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Thanks for your help
Wow dating is such heavy work Gosh so much to remember I have copied and paste information so I don't forget. Ok now to get a date. Nervous thinking about it. |
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![]() Thanks On the first date can you meet somewhere or is it better he picks you up? If you do have a meeting place would that give him the wrong idea that you not really into him or your hiding something. ? NO Annie, there is nothing wrong with meeting somewhere else.. NEVER EVER meet in an unsafe place.. Your home would be unsafe..You don't know this person period. A person can say anything they want to on the internet, phone, skype, viber, you name it. Til you meet in real time better to be safe than sorry.. Bottom line back on topic.. Each gender does it if you are legal age who cares.. As for buying a woman dinner to get her into bed.. Dang I thought that went out in the 60's.. I have rarely had a man pay for my meal on a first date.. So maybe that is where I am going wrong.. and always take your own car... |
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Thanks will do that with spare key tucked away on me in case.
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Doc & Moe what happens when you can't get it up anymore, What are you gonna do with women then???
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Doc & Moe what happens when you can't get it up anymore, What are you gonna do with women then??? ![]() |
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I think this is such a turn off for a man to think this is approiate. What ever happened to Asking a lady out to dinner? I run into these men quite often. Then if you dare say something they say oh you don't like sex. I think it is an insult to do this to a good woman. No one wants to be used and it is such a dead give away that is all their after. For if they really wanted to get to know you they would show you some respect. And so those are the players that women fall for over and over...where is the sense of adventure...romancing her...getting to first base and so on...playing hard to get can be a real turn on! |
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Edited by
javaidadam
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Mon 08/31/15 06:59 AM
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If a man does not show interest in sex on 1st day you meet, think there is something wrong with you i.e. you are not attractive physically
![]() Having said that it is not important to have sex on 1st meeting but his interest in sex with u is important. |
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Doc & Moe what happens when you can't get it up anymore, What are you gonna do with women then??? ![]() ![]() |
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That is our culture speaking. Many women enjoy sex and have no issue with a well spoken invitation. The concept of game playing and holding out until some hoop is leaped through is as dishonest as misdirection. Open honest ,frank discussions may be difficult and uncomfortable at first. Being truthful to yourself is most important if one cannot be truthful to themselves then who?
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I myself prefer a open public space. Never at my place. There is too many games being played. Once they know where you live it can become a nightmare. After time talking then proceed. Not every man or every woman reacts the same with every person of the opposite sex. Some friendships take longer. Some are never going to be sexual for many reasons, none necessarily bad. Just not a good mix. The myth that every male is ready and willing and able no matter what else is going on is one of the worse things in anyone's mind. Just think of how one's emotions would be if while being propositioned one found out that their abode was on fire!
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Doc & Moe what happens when you can't get it up anymore, What are you gonna do with women then??? the same things two women do when they are together... plus, there's always viagra.. |
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Doc & Moe what happens when you can't get it up anymore, What are you gonna do with women then??? ![]() i shouldn't have to ask, duh... ![]() |
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You are right..
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Why most men expect girls to have sex with them on the first date? What are you interested in, is it just for the sexual pleasure or do you really wanna know the person you are dating? What does really dating mean to you? Dating is a period of getting to know each other which aims to assess suitability or compatibility as partners in a romantic relationship. This may lead to friendship only, or a more intimate relationship, marriage or no relation at all. Just wondering why men expect a physical contact already at the first personal encounter? And they would call a girl playing hard to get if she withholds sex. Not all women are willing to jump into the bed with a man at the first opportunity, some girls still value themselves and doesn't want to feel being used by a man for sexual pleasure only. Not because of self righteousness but because they are looking for a long term relationship and they want to establish the trust and the feelings first.
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Doc & Moe what happens when you can't get it up anymore, What are you gonna do with women then??? ![]() i shouldn't have to ask, duh... ![]() ![]() |
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^^Hm..What kinda sammich? Can you cut the crust off?
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Personally I rarely.. take a woman out on the hopes of getting her in bed... .. I take her out because I want to see her.. I want to hear how her day is going.. what her interests are.... what her likes and dislikes are.. really connect with her.. take her for a nice meal a glass of wine somewhere... and maybe before dinner take her out and buy her something nice like a dress or perhaps even some shoes.. and then take her to the lingerie store.. help her pick out some lingerie... oh not that I want to see her in this lingerie.. oh no no that would be wrong of me.. again I'm not interested in being intimate at all..!!... I'm just happy to see her. .Entertainer her.. pay for her meals.. clothing and lingerie... let her know she is a beautiful woman.. and I am just happy to spend time with her.. but never in a sexual way..No no... I mean after all sex isn't that important.... what's really important is keeping her happy.... keeping her feeling like the most beautiful woman on the planet. .. and when she is ready and comfortable and feels. secure in our relationship.. And has stopped worrying about her few extra..Curves.. .... then and only then hopefully she will allow me the pleasure of making love to her.. oh what a beautiful beautiful gift.... ![]() ![]() ![]() .. Now, that is how you should treat your lady - you may have thought it sarcasm, but I can tell you that my husband took great pleasure in taking me shopping, trying things on... (fashion show).. and when we went bra shopping at the specialty stores, could hardly contain the hard-on he got, as he'd get the fashion show from me trying quite a few on...and happy to cough up the $200.00/bra. shopping can be fun boys! Of course I would not expect that nowadays, if/when I am ready to enter into a new relationship.. all I am saying is once you get her, that it helps to keep her.. Happy Wife, Happy Life. its true |
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Hi
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honey can we be friends?
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honey can we be friends? How can she resist that? |
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