have fun hun!
wish you all tha best on how you get close!
take it slow and have fun!

We are all snowflakes, not any two of us are alike(men and women)

But generally speaking, I believe all women collectively have the power and beauty of individuality and expect the respect and admiration it deserves.

weve all been hurt bad...me more than most...ive gone through the abusive side of things...but i always say that forgiveness is letting go of the hope for a better yeaterday.

You are letting what HAS happen to you, affect what WILL happen to you...it's a self-fulfilling profacy...be careful not not get caught in the loop of heart break and pain...it kills the soul.

Try a pic that shows your smile....the one you have up is intimidating to say the least...scary....you look angry.....

how true!!!

here here... cheers to Hazzmatt...

a smile says i love you in many ways!

be positive!
love life!!!
if you dont love yourself, one cannot fall in love with you!

I believe so. I only hope that all people can feel that way.

im sweet like funnel cake!

"dont try too hard"
And what is TOO hard again? There are guys all over the internet (Mystery, David d'Angelo, etc.) who gave it their all and MORE than their all, and now they're worshiped like gods. I know not to try "too" hard, since past experience has told me that any minute inclination of deeper feelings that I have for a person will make her flee.

"have you really ben hurt so bad? its hard for you to trust females on wat they even say?"

Ummmmmm...........

Yup.

Yeah, been hurt pretty bad. I can trust women in virtually every OTHER respect, but they have not shown me that their word on what they prefer in men is genuine. (Let's all hope and pray that trustingfate and AMPdog can prove me wrong.)

"I believe all women collectively have the power and beauty of individuality and expect the respect and admiration it deserves."
Uh-huh. And when they DO get that respect, they don't appreciate it.

"You are letting what HAS happen to you, affect what WILL happen to you..."
Are you implying that it's somehow MY fault that women express a great delight in talking to me and then suddenly want nothing to do with me?

"Try a pic that shows your smile....the one you have up is intimidating to say the least...scary....you look angry....."
You think THIS is angry? This is me trying to look intriguing and mysterious. Trust me.... You wouldn't like me when I'm angry.....

As for me smiling, there aren't any pics of me smiling where I don't look (unintentionally!!!!) scary, or when I'm in a set of bizarre, generally unappealing circumstances. Look at my MySpace pics.
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=15620967

Anything you'd recommend I use for my JSH?

"if you dont love yourself, one cannot fall in love with you!"
I DO love myself, but upon expression of that opinion, I'm then accused of being a pretentious prick. I'm basically in a lose-lose situation on whatever opinions about myself that I have, aren't I? O_o

Not necessarily Bob, you're choosing to complicate things

well bro to be honest this is why i cant feel your pain!
i havent been hurt like this and it pains me to see guys actually say they have im very sorry bro
but you do gotta know not every girl is like this , some are shallow but then again some really are not, but are confused themselves,

if you get along with girls? dont rush it at first! find out wat she really wants,and then take it from there,
really bro i been talkin to one of tha girls i first wanted to be with for a long time now, i wanted a girlfriend, but she held me back and kept talkin to me as a friend,but now dat we both feel all alone we are only cities away to actually share a night being together and making out and seeing from there if we can be a couple and there is also another girl i want to be with yet she wont give me her true feelings and is trying to make me ask her out first

so really bro first think of how these females are and then when they really show they need a guy there for them, be there for them
even i thought at first girls really dont know wat they want
BUT THEY DO
ONLY SOMEGIRLS ARE MORONS
so dont talk to those girls
if a girls isnt serious with you move on
she aint worth your time
if a girl turns you down dot take it too serious, cause she a fool to turn you down,remember wat i said man

you must show you are too good for any girl to even be with you
and POSITIVITY AND CONFIDENCE AND CHARM AND LOVE is wat you need to show them, not stupid pickup lines and all dat other bull****..
just talk dats wat they really want or a guy to come and talk to them and get them interested
ok?

if i can talk to many girls offline and such as on this place
you can do it too!!
be yourself and take control!

God Speed!

Complicating what things? Open expression of self-worth? No, I've actually been attacked for that quite a few times already.

i dont think your a prick
you just base it cause of tha female callin you a prick
well let her think this
cause she a moron who doesnt really know you yet

i dont know you but you showed me so far you show yourself as a negatiuve type of guy, but your not a prick
im sure your a loving man who really knows how to be there for people

so why base something of some female put you down,
i love when girls think im asshole
but when they see me being dat loving man, they know they were wrong
but then again i never had a girl tell me this really
cause it just wont happen lol
im too loving and sweet, and they always like guys (no matter wat mood they are in)who show their side of caring smiles and just positive vibes

"if you get along with girl dont rush it first find out wat she really wants"
I don't rush it. I take my time to really get to know her. Then by the time I feel like I've got enough ammo to ask the girl out, someone ELSE already swooped down and stole her away from me. If I moved that fast it would be disastrous, but that doesn't seem to bother her for OTHER guys apparently.

"then when they really show they need a guy there for them, be there for them"
They've got plenty of OTHER guy friends for heavy emotional support. Girls liking me isn't the problem, but they NEVER come to me in the kind of needy emotional state that guys can only dream of.

"if a girl turns you down dot take it too serious, cause she a fool to turn you down"
I do think that. My friends and family are starting to become worried about my psychological wellbeing if I adopt that frame of mind.

"you must show you are too good for any girl to even be with you
and POSITIVITY AND CONFIDENCE AND CHARM AND LOVE is wat you need to show them"
So I show them that I'm too good for them by trying to show them charm and love? That doesn't make sense. The best thing that I can think of to express the idea that I'm too good for them is to simply not talk to them, and if I don't talk to them, then they don't talk to me.

"if i can talk to many girls offline and such as on this place
you can do it too!!"
You're not listening to me. I DO talk to girls, both here and almost everywhere I go. I just DON'T MATTER to them.

"i dont know you but you showed me so far you show yourself as a negatiuve type of guy, but your not a prick"
Again, you've only seen my JSH forum side, which isn't a particularly pleasurable one, I'll be the first to admit. But if you were a young lady who caught my fancy and I tried to e-mail you, it'd be a COMPLETELY different story.

"so why base something of some female put you down"
I'm not. I'm basing something on the entire group of females as a whole, and then I'm attacked for unfairly generalizing.

"im too loving and sweet, and they always like guys (no matter wat mood they are in)who show their side of caring smiles and just positive vibes"
Then why am I not getting one thing?....

this is all classic case scenarios

if you dont ask tha girl out fast?
of course they gonna be interested in another man
but if they really wanted to know you
they would ignore all other guys just for you

and it not about not talkin to them
it about showin you are not there to be used or just teased at
if they talk to you bout things and actually want your opinion then tell it and see how they react and also show you have no interest in them really when they show they want to know you, then they are confused and wondering if your playin them for a fool, then your in control of tha game,

but if you say nothing and you just dont bother
then of course they will know your dead to them and they will move on
and of course they will flirt if you dont have them 100% interest to you

Whoa that's deep dude. Glad I didn't step in it.

I'm with you longhair

Yeah, I would, but I'm way too tired. My eyes are burning. Time for bed, again.