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If a man was married for 6 years to a woman he claims he loved but then after divorce he just cuts her out of his life completely not even staying friends...would you be skeptical of this mans' maturity level and able to be responsible with his feelings and yours?
I guess, I want to know when is it a red flag when a man wants nothing to do with his ex even though they had a very serious long term loving relationship... |
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No.
Everyone handles trauma in their own way. |
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If a man was married for 6 years to a woman he claims he loved but then after divorce he just cuts her out of his life completely not even staying friends...would you be skeptical of this mans' maturity level and able to be responsible with his feelings and yours? I guess, I want to know when is it a red flag when a man wants nothing to do with his ex even though they had a very serious long term loving relationship... more information is needed there are many situations when the mature thing IS to completely cut ties the red flag for me would not be in whether there is still a relationship but in how he speaks about her and how often |
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If she has put a "bunny in the pot"... that is one to keep some distance from.
 
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If she has put a "bunny in the pot"... that is one to keep some distance from.
huh? what does that mean? I have never heard of this expression |
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If a man was married for 6 years to a woman he claims he loved but then after divorce he just cuts her out of his life completely not even staying friends...would you be skeptical of this mans' maturity level and able to be responsible with his feelings and yours? I guess, I want to know when is it a red flag when a man wants nothing to do with his ex even though they had a very serious long term loving relationship... more information is needed there are many situations when the mature thing IS to completely cut ties the red flag for me would not be in whether there is still a relationship but in how he speaks about her and how often um maybe its just a preference thing... but for me i can't be with a man who allows himself to be intimate in such away as marriage with a woman for 6 years then he can just cut her out of his life with no contact and not even remain friends..it speaks to me a lot about the value he places on marriage and the respect he has for his own and his partners feelings. but that maybe just me.i was raised that marriages are sacred commmitments and if divorce happens it should be civil. |
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Could be that she is a psycho and he doesn't want to deal with it.
The "bunny in the pot" reference comes from the movie, "fatal attraction", about a crazy woman. Could be that she cheated on him. Could be a lot of reasons he doesn't want any contact with her. Ask him. |
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Every human have thier own mind, we need to respect the decision that was made at certain time in their life. In this case I believe is time to move on. If the person decided to cut ties, that need to be respected and time will tell.
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There are three sides to every story.
1. His 2. Hers 3. The truth. Perhaps, there's a justifiable reason, for him to have cut ties? |
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If a man was married for 6 years to a woman he claims he loved but then after divorce he just cuts her out of his life completely not even staying friends...would you be skeptical of this mans' maturity level and able to be responsible with his feelings and yours? I guess, I want to know when is it a red flag when a man wants nothing to do with his ex even though they had a very serious long term loving relationship... It is almost impossible to answer without knowing what happened. There may be a very understandable reason why he wants absolutely no part of her now, a very valid reason. Or he may be hiding something in that relationship that he does not want you to know about. Impossible to answer without more information. |
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If a man was married for 6 years to a woman he claims he loved but then after divorce he just cuts her out of his life completely not even staying friends...would you be skeptical of this mans' maturity level and able to be responsible with his feelings and yours? I guess, I want to know when is it a red flag when a man wants nothing to do with his ex even though they had a very serious long term loving relationship... more information is needed there are many situations when the mature thing IS to completely cut ties the red flag for me would not be in whether there is still a relationship but in how he speaks about her and how often um maybe its just a preference thing... but for me i can't be with a man who allows himself to be intimate in such away as marriage with a woman for 6 years then he can just cut her out of his life with no contact and not even remain friends..it speaks to me a lot about the value he places on marriage and the respect he has for his own and his partners feelings. but that maybe just me.i was raised that marriages are sacred commmitments and if divorce happens it should be civil. It's not always that black and white. As people have said, there are reasons to cut some people out of your life. Assuming it's that simple is judgemental IMO |
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If a man was married for 6 years to a woman he claims he loved but then after divorce he just cuts her out of his life completely not even staying friends...would you be skeptical of this mans' maturity level and able to be responsible with his feelings and yours? I guess, I want to know when is it a red flag when a man wants nothing to do with his ex even though they had a very serious long term loving relationship... more information is needed there are many situations when the mature thing IS to completely cut ties the red flag for me would not be in whether there is still a relationship but in how he speaks about her and how often um maybe its just a preference thing... but for me i can't be with a man who allows himself to be intimate in such away as marriage with a woman for 6 years then he can just cut her out of his life with no contact and not even remain friends..it speaks to me a lot about the value he places on marriage and the respect he has for his own and his partners feelings. but that maybe just me.i was raised that marriages are sacred commmitments and if divorce happens it should be civil. Your rationale would be a red flag for me. |
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If she has put a "bunny in the pot"... that is one to keep some distance from.
huh? what does that mean? I have never heard of this expression It's a reference to the movie Fatal Attraction. |
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Listen 909,
You don't know the details of their true relationship. Probably never will.. Some men and women can make a partner divorce and never look back. Try not to be so high tone, if you want forgiveness, you must be willing to forgive. Well, good talk! Good luck. |
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Edited by
SimpyComplicated
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Sat 11/19/16 05:46 PM
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Next week you could be seeing a red flag because a man is interacting too much with his X .
The fact of interaction or lack of interaction is not relevant the reason for it is. You would need to find out the reasons before you could identify the colour of any flags |
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Speaking from experience sometimes it's just better to distance yourself and cut ties from a bad situation.....would you be friends if say the man was abusive? or what if he was a convicted sexual predator? these are just examples not everyone can stay chummy with their ex sometimes no contact helps a person to heal and then maybe they can forgive and get on with their life without that albatross hanging around ..................
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No. Everyone handles trauma in their own way. amen....... |
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If a man was married for 6 years to a woman he claims he loved but then after divorce he just cuts her out of his life completely not even staying friends...would you be skeptical of this mans' maturity level and able to be responsible with his feelings and yours? I guess, I want to know when is it a red flag when a man wants nothing to do with his ex even though they had a very serious long term loving relationship... Depends on the grounds for divorce.. And the shape that both the man or woman is in at the time of divorce.. Some times the only way to heal ones self is to break total contact.. |
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I agree w/ NotPay.
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If there are no kids involved, I would be concerned about ex's being friends and in contact with one another. You don't have to have hard feelings about a divorce, but why stay in contact of you couldn't make the marriage work?
If there are kids, I would expect them to figure out a way to be friendly for the sake of the kids. If they can't figure that out, that's a red flag for me. |
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