Topic: Worldwide dating possibilities? Your preferences/limitations
aarvin1985's photo
Tue 08/18/15 12:34 AM




Oh, I think American women use their brains & their money... wiser that you think.
And with so many people, the 3rd most populated country in the world, most women have a rainbow selection of men, to choose from.





Which is surely why many classy, successful American men choose to partner with their more feminine, classy, intelligent, well educated and highly cultured female counterparts from Europe, Russia etc ... rofl

chronicliar75's photo
Tue 08/18/15 07:46 PM

oh dear.. must have struck a nerve..

My take:

i always admire "stylish and sophisticated'people
my definition of classy..
While we always strive to be a better version of ourselves,
i have to accept the fact, that
even if I will live a hundred and 20,
'stylish' & myself is not a happy combination
Sophisticated on the other hand, is
something that can be work on,
if you put your mind on it..

"Well-educated and highly cultured"
a highschool geometry for me..

OUTSIDE MINGLE: First handshake: equiangular triangle tooooo Warm Hugs goodbye: Scalene Triangle
60 degrees to Educational attainment
60 degrees to Respect
60 degrees to My hard-earned money

Education, phd's and masterals..is always impressive
BUT, I am very particular with MY money..
No matter, how well educated you are and highly cultured,
you cant intimidate me if..
I have more - save up 'blood&sweat' hard-earned euros in my savings account
Whaaamm..Scalene triangle!
Respect would always be in 60 degrees though..
For me they represent the academic world..
The academe.,they deserve respect whoever u are, wherever you are..

INSIDE MINGLE: overrated
Highly cultured?- duh..semantics eh?bigsmile


'more feminine (best part ever)'

Matter of tastes,standards & kinks.. too broad a spectrum to discuss..
Since I just made a blunder on another thread, the other day: FALLACY AD HOMINEM,
id' rather not push the envelope,
while I wanted to be just really myself..
being my 'obnoxious' self.. would be 2 words: ominous and circus

I'll concede, I'm more masculine than other men..more masculine than you..rofl rofl
That is why, I joined mingle..
I need 1 good man, more masculine than I am now.
Preferably, someone who can bring out the 'more feminine' side ofme..:tongue:

Compensations of not being 'more feminine':
Fun.Food.& chess..metaphors or no metaphors:tongue: bigsmile


Either "my take" inspires you in a positive or negative way, or makes you shrug..
...Im just glad it makes your heart pump more blood..

Good for blood circulation.tongue2 rofl

aarvin1985's photo
Wed 08/19/15 01:00 AM
Edited by aarvin1985 on Wed 08/19/15 01:06 AM


oh dear.. must have struck a nerve..



Based on the length of opinionated ramblings(R.I.P logic and facts) I was seeing from far (yes I actually stopped after reading a couple of lines deprived from any logic and facts), and time put into writing it , i'm sure that it was "MY" nerves which got stuck. rofl

Which again supports the reason of why successful American men choose to partner with their more feminine, classy, intelligent, well educated and highly cultured female counterparts from Europe, Russia etc ... I really can't blame them rofl

no photo
Wed 08/19/15 01:23 AM
Edited by SassyEuro2 on Wed 08/19/15 01:25 AM


http://youtu.be/PeXjBWN8LO8/

:banana:



chronicliar75's photo
Wed 08/19/15 09:37 PM



oh dear.. must have struck a nerve..



Based on the length of opinionated ramblings(R.I.P logic and facts) I was seeing from far (yes I actually stopped after reading a couple of lines deprived from any logic and facts), and time put into writing it , i'm sure that it was "MY" nerves which got stuck. rofl

Which again supports the reason of why successful American men choose to partner with their more feminine, classy, intelligent, well educated and highly cultured female counterparts from Europe, Russia etc ... I really can't blame them rofl


Aha! think Gotcha..laugh

Is it really hard to admit?bigsmile that you read the whole post..and dont like the opinions/ramblings?
You could just say. I disagree with u.. and say why you disagree:)

On a serious note though:

Brand is just a perception, and perception will match reality over time. Sometimes it will be ahead, other times it will be behind. But brand is simply a collective impression some have about a product.

-Elon Musk

You are a man. Your God designed you to be one. Work hard for your own money. Example: A $2000 is a $2000.

On a lighter side!bigsmile

Two thousand grand is 2,000 GRAND..

Try harder.. uhm i mean work harderrofl

2bhappy4ever's photo
Wed 08/19/15 09:48 PM

The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ...


Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ?

Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like.

I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ...


The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation.



Certainly if she was the one I would travel the globe for her. Still it would be hard to leave family behind for me.

dreamerana's photo
Wed 08/19/15 11:10 PM


oh dear.. must have struck a nerve..

My take:

i always admire "stylish and sophisticated'people
my definition of classy..
While we always strive to be a better version of ourselves,
i have to accept the fact, that
even if I will live a hundred and 20,
'stylish' & myself is not a happy combination
Sophisticated on the other hand, is
something that can be work on,
if you put your mind on it..

"Well-educated and highly cultured"
a highschool geometry for me..

OUTSIDE MINGLE: First handshake: equiangular triangle tooooo Warm Hugs goodbye: Scalene Triangle
60 degrees to Educational attainment
60 degrees to Respect
60 degrees to My hard-earned money

Education, phd's and masterals..is always impressive
BUT, I am very particular with MY money..
No matter, how well educated you are and highly cultured,
you cant intimidate me if..
I have more - save up 'blood&sweat' hard-earned euros in my savings account
Whaaamm..Scalene triangle!
Respect would always be in 60 degrees though..
For me they represent the academic world..
The academe.,they deserve respect whoever u are, wherever you are..

INSIDE MINGLE: overrated
Highly cultured?- duh..semantics eh?bigsmile


'more feminine (best part ever)'

Matter of tastes,standards & kinks.. too broad a spectrum to discuss..
Since I just made a blunder on another thread, the other day: FALLACY AD HOMINEM,
id' rather not push the envelope,
while I wanted to be just really myself..
being my 'obnoxious' self.. would be 2 words: ominous and circus

I'll concede, I'm more masculine than other men..more masculine than you..rofl rofl
That is why, I joined mingle..
I need 1 good man, more masculine than I am now.
Preferably, someone who can bring out the 'more feminine' side ofme..:tongue:

Compensations of not being 'more feminine':
Fun.Food.& chess..metaphors or no metaphors:tongue: bigsmile


Either "my take" inspires you in a positive or negative way, or makes you shrug..
...Im just glad it makes your heart pump more blood..

Good for blood circulation.tongue2 rofl

wish there was a round of applause icon. drinker

aarvin1985's photo
Thu 08/20/15 01:34 AM


The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ...


Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ?

Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like.

I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ...


The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation.



Certainly if she was the one I would travel the globe for her. Still it would be hard to leave family behind for me.


Many things which are worth it are pretty hard ;)

1onlyaname's photo
Thu 08/20/15 01:51 AM
you can get round trips cheaper than that half that. I've flown to china to have dinner with a woman china was fantastic!!! Google says eastern Europe n Asian make best wives.

June2014's photo
Thu 08/20/15 02:57 PM
Edited by June2014 on Thu 08/20/15 03:01 PM
flowerforyou Love is like to invest in stocks to some extent, there is a certain risk behavior, if inexperienced, it may still be an extremely risky behavior. Put more risk you want to assume the greater, but the benefits may also follow greater.

People demand nothing but two aspects, one material, the second is spiritual. Life, the ultimate pursuit of these two areas can not escape, but some people focus on material terms, and some people focus on the spiritual aspect.
Most of the money as a carrier substance ,it needs substances, we have to find ways to make more money, work paychecks, Office of the company business is to make money more money, and invest in stocks seems to be more efficient one way, it is clear that there is considerable risk, but one of the funds you invest the greater the risk you want to assume the greater.If you derive income through, in order to get more revenue, you put the money where it is possible to more and more, we knew some of you may not rational, and the focus of life, or even put all our energy where possible unable to extricate themselves, you will become more and more passive, which has been caught in too deep, it seems impossible to think to withdraw, at least, very difficult. Until one day, like the stock market crash, you will lose all of his life, lose a step confused.

Love is spiritual things. Want to get love, of course you have to give love, give love in fact equivalent to an investment, there are likely to invest only income, there is no gain love give love possible. But investment does not mean that there must be a profit and paid a love does not necessarily gain you want to love, at least not be able to gain love and you pay the equivalent of way, of course you will be disappointed and sad.

If you do not put in and pay, or pay less, you end up getting nothing or very little. People want to make big money and do not want to take some risks, both want to see the distant beautiful scenery, but also for fear of the storm struck or unwilling involvement. Can there be such a good thing?

I believe love is an adventure, love takes courage. Want to give love must be able to withstand this possible risk, it is impossible not to give love gotta love, little pay, you can not get more.
:smile:

Anyway, you are so brave to start LDR! flowerforyou

chronicliar75's photo
Thu 08/20/15 08:17 PM


The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ...


Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ?

Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like.

I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ...


The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation.



Certainly if she was the one I would travel the globe for her. Still it would be hard to leave family behind for me.


Take heart Sir.

Choose someone who would accept and understand your priorities.
If she truly loves you.. then she will meet you halfway and compromise.

If I may suggest: It is sensible though, if you would take time to get to
know women, nearer your location, more accessible in terms of budget,
or women you find, wouldn't be too culture shock with the lifestyle you have.
I'm quite positive, there is someone who would be more than willing to meet you halfway, nearer and not across the world,
if she really believes in her heart, you are the one for her.
Saves pain and time in both parties.bigsmile

She could just be the woman in the same supermarket with you,
the one you always feel incredulous, the way she chooses her meat and vegetables..lol:tongue: bigsmile

All the best:)

aarvin1985's photo
Fri 08/21/15 01:53 AM

flowerforyou Love is like to invest in stocks to some extent, there is a certain risk behavior, if inexperienced, it may still be an extremely risky behavior. Put more risk you want to assume the greater, but the benefits may also follow greater.

People demand nothing but two aspects, one material, the second is spiritual. Life, the ultimate pursuit of these two areas can not escape, but some people focus on material terms, and some people focus on the spiritual aspect.
Most of the money as a carrier substance ,it needs substances, we have to find ways to make more money, work paychecks, Office of the company business is to make money more money, and invest in stocks seems to be more efficient one way, it is clear that there is considerable risk, but one of the funds you invest the greater the risk you want to assume the greater.If you derive income through, in order to get more revenue, you put the money where it is possible to more and more, we knew some of you may not rational, and the focus of life, or even put all our energy where possible unable to extricate themselves, you will become more and more passive, which has been caught in too deep, it seems impossible to think to withdraw, at least, very difficult. Until one day, like the stock market crash, you will lose all of his life, lose a step confused.

Love is spiritual things. Want to get love, of course you have to give love, give love in fact equivalent to an investment, there are likely to invest only income, there is no gain love give love possible. But investment does not mean that there must be a profit and paid a love does not necessarily gain you want to love, at least not be able to gain love and you pay the equivalent of way, of course you will be disappointed and sad.

If you do not put in and pay, or pay less, you end up getting nothing or very little. People want to make big money and do not want to take some risks, both want to see the distant beautiful scenery, but also for fear of the storm struck or unwilling involvement. Can there be such a good thing?

I believe love is an adventure, love takes courage. Want to give love must be able to withstand this possible risk, it is impossible not to give love gotta love, little pay, you can not get more.
:smile:

Anyway, you are so brave to start LDR! flowerforyou


This is clearly the most intelligent and wise piece of writing I saw on this site till now! You are spot on, top notch analogy! Wow finally some brains in here! flowers

1onlyaname's photo
Fri 08/21/15 10:00 AM
explore the world if I had it all to do over again I do what I'm doing now. don't be afraid to jump on a plane a meet someone. you get to experience different cultures different ways of life. yeah I want more than coffee at starbucks

TMommy's photo
Fri 08/21/15 10:48 AM
would I be willing to fly to other side of the globe...wtf..I ain't even willing to drive to other side of my state spock slaphead

prashant01's photo
Fri 08/21/15 11:05 AM
...................And me not even willing to go out of my study room....just stuck up with lappy

dreamerana's photo
Fri 08/21/15 12:19 PM
strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at.
we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over.

TMommy's photo
Fri 08/21/15 12:24 PM

strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at.
we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over.

well now you are just being silly slaphead bigsmile

1onlyaname's photo
Fri 08/21/15 12:27 PM
strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at.
we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over.

have you been to a place its 80 degrees every day all year, have fresh water stream that runs into the sea, food so damn fresh meat is slaughtered daily. medicine grows on trees. people trying to survive life and actually friendly because they depend on each other. I have no clue why Americans think USA is the best place to live. to each their own.

no photo
Fri 08/21/15 12:29 PM

strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at.
we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over.



exactly. im very happy in the uk, and I wouldn't live anywhere else

Im looking for a relationship with some more local to me.

I don't want long distance, and I CAN afford it, I just don't want it, its not for me.

aarvin1985's photo
Sat 08/22/15 05:04 AM

strange though it sounds, there are those in the world who like the life in the place we're at.
we can enjoy a relationship with a local person without the need to search the world over.

have you been to a place its 80 degrees every day all year, have fresh water stream that runs into the sea, food so damn fresh meat is slaughtered daily. medicine grows on trees. people trying to survive life and actually friendly because they depend on each other. I have no clue why Americans think USA is the best place to live. to each their own.



Absolutely :) But hey, some people have low standards, some have higher standards :)