When you take the time to know one another and you are willing to have that relationship go farther and if it does break up ... you are ok with that ... and or they may stay ... becouse they feel they do love you ... all a risk ... and just have that in the back of your mind ... so you can be honest with yourself ... know matter what happens ...

You will see it in his eyes . feel it in his kiss ..and observe it in his actions it will show and in his words there will be kindness and patience and a willingness to work towards a common goal of security and happiness throughout the family..tc

Let's hear what Mr. Percy Sledge thinks

Well first off it IS just sex just like if you are honest it is still boils down to if you want to eventually have sex with him. Morality is still important but be real if there isn't that little tingle in your panties it doesn't matter if he is smart,kind,honest, and has all the best boy scout/He Man attributes in the world. So pay attention. Do you want him and does he really want you. If he doesn't want you in a way that makes his hand shake and his teeth sweat you are just a live version of Mother Thumb and her four daughters. But if you light him up like a Christmas tree you should get a different vibe than the usual
Hound dog let me slobber on you. The point I am making is he should want just you bad and that is NOT a bad thing. You will need that basic chemistry in the short and the long run.

But if it is love not just possession or temporary throphy acqusition then he is making a spot for you in his
World; and fast. It might start out small but your comfort, your saftey, your feeling complimented takes on an urgency. A guy who wants to only get laid is unbuttoning his shirt while a guy who cares how you percieve him is tucking in his shirt tails and taking his hat off. If he has to walk home he shoos the rest of his posse off and stands so you have a chair.
And if he is worth his salt he respects you enough not to treat you even remotely like a common bar fly. He is Not trying to get you liqoured up he actually wants you to remember him. He will tell you his name, phone nber, and references so you know with you the slip and slide playing is not his agenda.

He will show he actually likes you. Yea he may stare and have your bra size figured out but he knows you right down to your shoe size and and your favorite color of lipstick and how you like your coffee. He cares if you are hungry and if it is cold as frost he will make sure you have a hat and coat if he has to give you his. You know a guy loves you when he cares more about if your car has gas in the tank than running the roads for everyone of his friends. And even if he knows beans about cars he will find out if the tires are good or your oil needs changed. NOT because he thinks you are helpless but because it is a way to make his actions speak louder than words.

Men who love you don't usually throw down those words casually in the beginning. For the good ones it is a sobering thought that may say publicly but it is not just to be a spectical it is so you and everyone else knows you hearing his commitment is the bottom line.

I would not be impressed by any guy who jumps up and puts a ring on it like you are a kitten from the pound and it is his license to play then stalls out when it comes to getting busy about knowing your family/friends getting the financial stuff on the table, and getting mutual life plans in sinct.

I think the whole test driving the car and playing house is cowardly. The guy who doesn't want to put all his chips on the table is just a guy who will be around only long enough for the new to wear off.

for me, its simply in his eyes,,,

when he sees you when he speaks to you when he is listening to you, when he speaks ABOUT you,,,,,, it's a type of gleam that can't be consistently faked,,,

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Take it or leave it , it's up to you.

Don't believe a man's "I love you" if his behaviors and actions aren't backing up his words. You'll know if you're in this situation because you will feel uncertain and question his love for you.

- He treats you well and with respect.
- He's generous with his time.
- He makes you a priority.
- He cares for you.
- He wants people to know about you.
- He treats your relationship with integrity.
- He wants the absolute best for you.

I think this applies to both men and women when it comes to love. It's more of a feeling you get from the actions, rather than the words.

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SURE

nothing can make him happier than seeing you happy

Ask yourself this: When did he ask you when your birthday was? And did he remember it the first time it came around?

nice one

How do you mean?

How do you mean?

Meet in person, go on real date, like dinner, shopping or whatever you like then let him pay for everything! No sex just talk! His conversation will tell it all!

You can never know, because men do pretend alot

It's not by a first date, he can pretend not to have sex on the first date, and pretend to love you. Days after,, I might succed in getting you down and leave you alone

hes seen and experienced your worst but then shows you that you are still his best perfectly imperfect partner in life.

Hi

When you find a guy who will clean the bathroom without complaining, you know you have a keeper