Topic: How do you know if a man really loves you?
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Mon 06/12/17 12:12 PM




She /he is very good at getting things across tho,
Where would we be without her flowerforyou


flowerforyou thank you for your kind words Mikey... I hope I did get things across to all the guys out there... These are the things you should do to show your love to a woman.happy :tongue: tongue2 whoa

Your welcome, and I think you'll be safe with the wrong posting as long as it wasn't to green peace laugh


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Haha, it was for world peace supposedly.... Dolphin just got carried awaylaugh it blew my mind....reading those pick up lines makes me laughlaugh laugh laugh

They are funny rofl think I'll post one I just thought of laugh

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Mon 06/12/17 12:57 PM

Hello everyone.,how wil u know if a man really loves you and not just sex??


my dear if a man loves you he calls you always....it takes true love for a man to stick to his phone in calling a lady, as he calls eerytime his hearth beats for you...

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Mon 06/12/17 01:17 PM
hi

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Tue 06/13/17 03:22 AM

Hi Marie flowerforyou Try building a friendship with him first without the sex , and see how long he sticks around :)


Ive had a change of perspective onthis one

I think you know when he increasingly includes you in his day, and then eventually his life ie sex, his dreams, his concerns, his family etc

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Tue 06/13/17 04:40 AM
When your heart, your mind, and your gut intuition tell you the same thing.

TMommy's photo
Tue 06/13/17 06:39 AM
man really loves me
stand toe to toe
look me right in eye
call me on my bullshEEt
not intimidated by my opinion
because he has his own
not weak
no need to win or lose
eye to eye
respect

sawantraj's photo
Tue 06/13/17 08:55 AM
judge me

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Tue 06/13/17 11:27 AM
when he started to care...
He is in love. :)

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Tue 06/13/17 11:45 AM
Truthfully u can't really be sure until he has had sex, sometimes men mix up lust for love and before sex they genuinely feel they love the woman only to feel otherwise afterwards. It's sad but it's true

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Tue 06/13/17 01:21 PM
When he respects you.

twacymawie's photo
Tue 06/13/17 01:21 PM
When he respects you.

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Tue 06/13/17 02:01 PM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Tue 06/13/17 02:07 PM


When he has that gleam in his eyes when he looks at you that makes you weak in the knees.

When he cannot -and doesn't want to- let go of you, not even when things aren't easy...

When he never leaves you hanging, not even if your upset -for the umpteenth time- about something that isn't even really his doing...

When he says "I love you too, hun" and you hear the emotion and love in his voice...

When he gets in touch with you each and every day for months on end...

When he takes responsibility for his action if he happened to have hurt you and apologizes sincerely, and is hurting himself because he's hurt you...

When he's there for you when you need him, always...

When he makes the effort to buy you those special flowers, not pink, but red...

When everything you do together makes you both feel so good, whether it's grocery shopping or kissing...

When he wants to buy you that really personal gift for your birthday but seems a bit nervous about it...

:heart: smooched :heart: smooched :heart:


crystal is one or two be enough proof? i would want that all but then sad

Wouldn't suffice for me...
To answer your question: pick any two, then look at the other points and see if you can do without those and only have the two you picked.
Then choose another 2 and do the same thing...
I think you'll find you'd need and want them all.
Just don't despair! It didn't happen to me until I was 50, lol. And had been single for 4 years. It doesn't really matter how old you are, as long as you just go for what you want and need and don't settle for less. And until he enters your life you keep working on yourself. Self-esteem, growth, and of course don't forget to have fun! Each day you spend not being happy because you are still single is a lost day. It'll never come back. Treasure every day of your life! The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself. And each day you don't spend enjoying your relationship with yourself is another day where you let yourself down.
We always make a relationship the center of our universe, while we ourselves should be in that center. Always. A partner is the icing on the cake, you and your life are the cake. Doing anything else is giving away your power and will make you unhappy.
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Tue 06/13/17 09:00 PM



When he has that gleam in his eyes when he looks at you that makes you weak in the knees.

When he cannot -and doesn't want to- let go of you, not even when things aren't easy...

When he never leaves you hanging, not even if your upset -for the umpteenth time- about something that isn't even really his doing...

When he says "I love you too, hun" and you hear the emotion and love in his voice...

When he gets in touch with you each and every day for months on end...

When he takes responsibility for his action if he happened to have hurt you and apologizes sincerely, and is hurting himself because he's hurt you...

When he's there for you when you need him, always...

When he makes the effort to buy you those special flowers, not pink, but red...

When everything you do together makes you both feel so good, whether it's grocery shopping or kissing...

When he wants to buy you that really personal gift for your birthday but seems a bit nervous about it...

:heart: smooched :heart: smooched :heart:


crystal is one or two be enough proof? i would want that all but then sad

Wouldn't suffice for me...
To answer your question: pick any two, then look at the other points and see if you can do without those and only have the two you picked.
Then choose another 2 and do the same thing...
I think you'll find you'd need and want them all.
Just don't despair! It didn't happen to me until I was 50, lol. And had been single for 4 years. It doesn't really matter how old you are, as long as you just go for what you want and need and don't settle for less. And until he enters your life you keep working on yourself. Self-esteem, growth, and of course don't forget to have fun! Each day you spend not being happy because you are still single is a lost day. It'll never come back. Treasure every day of your life! The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself. And each day you don't spend enjoying your relationship with yourself is another day where you let yourself down.
We always make a relationship the center of our universe, while we ourselves should be in that center. Always. A partner is the icing on the cake, you and your life are the cake. Doing anything else is giving away your power and will make you unhappy.
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i hope i can be more like you crystal flowerforyou all you said were right and i guess just takes time... i will take that time :thumbsup: thanks againwavingflowers

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Wed 06/14/17 12:42 AM

Hello everyone.,how wil u know if a man really loves you and not just sex??


If you have been dating for a few months ask him where he thinks the relationship is going, no point in guess work, you will only find out what he wants long term by talking with him.

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Wed 06/14/17 01:08 AM
WHAT can a woman do to keep her relationship strong ?

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Wed 06/14/17 01:15 AM
Yes you are a wonderful woman . wish o can look into your eyes and tell you all this . I will be the happiest man on earth. you are a honest in so what you say .

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Wed 06/14/17 03:03 AM




When he has that gleam in his eyes when he looks at you that makes you weak in the knees.

When he cannot -and doesn't want to- let go of you, not even when things aren't easy...

When he never leaves you hanging, not even if your upset -for the umpteenth time- about something that isn't even really his doing...

When he says "I love you too, hun" and you hear the emotion and love in his voice...

When he gets in touch with you each and every day for months on end...

When he takes responsibility for his action if he happened to have hurt you and apologizes sincerely, and is hurting himself because he's hurt you...

When he's there for you when you need him, always...

When he makes the effort to buy you those special flowers, not pink, but red...

When everything you do together makes you both feel so good, whether it's grocery shopping or kissing...

When he wants to buy you that really personal gift for your birthday but seems a bit nervous about it...

:heart: smooched :heart: smooched :heart:


crystal is one or two be enough proof? i would want that all but then sad

Wouldn't suffice for me...
To answer your question: pick any two, then look at the other points and see if you can do without those and only have the two you picked.
Then choose another 2 and do the same thing...
I think you'll find you'd need and want them all.
Just don't despair! It didn't happen to me until I was 50, lol. And had been single for 4 years. It doesn't really matter how old you are, as long as you just go for what you want and need and don't settle for less. And until he enters your life you keep working on yourself. Self-esteem, growth, and of course don't forget to have fun! Each day you spend not being happy because you are still single is a lost day. It'll never come back. Treasure every day of your life! The most important relationship you will ever have is with yourself. And each day you don't spend enjoying your relationship with yourself is another day where you let yourself down.
We always make a relationship the center of our universe, while we ourselves should be in that center. Always. A partner is the icing on the cake, you and your life are the cake. Doing anything else is giving away your power and will make you unhappy.
.
.
.


i hope i can be more like you crystal flowerforyou all you said were right and i guess just takes time... i will take that time :thumbsup: thanks againwavingflowers

Owww... I'm far from perfect. I still have some fears to work out myself. But I did grow a lot in those years as a single woman and after what I'd been through with my ex. I did invest a helluva lot of time in that!
Why? Because I wanted to grow as an individual, so I was worth the time, and I was adamant to never ever get involved again unless he was absolutely the right man. I'd had 2 long term relationships, and wasn't looking for another 'oh well, I'll make do with it' thing. I wanted the real thing! The full works. The burger with the lot, or nothing at all.
It took me some time to get clear what it was exactly that I needed from a relationship. And it wasn't until I got that clear that I started attracting better quality men. Up till that point I had sort of been wasting my time dating whomever because I didn't know what I wanted myself.
So I really did use that time when I was single. And yeah, I did get impatient too. But at the same time, I knew I wasn't ready myself yet for what I wanted.
That's the thing you see; if you want a quality man, you got to be a quality woman. You attract what you are, what you yourself exude. So if you still attract the 'wrong' men for you, you know you got some work to do. Then you best focus inward, and work on yourself. That really does save you time, even though it may not feel that way. If you don't work on your own development, it may take you another 10 years, or you may never really get to finding the one for you.
So investing in yourself IS the shortest route to true happiness and love.
I've really spent some 3-4 years doing online workshops, reading about dating, relationships, personal growth. Often spent hours a day, absorbing it all, and applying what I'd learnt when I was dating or chatting with men. It takes time for these things to stick, and you also got to find out what works for you and what doesn't. You don't want to change yourself after all, you just want to become the best version of you that you can be. I seriously spent a ridiculous amount of time on all that. And I am still busy with it at times cos I want to keep growing.

My biggest motivation to do all that work was that A) I wanted to grow as an individual and B) I was adamant to never ever settle for less than what I deserved and/or needed to be happy. Never. In capitals.

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Fri 06/16/17 04:10 PM
A man that loves you will make you feel safe and support you. If sex is what he wants, then he will not be around when you say no.

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Fri 06/16/17 06:19 PM
Edited by Jenymayi on Fri 06/16/17 06:22 PM
Yes highly doubt that's what will be found on here! Best of luck to y'all

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Tue 06/20/17 11:12 AM
I would say there are 2 ways to tell. When your world is collapsing he will TRY his hardest to be there for you. That does not mean he will know what to say or do but will try.

He includes you in his dreams for the future and not in an "insert your name here" kind of way but will incorporate your dreams into his own.

-Mike