Topic: The Real Truth Why Men Cheat
uche9aa's photo
Tue 03/31/15 08:21 PM

Gawd, there are any number of reasons both men and women cheat. Whether married or in a relationship. The list of reasons is an ocean.

I've seen my parents be married almost 70 yrs., seen a brother and his wife experience infidelity where I thought there was no way they would stay together and it wasn't because of finances. It was because of trust. Had another sister and her husband get unofficially separated for a year and thought that would never survive. Saw a sister who was married 30 yrs and that fell apart but that wasn't a surprise and it wasn't just his fault.

There is no rhyme or reason, everyone is different. The devotion or commitment is different in each situation. Why they stay together is different. For me? I've never cheated but have been cheated on. I still stayed amiable with the ex, yes it took a year but I don't believe in burning bridges especially when the man still is trying to appease me and get back together. But once the trust is gone, it's gone.

I don't believe anyone will ever figure out the answer to this question. It's situational.

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 03/31/15 08:40 PM
People cheat ( not just men but women also) because they sometimes see life as "greener on the other side" and would rather scout greener fields than to try to take care and nurture the field they are already in! If you can't cultivate the field you are currently plowing, what makes you think you will succeed in plowing another field??? Just saying! :tongue:

2469nascar's photo
Tue 03/31/15 08:46 PM

People cheat ( not just men but women also) because they sometimes see life as "greener on the other side" and would rather scout greener fields than to try to take care and nurture the field they are already in! If you can't cultivate the field you are currently plowing, what makes you think you will succeed in plowing another field??? Just saying! :tongue:
great post MISSY.

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 03/31/15 08:50 PM


People cheat ( not just men but women also) because they sometimes see life as "greener on the other side" and would rather scout greener fields than to try to take care and nurture the field they are already in! If you can't cultivate the field you are currently plowing, what makes you think you will succeed in plowing another field??? Just saying! :tongue:
great post MISSY.


Thank you Nascar! flowerforyou

prithvii1989's photo
Tue 03/31/15 08:59 PM
one simple reason why men cheat is they always want to explore new women.

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 03/31/15 09:09 PM

one simple reason why men cheat is they always want to explore new women.


Well, at least you've successfully put yourself in the "variety is the spice of life category" and it's doubtful any woman will want to have anything to do with you other than those desiring intimate encounters with whomever they can get! At least you were being truthful, not that it helped you though! Obviously there are no illusions of meeting anyone truly special with whom you would love to spend the rest of your life with!

Argo's photo
Tue 03/31/15 09:22 PM
farmers are less likely to cheat....they're way too busy *plowing....lol

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Tue 03/31/15 09:26 PM
"this isn't what it looks like!" scared


:laughing: :laughing:

Amelinng's photo
Tue 03/31/15 09:31 PM

farmers are less likely to cheat....they're way too busy *plowing....lol



rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

As long as they are not cheating with another woman...... it is not cheating, the farmers got other alternatives........laugh laugh laugh

prithvii1989's photo
Tue 03/31/15 09:37 PM


one simple reason why men cheat is they always want to explore new women.


Well, at least you've successfully put yourself in the "variety is the spice of life category" and it's doubtful any woman will want to have anything to do with you other than those desiring intimate encounters with whomever they can get! At least you were being truthful, not that it helped you though! Obviously there are no illusions of meeting anyone truly special with whom you would love to spend the rest of your life with!


i gave a reason..it does not mean i also like exploring new women..i know what love is and how emptier our lives will be without love.

But yeah i do checkout hot women..that's natural..men cant change that.flowerforyou flowerforyou

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 03/31/15 09:41 PM



one simple reason why men cheat is they always want to explore new women.


Well, at least you've successfully put yourself in the "variety is the spice of life category" and it's doubtful any woman will want to have anything to do with you other than those desiring intimate encounters with whomever they can get! At least you were being truthful, not that it helped you though! Obviously there are no illusions of meeting anyone truly special with whom you would love to spend the rest of your life with!


i gave a reason..it does not mean i also like exploring new women..i know what love is and how emptier our lives will be without love.

But yeah i do checkout hot women..that's natural..men cant change that.flowerforyou flowerforyou


Life and your actions in it are always a CHOICE!! And btw, anyone can change if they but choose to do so!

prithvii1989's photo
Tue 03/31/15 09:45 PM




one simple reason why men cheat is they always want to explore new women.


Well, at least you've successfully put yourself in the "variety is the spice of life category" and it's doubtful any woman will want to have anything to do with you other than those desiring intimate encounters with whomever they can get! At least you were being truthful, not that it helped you though! Obviously there are no illusions of meeting anyone truly special with whom you would love to spend the rest of your life with!


i gave a reason..it does not mean i also like exploring new women..i know what love is and how emptier our lives will be without love.

But yeah i do checkout hot women..that's natural..men cant change that.flowerforyou flowerforyou


Life and your actions in it are always a CHOICE!! And btw, anyone can change if they but choose to do so!


people say if u look at a girl once that's natural..but if u look again with some thoughts in your mind abt her..that's wrong

dcastelmissy's photo
Tue 03/31/15 09:54 PM





one simple reason why men cheat is they always want to explore new women.


Well, at least you've successfully put yourself in the "variety is the spice of life category" and it's doubtful any woman will want to have anything to do with you other than those desiring intimate encounters with whomever they can get! At least you were being truthful, not that it helped you though! Obviously there are no illusions of meeting anyone truly special with whom you would love to spend the rest of your life with!


i gave a reason..it does not mean i also like exploring new women..i know what love is and how emptier our lives will be without love.

But yeah i do checkout hot women..that's natural..men cant change that.flowerforyou flowerforyou


Life and your actions in it are always a CHOICE!! And btw, anyone can change if they but choose to do so!


people say if u look at a girl once that's natural..but if u look again with some thoughts in your mind abt her..that's wrong


What does YOUR conscience say to you? You are not here to answer to anyone except yourself! Unless you don't have the guts or the faithfulness to the woman you call yours! How would you like it if she was constantly eyeing other "hot men"?? Would it make YOU feel good??

prithvii1989's photo
Tue 03/31/15 09:57 PM






one simple reason why men cheat is they always want to explore new women.


Well, at least you've successfully put yourself in the "variety is the spice of life category" and it's doubtful any woman will want to have anything to do with you other than those desiring intimate encounters with whomever they can get! At least you were being truthful, not that it helped you though! Obviously there are no illusions of meeting anyone truly special with whom you would love to spend the rest of your life with!


i gave a reason..it does not mean i also like exploring new women..i know what love is and how emptier our lives will be without love.

But yeah i do checkout hot women..that's natural..men cant change that.flowerforyou flowerforyou


Life and your actions in it are always a CHOICE!! And btw, anyone can change if they but choose to do so!


people say if u look at a girl once that's natural..but if u look again with some thoughts in your mind abt her..that's wrong


What does YOUR conscience say to you? You are not here to answer to anyone except yourself! Unless you don't have the guts or the faithfulness to the woman you call yours! How would you like it if she was constantly eyeing other "hot men"?? Would it make YOU feel good??


i'm single and still looking for my love..once she is in everybody will be out...i'm a one women man.

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Wed 04/01/15 06:15 AM
They cheat because they can be selfish until they realize they are losing a really good one! I have no problem giving him his own medicine because I can!

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Wed 04/01/15 06:16 AM

People cheat ( not just men but women also) because they sometimes see life as "greener on the other side" and would rather scout greener fields than to try to take care and nurture the field they are already in! If you can't cultivate the field you are currently plowing, what makes you think you will succeed in plowing another field??? Just saying! :tongue:


You go girl! Well said!

uche9aa's photo
Wed 04/01/15 07:28 AM

People cheat ( not just men but women also) because they sometimes see life as "greener on the other side" and would rather scout greener fields than to try to take care and nurture the field they are already in! If you can't cultivate the field you are currently plowing, what makes you think you will succeed in plowing another field??? Just saying! :tongue:
Experience and wisdom kissed each other in that post above

MariahsFantasy's photo
Mon 04/06/15 09:03 AM



Men cheat because they were taught that their needs are all that matter and if they're not being met they don't feel responsible for the other person's feelings. Also, a man's needs are simple, they want sex then food then eventually they need some clean underwear. Any woman can take care of a man's simple needs. All the media is selling women for sex to men.


yep. thats it... the only reason...yawn

she forgot to put beer in the mix. a woman that can piss beer has my heart drinker love


ese knows his chit. laugh :tongue:

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Mon 04/06/15 11:21 PM
Some men cheat to abuse their girlfriend/wife.

Dodo_David's photo
Tue 04/07/15 05:43 AM
Some women cheat to abuse their boyfriends/husbands. indifferent