Topic: Men wanting sex the day you meet.
no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 05:30 PM
Edited by no1phD on Fri 08/28/15 05:30 PM
no never haveThem to your place !on the first date.. for all you know they could be a psychopath.. meeting them someplace pre-arranged is quite acceptable.. and this way if the first date doesn't work out you can just both ..Politely say goodnight to one another and go your separate ways.. and I'm underlining politely..
no need to get nasty if things do not work out if it is not a match..
I basically wish them all the best of luck and hope they find their true partner

Annierooroo's photo
Fri 08/28/15 06:33 PM

no never haveThem to your place !on the first date.. for all you know they could be a psychopath.. meeting them someplace pre-arranged is quite acceptable.. and this way if the first date doesn't work out you can just both ..Politely say goodnight to one another and go your separate ways.. and I'm underlining politely..
no need to get nasty if things do not work out if it is not a match..
I basically wish them all the best of luck and hope they find their true partner



Thank you I will be polite and ladylike.
Would he feel you are brushing him off if your calendar is full for the next two weeks with family commitments?

Would he loose interest?
How often do you need to communicate with someone to keep them interested?


mightymoe's photo
Fri 08/28/15 06:37 PM

no never haveThem to your place !on the first date.. for all you know they could be a psychopath.. meeting them someplace pre-arranged is quite acceptable.. and this way if the first date doesn't work out you can just both ..Politely say goodnight to one another and go your separate ways.. and I'm underlining politely..
no need to get nasty if things do not work out if it is not a match..
I basically wish them all the best of luck and hope they find their true partner


make sure you tape the cab fare money to her forehead before she wakes up...

kc0003's photo
Fri 08/28/15 07:50 PM
it's an individual choice, plain and simple.

what people chose to do in their personal lives is and should be of no concern to others.

to suggest that anyone is of lesser quality, because they choose to live according to their own beliefs and not yours seems at the very least, narcissistic if not blatantly judgmental. much the same as assuming we [you] know for certain what each and every individual [male] is thinking about when he finds someone that has sex with him on the first date.

statistically, more often than not, first dates do not lead to relationships, so the whole point of your op is moot, anyway.

no photo
Fri 08/28/15 07:52 PM
Sex is much better on a day you meet than on a day you don't meet.

Jack_danniels's photo
Fri 08/28/15 08:57 PM
you surely got a beautiful body

no photo
Fri 08/28/15 11:54 PM
Its jst like a chicken in a new enviroment. It stands on one leg first. Learn to give the ladies time to blend in with the chemistries and physics before trying to push somthing in aiite!!

MaggiePisces's photo
Sat 08/29/15 08:00 AM
Wham, Bang, thank you ma'am...C'mon ladies, do you really want that? Where is your self respect ?

TMommy's photo
Sat 08/29/15 08:06 AM
don't get me wrong I am all for equality in this day and age

and what a grown azz person does is there bizness
nobody else's

unless you make a thread about it on internet..then it's an open ball game




yes indeedy a woman has just as much right as a man to choose casual sex on first meeting



is there a double standard still attached to this ?
a stigma? yep though not as much as say in the 50's or 60's maybe


and perhaps it depends on your age group
whether or not this is common practice amongst your friends


though I would wager the guess that there are many men as well as women
who are 40 and up
who choose to do a meet and greet
get all touchy feely as a physical release
and then go their seperate ways

hondaT's photo
Sat 08/29/15 08:08 AM
It might be down to my experience or slightly age related? I do not know but I do not expect anything other than to try enjoy an others company from a first or second date if it comes to it.

If you click and things do happen it is a mutual agreement/benefit!

Happy dating guys :)

hondaT's photo
Sat 08/29/15 08:13 AM
Hahaha I have had an experience with a psychopath and they will track you down no matter if you ever give them your address sad

no photo
Sat 08/29/15 08:18 AM
Edited by Submaran16 on Sat 08/29/15 08:21 AM
I am one of those men...

Why not go ahead and do it before you get her name...

JudyP94566's photo
Sat 08/29/15 08:20 AM
Hmmmm... I tell them all if you are meeting me just to have sex, forget it, it want happen. I respect myself better than that, Yes I am lonely and want to be with someone, but I want them to want me for more than just sex. I mean don't get me wrong, sex is great when you are making love with someone special in your life, but just to meet to have sex, NO way not gonna happen.

no photo
Sat 08/29/15 08:39 AM

Hmmmm... I tell them all if you are meeting me just to have sex, forget it, it want happen. I respect myself better than that, Yes I am lonely and want to be with someone, but I want them to want me for more than just sex. I mean don't get me wrong, sex is great when you are making love with someone special in your life, but just to meet to have sex, NO way not gonna happen.


I totally agree with you Judy!drinks :thumbsup: if it's just a release you want....no way!noway

sybariticguy's photo
Sat 08/29/15 08:55 AM

if she is amazing she won't be easy. If she is easy won't be amazing
pithy comment trying to pass itself off as wisdom lol.. The speed of two people deciding to be intimate is not specifically a function of the passage of time but rather, what the two people are experiencing with each other in time.....

no photo
Sat 08/29/15 11:49 AM


Together loving each other and making each other happy..
totally agree with this....
and making each other happy means

stop playing so hard to get !and give up the cookies sweetheart.Lol again just kidding..:wink:

You men are always hung up on this "playing hard to get" bollocks. Who says it's anything to do with that? I've often wondered if that maybe is an American thing? Seriously never got this 'hard to get' BS.

I've never played hard to get, but I don't necessarily jump in the sack with a guy on the first date either. If I'm going out with a guy to see if there's something long term there, there's no need (yet) to get intimate, is there? And if all he wants is sex, he ain't the right one for a LTR so why would I waste my time?

How would you feel if you were seeing a woman for a LTR and then find out she's slept with every guy she's dated? Which seems to be what you men want her to do when YOU are on the receiving end. So what if you'd end up with that woman in a LTR? Would you still be happy about it?
I know I wouldn't be keen on being with a man who'd dipped it in everyone he's met.
I don't need to be with a male sl*t. I want a man who can think with the head on his shoulders, even when the one between his legs is screaming.





bidhanruidas's photo
Sat 08/29/15 12:02 PM
yes, i am dating for you babay

no1phD's photo
Sat 08/29/15 01:09 PM

Wham, Bang, thank you ma'am...C'mon ladies, do you really want that? Where is your self respect ?
.. wham bam thank you ma'am..
who are you sleeping with on the first date? lol... it's usually wham bam thank you!!!.. PhD... mmmh hmmm

SitkaRains's photo
Sat 08/29/15 01:23 PM

sick licking my face

Thanks

On the first date can you meet somewhere or is it better he picks you up?

If you do have a meeting place would that give him the wrong idea that you not really into him or your hiding something. ?




NO Annie, there is nothing wrong with meeting somewhere else..
NEVER EVER meet in an unsafe place.. Your home would be unsafe..You don't know this person period.
A person can say anything they want to on the internet, phone, skype, viber, you name it. Til you meet in real time better to be safe than sorry..



Bottom line back on topic..

Each gender does it
if you are legal age
who cares..


As for buying a woman dinner to get her into bed..
Dang I thought that went out in the 60's..


I have rarely had a man pay for my meal on a first date..
So maybe that is where I am going wrong..





no photo
Sat 08/29/15 02:05 PM
<<<<< pays for the first and the second and the thi.....


well you get the picture