Topic: Men wanting sex the day you meet.
no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 03:49 PM
So I guess ladies if you don't want to give up the goods then you better pick up the bill lol

Annierooroo's photo
Fri 08/28/15 03:55 PM
blushing rofl

Oh my gosh
I fell hook, line and sinker again .

frustrated
can't believe it

rofl
You will keep


no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:06 PM

sad

Oh my gosh that was one if the most beautiful things I have read
Tears flowing down
I knew you were all heart. :heart:
Thanks No1

Wow so moved.


..haha.... this topic is making guys out to seem like a bunch of horn dogs.. I have noticed women are worse than men when it comes to this topic... of who wants to get into who's pants more.... I used to think men wear worse until I started dating..
now I know women are worse than men.. believe me the stories I could tell you.laugh surprised :angel:

Annierooroo's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:20 PM
Not all women are like that.
One day you will meet her and be amazed .
She will totally do the opposite to your expectations.
She will move you in a way you have never been moved.
She will hook you brother and you will not let her go.
You will be treated like a king in your own castle.
When this happens just remember what I said.

Your right both can play games to benefit themselves.
It's a choice to play or not

no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:21 PM
Ok..:thumbsup: flowerforyou .. but this dream woman she is going to put out on the first date right?laugh :wink:

Annierooroo's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:27 PM
If she did that it would be what you expect.

She will reel you in and you will remember what I have said and laugh .

biggrin
That my brother is my wish for you.

no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:31 PM
Well to be honest with you sister lol..
I don't go out on a date expecting very much of anything but a few laughs and a pleasant meal..
if we have sex that's just a bonus..

but I know what you mean.. for some weird reason.. women have it ingrained in their head if you make a man wait for intimacy he will appreciate you and it more...

Personally... making me wait.. just makes me wonder what is she making me wait for lol... chop chop woman times tickin..laugh

tta1128's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:39 PM

Personally I rarely.. take a woman out on the hopes of getting her in bed...
.. I take her out because I want to see her.. I want to hear how her day is going.. what her interests are.... what her likes and dislikes are.. really connect with her.. take her for a nice meal a glass of wine somewhere... and maybe before dinner take her out and buy her something nice like a dress or perhaps even some shoes.. and then take her to the lingerie store.. help her pick out some lingerie... oh not that I want to see her in this lingerie.. oh no no that would be wrong of me..
again I'm not interested in being intimate at all..!!... I'm just happy to see her. .Entertainer her.. pay for her meals.. clothing and lingerie... let her know she is a beautiful woman.. and I am just happy to spend time with her..
but never in a sexual way..No no... I mean after all sex isn't that important.... what's really important is keeping her happy.... keeping her feeling like the most beautiful woman on the planet. .. and when she is ready and comfortable and feels. secure in our relationship.. And has stopped worrying about her few extra..Curves..
.... then and only then hopefully she will allow me the pleasure of making love to her.. oh what a beautiful beautiful gift....laugh :wink: slaphead
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I want a date with you. lol. Dress. Shoes (btw - I Love 5 to 6" platform heels). Lingerie. And Dinner? Check check and check mate. lol

no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:44 PM


Personally I rarely.. take a woman out on the hopes of getting her in bed...
.. I take her out because I want to see her.. I want to hear how her day is going.. what her interests are.... what her likes and dislikes are.. really connect with her.. take her for a nice meal a glass of wine somewhere... and maybe before dinner take her out and buy her something nice like a dress or perhaps even some shoes.. and then take her to the lingerie store.. help her pick out some lingerie... oh not that I want to see her in this lingerie.. oh no no that would be wrong of me..
again I'm not interested in being intimate at all..!!... I'm just happy to see her. .Entertainer her.. pay for her meals.. clothing and lingerie... let her know she is a beautiful woman.. and I am just happy to spend time with her..
but never in a sexual way..No no... I mean after all sex isn't that important.... what's really important is keeping her happy.... keeping her feeling like the most beautiful woman on the planet. .. and when she is ready and comfortable and feels. secure in our relationship.. And has stopped worrying about her few extra..Curves..
.... then and only then hopefully she will allow me the pleasure of making love to her.. oh what a beautiful beautiful gift....laugh :wink: slaphead
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I want a date with you. lol. Dress. Shoes (btw - I Love 5 to 6" platform heels). Lingerie. And Dinner? Check check and check mate. lol
.. hey youwaving correct me if I'm wrong I think we already have a arrangement if we are ever in each other's cities that we are definitely going out shopping and for dinner..
and you are pretty tall I think a nice 3 inch heel would be perfect loldrinker

Annierooroo's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:51 PM
I hear and understand what you are saying.

Thank you for your insight .
I have so much to learn

But one thing I do know I pay my own way.
I may insult them but it's not intentionally.

I don't know how I would handle it if he wanted to pay
I would be thinking does he expect something at the end of the night?

How do you deal with this without insulting the dude?

How would you bring it up so it's clear and there's no miss understanding?

no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:56 PM
Edited by no1phD on Fri 08/28/15 04:58 PM
Ohh.. that's easy when you are talking about going out for dinner orDrinks..
just say I would really appreciate it if you let me pay for my own dinner or drinks..... because this way.. I won't feel like if I paid the whole bill.. you would feel like you would have to put out for me lol

ZenSoul79's photo
Fri 08/28/15 04:59 PM
Boys are the overeager ones who want it the most.
Men EARN that privelege.

Man the hell up, be prepared to wait however long it takes if you really want it to be something EARNED and not given, and for god's sakes, guys, if you're the best kind of guy there is, don't brag about it to everybody afterwards.

Patience pays off. Exercise it often, and your world will get a whole lot larger.

tta1128's photo
Fri 08/28/15 05:01 PM
Edited by tta1128 on Fri 08/28/15 05:02 PM
I want a date with you. lol. Dress. Shoes (btw - I Love 5 to 6" platform heels). Lingerie. And Dinner? Check check and check mate. lol
.. hey youwaving correct me if I'm wrong I think we already have a arrangement if we are ever in each other's cities that we are definitely going out shopping and for dinner..
and you are pretty tall I think a nice 3 inch heel would be perfect loldrinker 3" heel? Not. And no we've never made that arrangement. And obviously you don't know me - tall? 5'1" is not tall. smooched

Annierooroo's photo
Fri 08/28/15 05:02 PM
Cool thanks
Will keep that in mind

Do you have to kiss on the first date?
If you do would he get the wrong idea?


no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 05:03 PM
Are you sure?.. oh wait a minute I could be thinking of someone else lol..
well if you are correct And let me stop here and say you look taller in your pictures.. okay now let me just say well in that case if you ever find yourself here and if I ever find myself there guess what we're doing lol that is beside sex ;-):wink: :wink:

tta1128's photo
Fri 08/28/15 05:03 PM
I want a date with you. lol. Dress. Shoes (btw - I Love 5 to 6" platform heels). Lingerie. And Dinner? Check check and check mate. lol
.. hey youwaving correct me if I'm wrong I think we already have a arrangement if we are ever in each other's cities that we are definitely going out shopping and for dinner..
and you are pretty tall I think a nice 3 inch heel would be perfect
loldrinker 3" heel? Not. And no we've never made that arrangement. And obviously you don't know me - tall? 5'1" is not tall. smooched

no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 05:09 PM

Cool thanks
Will keep that in mind
,
Do you have to kiss on the first date?
If you do would he get the wrong idea?


.. no you don't have to kiss him on the lips.. but if you like him a kiss on the cheek and if you really like him a little kiss on the lips but you control the kiss ..don't let him control it . because he'll just lick your face off .. LOL JK

no1phD's photo
Fri 08/28/15 05:10 PM

I want a date with you. lol. Dress. Shoes (btw - I Love 5 to 6" platform heels). Lingerie. And Dinner? Check check and check mate. lol
.. hey youwaving correct me if I'm wrong I think we already have a arrangement if we are ever in each other's cities ..that we are definitely going out shopping and for dinner..
and you are pretty tall I think a nice 3 inch heel would be perfect
loldrinker
3" heel? Not. And no we've never made that arrangement. And obviously you don't know me - tall? 5'1" is not tall. smooched

.. funny I think I have heard this before lol

tta1128's photo
Fri 08/28/15 05:13 PM

Are you sure?.. oh wait a minute I could be thinking of someone else lol..
well if you are correct And let me stop here and say you look taller in your pictures.. okay now let me just say well in that case if you ever find yourself here and if I ever find myself there guess what we're doing lol that is beside sex ;-):wink: :wink:
Mhmmm. Okay shorty. I understand. lol

Annierooroo's photo
Fri 08/28/15 05:16 PM
sick licking my face

Thanks

On the first date can you meet somewhere or is it better he picks you up?

If you do have a meeting place would that give him the wrong idea that you not really into him or your hiding something. ?