Topic: Worldwide dating possibilities? Your preferences/limitations
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Sun 08/16/15 04:51 AM


Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.

Based on your posts. You want a sugar mama & hoped or believed women would line up & post saying.... " Oh I would go anywhere or do anything for true love "
They you would have a list of potential targets / cash cows?

And that is not happening. But... you made the thread a question, & people see through it.

:banana:


I Don't need a sugar mama or whatever I got my own cash ;)

Nice try though ;)


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Sun 08/16/15 04:52 AM
Edited by aarvin1985 on Sun 08/16/15 04:55 AM


The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ...

Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ?

Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like.

I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ...

The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation.



I have met two people from abroad, one a woman (who looked nothing like her photos in her profile) and one a guy (who was supposed to meet a woman in china but opted to meet a another woman in usa).

I arranged to meet with a woman in Holland, and she did not turn up so all in all that kind of made me lose faith in LDR's

Sometimes too you just want to meet with someone like the girl next door, who you have lots more in common with.

shades






So you go and meet someone without even contacting her and seeing her via her webcam ? LOL

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Sun 08/16/15 04:58 AM







I gave you other options where it could be possible. Just a matter of using the brains a bit + some effort.


for some it isn't an option. some struggle as it is, let alone adding a long distance relationship into it.


Sure, then don't say it's not an option, just say it's a choice :)


NO, for some it isn't a choice, it is not a option. simple.


There is always an option when someone really wants something.


not always. I give up. frustrated frustrated


For this case it's a matter of money, not a big deal so when someone really wants to get some cash it's possible. Just a matter of choice.


well what does it matter you have lots of cash, so if she cant afford it, you can. you make it sounds so easy, it may be for you, but not for everyone.

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Sun 08/16/15 05:00 AM
it is easy, i've done it many times :D

Like I said it's just about wanting it or not ... i.e ... choice :)

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Sun 08/16/15 05:02 AM








I gave you other options where it could be possible. Just a matter of using the brains a bit + some effort.


for some it isn't an option. some struggle as it is, let alone adding a long distance relationship into it.


Sure, then don't say it's not an option, just say it's a choice :)


NO, for some it isn't a choice, it is not a option. simple.


There is always an option when someone really wants something.


not always. I give up. frustrated frustrated


For this case it's a matter of money, not a big deal so when someone really wants to get some cash it's possible. Just a matter of choice.


well what does it matter you have lots of cash, so if she cant afford it, you can. you make it sounds so easy, it may be for you, but not for everyone.


it is easy, i've done it many times :D

Like I said it's just about wanting it or not ... i.e ... choice :)

+ the mental limitations (believing you can't)

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Sun 08/16/15 05:03 AM









I gave you other options where it could be possible. Just a matter of using the brains a bit + some effort.


for some it isn't an option. some struggle as it is, let alone adding a long distance relationship into it.


Sure, then don't say it's not an option, just say it's a choice :)


NO, for some it isn't a choice, it is not a option. simple.


There is always an option when someone really wants something.


not always. I give up. frustrated frustrated


For this case it's a matter of money, not a big deal so when someone really wants to get some cash it's possible. Just a matter of choice.


well what does it matter you have lots of cash, so if she cant afford it, you can. you make it sounds so easy, it may be for you, but not for everyone.


it is easy, i've done it many times :D

Like I said it's just about wanting it or not ... i.e ... choice :)

+ the mental limitations (believing you can't)


I really do give up. slaphead slaphead slaphead

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Sun 08/16/15 05:05 AM










I gave you other options where it could be possible. Just a matter of using the brains a bit + some effort.


for some it isn't an option. some struggle as it is, let alone adding a long distance relationship into it.


Sure, then don't say it's not an option, just say it's a choice :)


NO, for some it isn't a choice, it is not a option. simple.


There is always an option when someone really wants something.


not always. I give up. frustrated frustrated


For this case it's a matter of money, not a big deal so when someone really wants to get some cash it's possible. Just a matter of choice.


well what does it matter you have lots of cash, so if she cant afford it, you can. you make it sounds so easy, it may be for you, but not for everyone.


it is easy, i've done it many times :D

Like I said it's just about wanting it or not ... i.e ... choice :)

+ the mental limitations (believing you can't)


I really do give up. slaphead slaphead slaphead


It's so much easier with intelligent people, logical thinking flows so much easier :)

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Sun 08/16/15 05:06 AM



Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.

Based on your posts. You want a sugar mama & hoped or believed women would line up & post saying.... " Oh I would go anywhere or do anything for true love "
They you would have a list of potential targets / cash cows?

And that is not happening. But... you made the thread a question, & people see through it.

:banana:



Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.
Nice try though ;)




Then why are you on a free site trying to convince women, you don't know, to leave there country & come see you & pay for it. ?
And trying to manipulate them that if they don't.... something is wrong with them? laugh

Nice try though ;)

: I am, one of the gatekeepers Junior

smokin

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Sun 08/16/15 05:06 AM











I gave you other options where it could be possible. Just a matter of using the brains a bit + some effort.


for some it isn't an option. some struggle as it is, let alone adding a long distance relationship into it.


Sure, then don't say it's not an option, just say it's a choice :)


NO, for some it isn't a choice, it is not a option. simple.


There is always an option when someone really wants something.


not always. I give up. frustrated frustrated


For this case it's a matter of money, not a big deal so when someone really wants to get some cash it's possible. Just a matter of choice.


well what does it matter you have lots of cash, so if she cant afford it, you can. you make it sounds so easy, it may be for you, but not for everyone.


it is easy, i've done it many times :D

Like I said it's just about wanting it or not ... i.e ... choice :)

+ the mental limitations (believing you can't)


I really do give up. slaphead slaphead slaphead


It's so much easier with intelligent people, logical thinking flows so much easier :)


yes I know it is, that's why you just don't get it and I give up. bye bye.

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Sun 08/16/15 05:07 AM




Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.

Based on your posts. You want a sugar mama & hoped or believed women would line up & post saying.... " Oh I would go anywhere or do anything for true love "
They you would have a list of potential targets / cash cows?

And that is not happening. But... you made the thread a question, & people see through it.

:banana:



Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.
Nice try though ;)




Then why are you on a free site trying to convince women, you don't know, to leave there country & come see you & pay for it. ?
And trying to manipulate them that if they don't.... something is wrong with them? laugh

Nice try though ;)

: I am, one of the gatekeepers Junior

smokin


always them, never him. slaphead slaphead slaphead

aarvin1985's photo
Sun 08/16/15 05:08 AM












I gave you other options where it could be possible. Just a matter of using the brains a bit + some effort.


for some it isn't an option. some struggle as it is, let alone adding a long distance relationship into it.


Sure, then don't say it's not an option, just say it's a choice :)


NO, for some it isn't a choice, it is not a option. simple.


There is always an option when someone really wants something.


not always. I give up. frustrated frustrated


For this case it's a matter of money, not a big deal so when someone really wants to get some cash it's possible. Just a matter of choice.


well what does it matter you have lots of cash, so if she cant afford it, you can. you make it sounds so easy, it may be for you, but not for everyone.


it is easy, i've done it many times :D

Like I said it's just about wanting it or not ... i.e ... choice :)

+ the mental limitations (believing you can't)


I really do give up. slaphead slaphead slaphead


It's so much easier with intelligent people, logical thinking flows so much easier :)


yes I know it is, that's why you just don't get it and I give up. bye bye.


Facts are facts :) Whether you agree on the facts or not :)

Ciao

aarvin1985's photo
Sun 08/16/15 05:10 AM




Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.

Based on your posts. You want a sugar mama & hoped or believed women would line up & post saying.... " Oh I would go anywhere or do anything for true love "
They you would have a list of potential targets / cash cows?

And that is not happening. But... you made the thread a question, & people see through it.

:banana:



Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.
Nice try though ;)




Then why are you on a free site trying to convince women, you don't know, to leave there country & come see you & pay for it. ?
And trying to manipulate them that if they don't.... something is wrong with them? laugh

Nice try though ;)

: I am, one of the gatekeepers Junior

smokin



Oh wow you're a mod on a website? That's so impressive :D Tell us a bit about your fat bank account lol

aarvin1985's photo
Sun 08/16/15 05:12 AM




The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ...

Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ?

Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like.

I had relationships with women from women all around the world since I was very young, and finally there is no big difference between meeting on the internet first and meeting in real, VS meeting in real ...

The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation.



I have met two people from abroad, one a woman (who looked nothing like her photos in her profile) and one a guy (who was supposed to meet a woman in china but opted to meet a another woman in usa).

I arranged to meet with a woman in Holland, and she did not turn up so all in all that kind of made me lose faith in LDR's

Sometimes too you just want to meet with someone like the girl next door, who you have lots more in common with.

shades






So you go and meet someone without even contacting her and seeing her via her webcam ? LOL




Mmmmmm yes lol
I'm a foolish trusting kind of person
rofl rofl

To be honest, it would be very rude if your online chat buddy phones and says, Oh I've just passed the qaudrant (or some local place name near you) And you pretended not to know her because she made a surprise visit :laughing: :laughing:

Its crazy really, but these kind of things always happen to me sad rofl rofl

Still though, it was nice to meet up and talk to the person face to face rather than via messenger or email or phone.

I would love to meet more than a few of the good friends I have made on here, Some of them I would lock up in my wardrobe rofl rofl

Others MMMmmmmmmm I would love to have snowball fights with, and then lock them in my wardrobe too rofl rofl

Note To Friends:
If you are thinking of visiting me,
Dont buy a return ticket :laughing: :laughing:
Yo may end up locked up in my wardrobe rofl rofl
With my most treasured possessions lol



Hahahahahha :D Next time do verify who they are on webcam before, be careful, one might kidnap you someday rofl

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Sun 08/16/15 05:13 AM





Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.

Based on your posts. You want a sugar mama & hoped or believed women would line up & post saying.... " Oh I would go anywhere or do anything for true love "
They you would have a list of potential targets / cash cows?

And that is not happening. But... you made the thread a question, & people see through it.

:banana:



Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.
Nice try though ;)




Then why are you on a free site trying to convince women, you don't know, to leave there country & come see you & pay for it. ?
And trying to manipulate them that if they don't.... something is wrong with them? laugh

Nice try though ;)

: I am, one of the gatekeepers Junior

smokin



Oh wow you're a mod on a website? That's so impressive :D Tell us a bit about your fat bank account lol


No, I am not a Mod. I don't have the patience & I am far more brutal smokin

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Sun 08/16/15 05:15 AM
Edited by aarvin1985 on Sun 08/16/15 05:19 AM




Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.

Based on your posts. You want a sugar mama & hoped or believed women would line up & post saying.... " Oh I would go anywhere or do anything for true love "
They you would have a list of potential targets / cash cows?

And that is not happening. But... you made the thread a question, & people see through it.

:banana:



Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.
Nice try though ;)




Then why are you on a free site trying to convince women, you don't know, to leave there country & come see you & pay for it. ?
And trying to manipulate them that if they don't.... something is wrong with them? laugh

Nice try though ;)

: I am, one of the gatekeepers Junior

smokin


Seriously if I was a scammer I would come on a free website and try to scam people who can't even afford $2000 for a ticket ? lol

A bit of common sense please :P

You are very entertaining though. I love it :D Try harder :D

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Sun 08/16/15 05:25 AM
seriously if I was a scammer I would come on a free website and try to scam people who can't even afford $2000 for a ticket ? lol

Idk, why are you?

You are very entertaining though. I love it

Yes, I am, many things smokin

Now...I am bored w/ this. Bye now waving

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Sun 08/16/15 05:29 AM
Edited by debbie1980 on Sun 08/16/15 06:28 AM





Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.

Based on your posts. You want a sugar mama & hoped or believed women would line up & post saying.... " Oh I would go anywhere or do anything for true love "
They you would have a list of potential targets / cash cows?

And that is not happening. But... you made the thread a question, & people see through it.

:banana:



Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.
Nice try though ;)




Then why are you on a free site trying to convince women, you don't know, to leave there country & come see you & pay for it. ?
And trying to manipulate them that if they don't.... something is wrong with them? laugh

Nice try though ;)

: I am, one of the gatekeepers Junior

smokin


Seriously if I was a scammer I would come on a free website and try to scam people who can't even afford $2000 for a ticket ? lol

A bit of common sense please :P

You are very entertaining though. I love it :D Try harder :D


you only knew that when WE told you, not before.

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Sun 08/16/15 05:35 AM






Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.

Based on your posts. You want a sugar mama & hoped or believed women would line up & post saying.... " Oh I would go anywhere or do anything for true love "
They you would have a list of potential targets / cash cows?

And that is not happening. But... you made the thread a question, & people see through it.

:banana:



Based on your posts, I don't think so, they are extremely rare lol

But I met some pretty spectacular high achieving and amazing intelligent women from the US, diamonds are rare.
Nice try though ;)




Then why are you on a free site trying to convince women, you don't know, to leave there country & come see you & pay for it. ?
And trying to manipulate them that if they don't.... something is wrong with them? laugh

Nice try though ;)

: I am, one of the gatekeepers Junior

smokin


Seriously if I was a scammer I would come on a free website and try to scam people who can't even afford $2000 for a ticket ? lol

A bit of common sense please :P

You are very entertaining though. I love it :D Try harder :D


DUH, you only knew that when WE told you, not before.


Oh yes absolutely, good point :)

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Sun 08/16/15 08:05 AM
lol, I still agree with you....flowerforyou

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Sun 08/16/15 11:38 AM
The world is getting smaller and smaller thanks to the internet and cheap flights, and amazing men and women are getting rarer and rarer ...

Which just reinforces the idea that people should keep in mind risk vs. reward.

Would you be willing to date somebody from the other side of the world, if the person was totally amazing and you had a great connection ?

If I determined that in person, face to face, we developed a relationship first, then yes, for a while.

If I met them on the internet, no, that would be stupid.

Seriously $2000 is nothing when compared to the pleasure of being with people you like.

If it's based on internet interaction you don't really know if you like them.
You haven't met them.

Anyone that has participated in online dating has dealt with:
1. The person not showing up for a meet.
2. The person catfishing. Most to all information being inaccurate or untruthful.
3. The online exchange just not successfully translating into real life interaction.

That pushes the idea of the "numbers" game.

The smarter approach would be to pay $5+ in gas to show up at the neighborhood Applebee's for 400 meets as opposed to flying off for 1 meet at $2000+.

Of course, that might depend on where you live.
I can see where it's necessary to travel if you live in a tiny town.

The only limitation nowadays is the mental limitation.

If by "mental limitation" you mean "common sense and non foolish risk management" then I agree.