Definately

Experience speaks very nice

when he proposed marriage....

When he cooks for you, runs you a hot bath and when he pauses Sportscenter to take out the trash.

i can only speak for myself the girl will know ...if u don't there playing games

now if that's not true love..

Perhaps, when he gave up and ended up shooting himself thinking his Love would recognize his actions that were loud and clear that he is in Love with you.

He doesn't run away when there's a problem.. stand beside you.. even when you try to push him away.. because he only wants you to be a better person for you....because he loves and cares..for all of you.your well being.. and then he makes you a sandwich...lol.wink.

((((Sophie))))) also he will suddenly demand you make him something called a samich! Remote comes later....much later...;^)

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Forget about Diamonds, surrendering the remote control,
Surrendering his soul, prenuptial sex, etc, etc.

IF HE ALWAYS HOLDS YOU IN HIS ARMS,
or WANTS TO BE WITH YOU ALL DAY,
or JUST NEEDS TO DO THINGS TOGETHER,
you know 4 sure you are in the right track.

True story.

Many moons ago I DATED a Royal Duchess (Von De Pope) of Nederlands.

When I asked her HOW can I prove my love to you Heat** ??
She asked for a Blue Rose instead.
Confused, I asked her IF I will bring her a blue rose,
WILL she KISS A FROG ??....Obviously the answer was NOT.

And that's the end of it

This is one of those questions that I think depends very much what age you are, what stage in life you've reached. Mainly because what love MEANS to people, seems to change a lot as they grow, and have more experiences.

When you're very young, loyalty and basic reliability is usually enough to get by on. But depending on what happens to you, and what you experience emotionally, that can and does often change, and change a lot.

When I was that young, my first serious GF seemed to embody everything there was to what I had always imagined real love to be. She was adventurous, sexual, tolerant, supportive, adoring, and could make me feel fabulous by how she talked to me. But I came to discover that for her, that was all like a hobby, that she could do with whoever she happened to be with, and that I personally didn't actually mean a thing to her. She just wanted a humanoid to fulfill the role her private drama was written around.

My now ex-wife, was a different experience, and though she remained nominally faithful (so far as I know), she had her own agenda of a different kind that she expected me to perform, and as she came to realize that I was always going to be ME, she headed the other direction.

For me, what real love is, is a desire to live real life, whatever that may be, with that specific other person. Including the occasional odd noises, and all those cool things in the old-fashioned wedding vows. You know, the "in sickness and in health" stuff.

You want someone who, when you crash their car, they don't give a crap about the CAR. When you are late, they aren't concerned about how that looks to other people. Sex with them isn't a bribe or a regular chore, it's a way to further enjoy each other.

In short, everything is about your life together, whether it's magnificent, or mundane.

The one who loves you, will never make you feel bad.

Hello . Iam a man too. This answer is easy I think if: you show him are you real like him. No sex need the first time... and the man keep going to make you happy and you too. . The sex is important gor a man, but if the woman is perfect for him his don't care when you give the ***** to him.... have other 100's think abaout the sex.

When he comes over on his day off and cleans your apartment, bathroom and all, then you know he loves you

Correct ...but not 100%

Its only for guys

This topic is confused. It attempts to remove the act of sex from the emotion of love like they are separate things. In an honest, mature relationship they reinforce each other. Having sex with someone you love is merely a method to show that love, intimately. That is why it is called "Making" Love.

I understand your concerns. There are people that will use you for meaningless sex. You want to know how you can tell those men from one that loves you. The answer is simple...Honesty.

As adults most of us has had sex in our past. Depending on your own personal experience you determine if sex is bad or good. Personally, I love having sex but I need it to be intimate with someone I adore.

The act of sex is an animalistic urge that is determined by our need to procreate. It lights up all our pleasure centers and causes euphoria from the chemicals our bodies release during the act. It "Feels Good".

When we have sex as an act of love we are trying to share our 'good feeling' with someone that means a lot to us. It gives us an emotional and physical bond that makes us feel closer to each other. It reinforces our impression of love.

"Well, if it feels good, do it."

The problem with that kind of thinking is that it can become an addiction. In those cases the act of having sex overrides the meaning behind the act.
Just having sex without expressing love is okay as long as no anticipation of love is expected. People get 'hurt' from just having sex because in some way they expect those feelings of love to be expressed. They expect a bond to form with each other. When that feeling is not reciprocated they feel cheated and used.

As a mature adult you can have meaningless sex and be fine with it. Personally, I like my sex with someone that expresses love in the act. Otherwise, I would just go rent a hooker. The trick is to find someone that gives you what you want. If you just want the act of sex, go find someone that will give it to you. If you want sex with love, its a bit harder to find until honesty and trust is established.

if he accept all of your baggage.

not all man need a sex at the first time.

But this is same whit the woman?

I don't know.
I looking for my really best girl friend I want to trust again...
But don't find..
when send the message they no answer because they think I just asking or thinking for sex! No!
If I need sex I can buy...everywhere.

so girls need believe a little bit.
just me.
alex