I'm very a self-confident, wouldn't say I'm desperate for a relationship for me to be attracted to someone The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a Woman for me is her confidence in her and way she treat's others.What is sad it is both women and men get lust and love mixed up The bottom line is that the way you project yourself out in the world is what what you get back. without these foundation to have a relationship Communicate self worth , able to be honest to her and yourself , giving without those you will never find your true love