hey i love the sweet nerdy guys...why is that strange?

I'm looking for for romance and a man's arm around me

i only find romance fron the sweet nerdy ones...the mocho ones are full of themselves....and the whiny ones get on my nerves

Bobzeaux - I'm just grasping at straws here... but everything I've seen you read was about how women always have it so wrong, how you know what they want, how you have worked and studied how to have better, how you are a nice guy, etc...

How about just thinking about things more positively and less cynically? Just let relationships flow, be yourself. Don't work so hard for it.

I agree, who wants a cynic? I flow and if it's ment to grow it will

I mean take trustingfate for example. I bet because of my confidence right now that if I asked her out for a date right here on the forums... she would say yes.

hmmmm I been trying to figure out what women want for years and I still don't have any kind of a clue

we want ot be happy....the trouble is the same one we have with men....different things make each one of us happy.

you seem sweet and nerdy....you live far from Daytona?

I'm about 45 min. away actually! I live in Titusville just to the south of you. We should go out for dinner - do you have Monday evening free by any chance?

yep. Actually i do! you like Italian?

But you have to pay the bill. I don't want to waste the money on a woman on the first date and all. =P

lmao....coffee it is...my treat

You have yourself a date! Seriously, what time do you want to meet?

2ish good for you?

Yeah, I just sent my phone number to you - give me a call and we'll work out the details.

cool- got it...

How drunk do I have to get you anyway before we go to my place? ;D

wow i smell a couple getting together lol
amazing lol

"How about just thinking about things more positively and less cynically? Just let relationships flow, be yourself. Don't work so hard for it."
In a world of appreciation followed by constant, inexplicable rejection, I fail to see exactly what there is to be positive about. Out of letting relationships flow and being myself, I've gathered a LOT of friendships in my young life, some more strong than others. But why am I seemingly not allowed to have anything BEYOND simple friendship?

And what happens when I stop trying so hard? I stay at home most of the time, keep interaction with strangers to a minimum, and then I'm accused of not trying hard ENOUGH. Tell me why I shouldn't be frustrated by that.

"I mean take trustingfate for example. I bet because of my confidence right now that if I asked her out for a date right here on the forums... she would say yes."
If you asked her out on a public forum like this, she would only say "yes" to try to prove some sort of point, whether or not she actually had some degree of interest in you. No doubt if I did that with a girl who lived (roughly) in my neck of the woods, she'd be playing it all up just for the sake of looking nice too. If you had given her invite to her via private e-mail, your chances of a positive outcome would be DRAMATICALLY cut short. Think you that I'm wearing my Cynical Face when trying to e-mail? I'm always sure to be wearing my Happy Face since, as trustingfate would observe, who wants a cynic? Nonetheless, despite being positive and confident, only 1 out of 12 girls I write ever take the chance to talk to me, and despite my efforts to keep the conversation going, the 1 who DOES reply to me stops talking a week (at most) later without one single warning of waning interest.