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Topic: The Real Truth Why Men Cheat
Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48928	Tue 04/07/15 08:34 PM
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MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Tue 04/07/15 08:48 PM
Hummm... I find it fascinating how this thread took a turn from the OP's original post of " Why men cheat"... to throwing stones at the ONE woman that has willing admitted to sex with a married man. Which I find, honest & brave to be so open about it And then back to women being guilty again, for what men CHOOSE to do. What next? A public stoning ? Twilight Zone. That ONE woman who KNOWINGLY had relations with a married man is also the first person to throw stones at men while absolving women of ANY wrongdoing. The hypocrisy is staggering. Those who are in a relationship have the responsibility not to cheat, however, those who KNOW that that person are in a relationship ALSO have a responsibility to not enable the cheating. She was an accomplice to his cheating. Maybe men wouldn't cheat if women wouldn't be so willing to move in on another woman's territory.

SassyEuro Joined Wed 03/11/15 Posts: 1000	Tue 04/07/15 08:49 PM
A woman who knowingly cheats with a married man is just as guilty of wrongdoing as the married man. And vice versa of course I agree if the "other" knows the person is in a reltionship. A friend of mine was involved and fell in love with a married man. She didn't know about the wife until she appeared at a restaurant and attacked my friend wouldn't it make more for her to attack her husband? You would think huh Exactly, Women don't steal men from other women.. as if her vagina is more magical.. Men leave women & the marriage is over BEFORE he cheats. And vice versa.( married women too) But the one who breaks the marriage/ spiritual contract is the MOST guilty. This puritanical thinking that women should hold themselves & each other (even women they don't know) to a higher morality than women hold men ( even there own) .. is ludicrous & annoying & is our own sexism.

Pansytilly Joined Mon 06/09/14 Posts: 11310	Tue 04/07/15 08:53 PM
.. as if her vagina is more magical..

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Wed 04/08/15 12:50 AM
My ex thinks of me as some kind of powerful witch, as if I am the reason the sun comes up, and the moon shines at night. Everything is always my fault, unless it's something he deems to be positive, then it's always his doing. I have diagnosed him as a narcissistic sociopath. Your wrong diagnosis most probably led to your divorce.Next time,allow psychologists to do their work.By the way,what was the result of your own self diagnosis,INNOCENT and HOLY??????

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Wed 04/08/15 02:34 AM
My ex thinks of me as some kind of powerful witch, as if I am the reason the sun comes up, and the moon shines at night. Everything is always my fault, unless it's something he deems to be positive, then it's always his doing. I have diagnosed him as a narcissistic sociopath. Your wrong diagnosis most probably led to your divorce.Next time,allow psychologists to do their work.By the way,what was the result of your own self diagnosis,INNOCENT and HOLY?????? Good point. Are you qualified to make such a diagnosis? Based on the way you treat people here, I sincerely doubt it. Only a psychiatrist can make a diagnosis like that and it is narcissistic and somewhat sociopathic to diagnosis others with mental disorders when you're not qualified to do so.

uche9aa Joined Mon 08/15/11 Posts: 1986	Wed 04/08/15 06:11 AM
I only went out with a married man once but he was the hottest guy I've ever been with, it was worth it. Too bad the good ones are all taken!

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Wed 04/08/15 06:50 AM
I'm not an accomplice for going out with a married man. It's his wife he is cheating on. I was single. It's his fault for seeking women while married. I broke up with him for this reason. Men who cheat abuse their women in many ways, cheating is just a pattern of their abuse towards women. It's abusive to the wife and the girlfriend.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 04/08/15 07:05 AM
I'm not an accomplice for going out with a married man. It's his wife he is cheating on. I was single. It's his fault for seeking women while married. I broke up with him for this reason. Men who cheat abuse their women in many ways, cheating is just a pattern of their abuse towards women. It's abusive to the wife and the girlfriend. If the girlfriend knows he is in a relationship then she is an accomplice and in a sense, condoning and encouraging cheating If I find out someone is in a relationship...I won't be a part of it I wouldn't want a girl to knowingly cheat with someone I am with and wouldn't do it to someone else

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Wed 04/08/15 07:07 AM
I'm not an accomplice for going out with a married man. It's his wife he is cheating on. I was single. It's his fault for seeking women while married. I broke up with him for this reason. Men who cheat abuse their women in many ways, cheating is just a pattern of their abuse towards women. It's abusive to the wife and the girlfriend. So in other words, he was abusive to his wife by cheating on her. Your only role was knowing he was married and still sleeping with him. The hypocrisy is blatant.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 04/08/15 07:19 AM
Accomplice K

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Wed 04/08/15 07:19 AM Edited by yellowrose10 on Wed 04/08/15 07:21 AM
Accomplice A person who works with or helps somone who is doing something wrong or illegal

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76392	Wed 04/08/15 07:41 AM
At this time we feel this thread has run it's course... And will be locked. No body will ever know the real reasons men/women cheat there are many reasons and never just one.. Site Mod Kristi