women crawling ALL OVER HIM! Why? I can't tell. I can't watch his stuff without being terribly confused.

"Just be who you are ... that is enough."
IS it?

"the only reason why you think it works on all women is because we let you. (note: it doesn't. i prefer sweet nerdy guys who get nervous for you and fix your computer when its broken.)"
Just like you let us believe that you're really interested in sweet nerdy guys? I'm not buying that for a second.

Bobzeaux - Are you generally this cynical about women all the time?

(I hope you don't take the question as a personal attack - it's a serious question.)

you don't even know me, so why are you judging me for the kind of people that I relate to? You may as well say I'm a liar, which is a statement I resent. What's your deal anyway?

I can vouch for my friend Hannah here, She like the Nerdy guys... like me, for example.

some girls like sweet nerdy guys
im a mix between lol

"Bobzeaux - Are you generally this cynical about women all the time?"
Only the ones who say they want one thing but ignore that one thing when it's staring them in the face and they instead chase after the exact opposite.

I'm not believing your attraction to sweet, nerdy guys, glitterybee, because you JUST commented on how women like making guys think that women like one thing, when in reality women like something completely different. How can you follow up that statement with a supposed interest of yours and NOT expect someone to think it's false?

What's my deal? My deal is that the people I surround myself with (who all have no/little trouble with attracting women) will all swear blind that I am a great guy to be around, and they can't imagine why no woman is open to the idea of going out on a single date with me. My deal is that I have no problems whatsoever in the field of connecting with women and they love me to death, but they can never see me as anything beyond friends. My deal is I've read a LOT of material on the subject of more positive male-female social interaction, and it all either contradicts some OTHER basic form of interaction or it just plain doesn't make any sense and no one is able to clarify exactly what it means. My deal is that I see women constantly falling for guys who they KNOW are only going to bite them in the proverbial ass not too much later in life, and they don't even seem to care. My deal is that every day that goes by, the more it looks like women will only be receptive to me if I get them drunk first. My deal is that I've been living my whole life as a Nice Guy, and despite my efforts expressing my unique sense of humor, honing my sense of confidence and self-satisfaction, and learning how to play the active-listener, I'm getting absolutely NOTHING. My deal is that I'm trying on the shoes of the Emotional Challenge that women are rumored to enjoy, but they don't like the taste of it so far.

THAT is my deal. Thank you for asking.