Yup, girls usually know in the first ten minutes if they can date you, **** you, or just be firends with you.

I'll give you a serious answer. I want a best friend first and foremost. I want someone that will show me mutual respect, love and honesty. I think a partnership is 100/100...both need to give 100% to make it work. As far as looks go, I just prefer someone taller than me and yes, there has to be some kind of physical attraction, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I also want someone with a sense of humor and someone I can lean on when times get tough. Someone to stand by me in good times and bad. I hope this helps.

"just be yourself. don'y worry about what other women want."
If being yourself was truly the key, then internet dating sites wouldn't even exist. Isn't being "yourself" part of the problem if countless millions of dollars are being spent on love/sex help books and behavioral modification seminars?

"I want someone my dad will like...Knows when to play and when to be serious.. One of a kind."
"girls usually know in the first ten minutes if they can date you, **** you, or just be firends with you."
That's not fair. How can you claim to determine who your dad will like, when the person will play or be serious, or is unique and one of a kind within 10 minutes of first meeting him?

"I want a best friend first and foremost."
Any advice on how to get OUT of the Friends Folder? Too many of us know how to be GREAT friends, but then the ladies don't ever want to treat us as anything else.

The TRUTH!!!!!!!!!!

A man that does dishes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

At my age it not who u are it about the whole Package. How many kids you have, how nice your house, car is how many times u have been married do you have a nice job please tell me im wrong someone.

What are women looking for?
How bout:
Trust
Honesty
Caring
Affection
Love
MONEY (lol)

Women want what they cant or dont have

I Can tell just by looking st them if i can date them

i didnt know u were Super Women.. U got powers that let u see into the future with a guy just by lookin at them?

sure can

<<, wonder woman out to save the day

didnt they make a movie about you? wasnt it called my Super Ex-Girlfriend?

Strength and security .. but SEXY strength and security. LMAO

Want a man to BE A MAN. Not cowtow to every thing I say or want. My brooklyn boy is like that.

Calls me on my sh*t. I LOVE it. Sooooooo attractive. yep yep


course spoiling me doesn't hurt either ..

super yes but psychotic not sure yet

Thanks for the advance warning on the possiblity lol

Well, I like nice, sensitive caring guys, too, but I like hottness with all of that...

"REALLY? This has been the all time riddle that has plagued men from time immemorial. If you ask your girlfriends what do they want from men or what women look for in a man, I bet, most of them would say they want someone who can make them laugh. But how many of these guys who clown around women, and make them laugh do ever get the woman they want? Almost none of them, that is because they are only "friend material".

The "make-me-laugh" notion is just a metaphor that women often use. So, what do women want from men, really?

CONFIDENCE. This is ultimately the one and only thing you should have to draw women to you. Learn to project that sexy confidence and make a woman feel safe and secure around you. Eventually, that will lead her to drop her inhibitions, feel comfortable and just let go of herself. The sense of humor women talk about is only there to make them feel more comfortable in letting their guard down.

SOCIAL STATUS. A man with a high status is extremely important to women because women want to belong to the society that surrounds them. Each woman may define social status differently, and it depends on what kind of background they are from. A woman lawyer may define a man with a high status as someone who possess intelligence. A woman who comes from a background of athletes will be looking for a man with a status of physical dominance, strength and sport while a woman who comes from a wealthy family would define your status as to how much money you have in the bank. There will be a different definition for each woman but universally, they find a man with a high status as attractive and powerful.

WARMTH AND HONESTY. It would be a good thing to ask, "How real are you?". What are your intentions? Women will see through you so you better straighten this out from the beginning if you want her to see you again."


...sounds good to me.

are you breaking up with me? noo noo theres no telling what I'll do!! ~ Maja

Anyone who says they aren't into looks is lying. Everyone has their version of good-looking, and you have to be attracted to a potential mate on some level. I believe- in fact, I know- that a person can be attractive and nice at the same time, but most people don't want to admit it.