100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Previous
| Topic: Worldwide dating possibilities? Your preferences/limitations | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
its too complicated for a single mom who is struggling as it is
I have been there, immigration is not a simple task,, unless one of you is loaded or you know some 'sponsor' in the desired country who is,,,, |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
hello can we chat
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ... Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ? Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like. I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ... The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation. I agree that the world in a sense is getting smaller in the aspect we can converse, see, meet people from all over the world. For a lot of people that isn't a possibility for what ever reason. I know that I have never put restrictions on where the person rather on the compatibility of said person. I know that neither my guy or I was looking for a relationship when it happened. He is in another country. I can think of at least half a dozen couples on this site that are LDR's with countries separating them. So for some it will work for others nope not going to happen. As for the cost of the money let me ask you this instead. Lets say you met a woman on this site that is your match but she can't afford the entire trip cost by herself would you help her like lets say match her dollar per dollar to come visit or send for you to visit? Cant be one way it has to be mutual |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I gave you other options where it could be possible. Just a matter of using the brains a bit + some effort. for some it isn't an option. some struggle as it is, let alone adding a long distance relationship into it. Sure, then don't say it's not an option, just say it's a choice :) NO, for some it isn't a choice, it is not a option. simple. There is always an option when someone really wants something. not always. I give up.  For this case it's a matter of money, not a big deal so when someone really wants to get some cash it's possible. Just a matter of choice. well what does it matter you have lots of cash, so if she cant afford it, you can. you make it sounds so easy, it may be for you, but not for everyone. it is easy, i've done it many times :D Like I said it's just about wanting it or not ... i.e ... choice :) + the mental limitations (believing you can't) if it's as easy as you say, and if you're as fabulous as you claim, you would already be at the destination of your choice enjoying the company of a scintillating, adoring partner. your reality works for you and that's great. as for me, I'm happy where I am. ive enjoyed travel but always enjoy coming home. I love my little town and those around me. I never thought I might want to leave my town but I've met someone (in the real world) from a similar town an hour away. having gotten to know him in real life, seeing the real person, sure I would consider moving to be with him and his son. our ideals are similar. our hopes in life balance nicely. we mesh well and are building a solid relationship. do I have to foot the bill to move? no, I do not because he doesn't believe a woman should carry the man financially. good luck on your search. I hope you find the kind of person I have found. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited for targeting other members.
Kindly refrain from admonishing other posters. soufie Site Moderator |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
i don't get the "grass is greener somewhere else" saying, there's enough women here for me to choose, if i need to make a choice... the only way i would consider it is meeting them first in person, rather than on the internet...
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
FunGiggles2
on
Sun 08/16/15 04:22 PM
|
|
MMMMMMMMMMMMMM travel - yep many places before. Now I agree seeing some place new takes on new meaning.I intend to touch down on 6 continents -I would like to do all 6 in 2016.
Now finding [that friend] that is the tough one! Albuquerque Nm is my Home! Bruno criteria: to find a worthy-trust worthy friend for travel and why it works HEART-SAUCE [my word] LOVEN also my [word] Loven, is Q..Qualities 1: truth above everything else, all can be fun- but without honesty nothing can be real. To understand that trust is something that is earned, not given away with matching interests. The surest way to a broken heart is to trust somebody who has not earned the trust and through a matching technique has provided a false sense of companionship which is neither true nor hme! Heart sauce is the same energy feel at a baseball stadium when the Star-Spangled Banner is onest nor worthy of a memory. Bruno-Gift 08-06-15 a term created by me to explain the two components of the human condition. Part a: has to do with the biological interrelationships of human beings. Part B: his heart sauce, another term created by sung. It sends chills and tears through the crowd as heart sauce is squeezed from the words as they are sung. Heart sauce is felt, as a form of energy when words that are spoken enter the EAR, are transferred to the brain, to the mind, back again, down the spine, touches the heart area of the physical body- and then is shot back to the voice muscles. It comes out as a chuckle, giggle, laughter, or if truly awesome a bawling blast of tears of joy![No not from a book from my heart and past experience} Q-qualities are required to x-ray the spirit inside the human being. When 20 1Q qualities are identified that are admired by the other person then if honesty and integrity underlies them all- the term friend could be granted. For at that point in time, the qualities of trust that the other person values are the 21 most treasured by themselves. Life is a 600 page book. Today we meet on page 343. The future before us is an unwritten script- are is to determine pages 344 two 599. Page 600 is the last beat of our heart. So to travel, with an honest[never met a person who didn't say they were an honest] but with 20 1Q qualities the chances are the fun of the journey shared with another will produce laughter and giggles and memories to be treasured for a lifetime. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ... Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ? Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like. I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ... The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation. I agree that the world in a sense is getting smaller in the aspect we can converse, see, meet people from all over the world. For a lot of people that isn't a possibility for what ever reason. I know that I have never put restrictions on where the person rather on the compatibility of said person. I know that neither my guy or I was looking for a relationship when it happened. He is in another country. I can think of at least half a dozen couples on this site that are LDR's with countries separating them. So for some it will work for others nope not going to happen. As for the cost of the money let me ask you this instead. Lets say you met a woman on this site that is your match but she can't afford the entire trip cost by herself would you help her like lets say match her dollar per dollar to come visit or send for you to visit? Cant be one way it has to be mutual ---------------------------------------------- I know that I have never put restrictions on where the person rather on the compatibility of said person. I know that neither my guy or I was looking for a relationship when it happened. He is in another country. I can think of at least half a dozen couples on this site that are LDR's with countries separating them. Like you said, your restrictions were not on because neither of your looking... most on a date site are. And in fairness, since it has been previously posted... The LDR is between USA & Canada. 2 Western, border counties, with more in common than either would like to admit... cranky cousins  That is a BIG difference, than, wanting or attempting an LDR with someone across the globe. Most likely living in another culture Most people have no desire to date outside of their country, state or even town. And need real & regular physical contact, bonding etc. It doesn't matter to most, if they can afford it or not. Few in USA, would be willing to give citizenship or residency... or give one away.. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
aarvin1985
on
Sun 08/16/15 09:15 PM
|
|
Lets say you met a woman on this site that is your match but she can't afford the entire trip cost by herself would you help her like lets say match her dollar per dollar to come visit or send for you to visit? Cant be one way it has to be mutual If we connect, if she's amazing, if she's the rare kind of woman I want and like and if we've spent time on webcam and get along ... ABSOLUTELY! :) When I was still building my company and was perfecting my skills(had no money), women came to see me a couple of times from the other side of the world :) But now the situation has changed, and I have helped quite a few people with money, so that we could meet. If a woman was really amazing, I would not hesitate a second to pay for her whole ticket. Amazing women are getting very rare and I think money is nothing when compared to the feeling of being with someone you can really connect with.  |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Sure it's a free site, but the minimum wage in the US, UK , FRANCE (countries I know ) is around $1000, 1000 Pounds and 1000 Euros. So come on with a little effort $2000 for a ticket is achievable(tickets are generally way cheaper than $2000) ... when there is a will there is a way ...  Besides, if 2 people love each other, they can help each other  When I was still a student, a lady paid for my ticket ... and later on when I started to earn some cash, I paid the ticket or financially helped other women to come ... when there is a will there is a way   Yea where there is a will by a con artist there is a way to bully lonely people into explotive relationships. Sounds like all you are proposing is helping your self to free travel and whatever else you can sweet talk out of people who actually work to earn the money you spend. Eventually you are going to mess up and sell yourself into something a whole lot less nicer than "love". Sex trafficking is a alive and well all over the world but it doesn't mean it can not and will not end up in misery. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
MMMMMMMMMMMMMM travel - yep many places before. Now I agree seeing some place new takes on new meaning.I intend to touch down on 6 continents -I would like to do all 6 in 2016. Now finding [that friend] that is the tough one! Albuquerque Nm is my Home! Bruno criteria: to find a worthy-trust worthy friend for travel and why it works HEART-SAUCE [my word] LOVEN also my [word] Loven, is Q..Qualities 1: truth above everything else, all can be fun- but without honesty nothing can be real. To understand that trust is something that is earned, not given away with matching interests. The surest way to a broken heart is to trust somebody who has not earned the trust and through a matching technique has provided a false sense of companionship which is neither true nor hme! Heart sauce is the same energy feel at a baseball stadium when the Star-Spangled Banner is onest nor worthy of a memory. Bruno-Gift 08-06-15 a term created by me to explain the two components of the human condition. Part a: has to do with the biological interrelationships of human beings. Part B: his heart sauce, another term created by sung. It sends chills and tears through the crowd as heart sauce is squeezed from the words as they are sung. Heart sauce is felt, as a form of energy when words that are spoken enter the EAR, are transferred to the brain, to the mind, back again, down the spine, touches the heart area of the physical body- and then is shot back to the voice muscles. It comes out as a chuckle, giggle, laughter, or if truly awesome a bawling blast of tears of joy![No not from a book from my heart and past experience} Q-qualities are required to x-ray the spirit inside the human being. When 20 1Q qualities are identified that are admired by the other person then if honesty and integrity underlies them all- the term friend could be granted. For at that point in time, the qualities of trust that the other person values are the 21 most treasured by themselves. Life is a 600 page book. Today we meet on page 343. The future before us is an unwritten script- are is to determine pages 344 two 599. Page 600 is the last beat of our heart. So to travel, with an honest[never met a person who didn't say they were an honest] but with 20 1Q qualities the chances are the fun of the journey shared with another will produce laughter and giggles and memories to be treasured for a lifetime.   This is a very very interesting post that you made, being an audio engineer myself I have always wondered what gives chills to people. Could you recommend any book which talks about the subject in more details please ? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
aarvin1985
on
Sun 08/16/15 10:09 PM
|
|
In life there will be always bright happy optimists and positive people ... and negative sour pessimists and limited people who see darkness in even the brightest situations ...
Guess which one of those people live richer, fuller lives
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Dr Seuss???
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Happy Shiny People by REM?? This is a fun game
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Pacific Star48, quote
" where there is a will by a con artist there is a way to bully lonely people into explotive relationships. Sounds like all you are proposing is helping your self to free travel and whatever else you can sweet talk out of people who actually work to earn the money you spend. Eventually you are going to mess up and sell yourself into something a whole lot less nicer than "love". Sex trafficking is a alive and well all over the world but it doesn't mean it can not and will not end up in misery."  You Rock |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Dr Seuss??? Are you sure ? |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Dr Seuss??? Are you sure ? Green eggs and Iam 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
:D
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I gave you other options where it could be possible. Just a matter of using the brains a bit + some effort. Oh, I think American women use their brains & their money... wiser that you think. And with so many people, the 3rd most populated country in the world, most women have a rainbow selection of men, to choose from. Real men, that don't expect them to pay to come them or act like something is wrong with them or their thinking or life choices, or if they have no desire to leave their country for a stranger or ever.. Children have temper tantrums & try to manipulate & decieve & to get their way from Mommy... Not real men. Real men- would move heaven & Earth to be with a woman he truly wants. Bullseye  Very well said  Outside Mingle: Caution is not just necessary it is a necessity, particulary if it is directly proportional with my 'blood&sweat' hard-earned euro.. Inside Mingle: a matter of semantics..'we differ only what we mean' BTW: Thumbs up too for Ms. Debbie..cool and to the point ma'am |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Birds of the same kind flock together
|
|
|
|
|
