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"These results mean that both partners are guilty "
umm......no for an adult, acting on these feelings with a choice of wrongdoing is the responsibility of the one who does...no one else's no one else is responsible for your personal happiness or emotional satisfaction but yourself. Those are problems owned by the individual that the individual must deal with responsibly because you have an emotional issue does not mean it's your partner's or anyone elses fault a lot of us are emotionally disatisfied at times and do not cheat on a partner |
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Edited by
SassyEuro
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Tue 04/07/15 06:10 AM
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I wanted to know what drives men to cheat.If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings. www.webmd.com\men\...\why-men-ch.. 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as primary reason they cheat.So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex.Only 8% of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex" Neumen says.These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated.I would like us to discuss this issue in a mature manner. My question is, If you 've experienced being a cheat or cheated on,why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship? This is of course if both parties love each other. Pls no insults or drailing I object to the phrase " DRIVES men to cheat ".. sounds like a disclaimer as if men are not responsible for their actions & under duress. That some seen or unseen force, is responsible. So therefore the man is NOT responsible for where their penis ends up... Okay, .. Then.. I know lots of ' driven ' women that just happened to fall down on a penis.. 
People are responsible for their OWN actions & inactions. And there are consequences NOT excuses for both. |
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I wanted to know what drives men to cheat.If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings. www.webmd.com\men\...\why-men-ch.. 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as primary reason they cheat.So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex.Only 8% of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex" Neumen says.These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated.I would like us to discuss this issue in a mature manner. My question is, If you 've experienced being a cheat or cheated on,why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship? This is of course if both parties love each other. Pls no insults or drailing I object to the phrase " DRIVES men to cheat ".. sounds like a disclaimer as if men are not responsible for their actions & under duress. That some seen or unseen force, is responsible. So therefore the man is NOT responsible for where their penis ends up... Okay, .. Then.. I know lots of ' driven ' women that just happened to fall down on a penis..
People are responsible for their OWN actions & inactions. And there are consequences NOT excuses for both. |
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It doesn't matter what the other person does...that is their bad
The cheater is soley responsible for his/her cheating. That person made that choice. They were willing to cheat instead of working on the relationship or leaving the relationship Blaming the other person would be a cop out |
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Edited by
Pinkbunny43
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Tue 04/07/15 11:49 AM
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Men and women both cheat, this is not just a one sided thing....and they cheat cause they can and cause they want to........and most of the time they continue to do it cause the spouse or partner forgave them, so it basically gives them the ok to do so again....if you can't commit don't get into a relationship......
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Now fellas don't get mad at me for this response, it's only the truth.. People (men or women) who cheat are selfish.. I understand the logic of not getting what they need so go find it somewhere else.. but cheating is not finding it somewhere else.. it's trying to hold on to what you have and get something on the side.. otherwise it wouldn't be called cheating, it would be called breaking up and starting a new relationship.. people cheat on each other for the same reason people cheat their taxes.. greed and self loyalty. Now I know there are some situation that may make this response void, but for the most part… That sums it up
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I wanted to know what drives men to cheat.If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings. www.webmd.com\men\...\why-men-ch.. 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as primary reason they cheat.So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex.Only 8% of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex" Neumen says.These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated.I would like us to discuss this issue in a mature manner. My question is, If you 've experienced being a cheat or cheated on,why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship? This is of course if both parties love each other. Pls no insults or drailing I object to the phrase " DRIVES men to cheat ".. sounds like a disclaimer as if men are not responsible for their actions & under duress. That some seen or unseen force, is responsible. So therefore the man is NOT responsible for where their penis ends up... Okay, .. Then.. I know lots of ' driven ' women that just happened to fall down on a penis..
People are responsible for their OWN actions & inactions. And there are consequences NOT excuses for both. What's this ? Women who DON'T blame themselves for their husbands actions are what ? .... Sorry I wasn't paying attention.. I fell on another man's penis who wanted me to make excuses for him & blame his wife.... for driving him to me. Oh this is too damn funny..
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That accidental sex is a trap I tell ya
Watch where you step 
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Edited by
Estelle79
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Tue 04/07/15 02:00 PM
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It's true a woman could drive a man to want to cheat. A man could drive a woman to want to poison his dinner. The point is what are you going to do about it? That's the difference between a complete fool or a huge mistake and a thoughtful person who looks for more creative solutions.
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That accidental sex is a trap I tell ya Watch where you step
Real men have real obligations & real consequences & accept real responsibility. Real men don't blame women for what they do & don't do. 
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That accidental sex is a trap I tell ya Watch where you step
Real men have real obligations & real consequences & accept real responsibility. Real men don't blame women for what they do & don't do.
Yepper pepper |
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My ex thinks of me as some kind of powerful witch, as if I am the reason the sun comes up, and the moon shines at night. Everything is always my fault, unless it's something he deems to be positive, then it's always his doing. I have diagnosed him as a narcissistic sociopath.
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No.. do not blame us real men..
blame your fellow sisters... .. for giving into the temptation.. of a married man..ohhh.... That . sweet sweet unattainable fruit.. she needs what is forbidden..ohhh.. even if she must .. take it from her sister...ohh.SNAP.. DID I JUST TYPE THAT OUT LOUD... 
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I used to date the lead singer of The Cranberries, but she cheated on me. Turns out she had some turkey on the side.
Cheating on someone who loves you is, in my humble opinion, the cruelest thing you could possibly do. What a head wreck that would be. |
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I only went out with a married man once but he was the hottest guy I've ever been with, it was worth it. Too bad the good ones are all taken!
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I wanted to know what drives men to cheat.If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings. www.webmd.com\men\...\why-men-ch.. 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as primary reason they cheat.So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex.Only 8% of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex" Neumen says.These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated.I would like us to discuss this issue in a mature manner. My question is, If you 've experienced being a cheat or cheated on,why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship? This is of course if both parties love each other. Pls no insults or drailing I object to the phrase " DRIVES men to cheat ".. sounds like a disclaimer as if men are not responsible for their actions & under duress. That some seen or unseen force, is responsible. So therefore the man is NOT responsible for where their penis ends up... Okay, .. Then.. I know lots of ' driven ' women that just happened to fall down on a penis..
People are responsible for their OWN actions & inactions. And there are consequences NOT excuses for both.  people cheat because they are to scared to admit anything to their partners... people with values and honor won't cheat...
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I only went out with a married man once but he was the hottest guy I've ever been with, it was worth it. Too bad the good ones are all taken! Good, so when you get married to a hot guy & he does the same then you should understand it was worth it
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No.. do not blame us real men.. blame your fellow sisters... .. for giving into the temptation.. of a married man..ohhh.... That . sweet sweet unattainable fruit.. she needs what is forbidden..ohhh.. even if she must .. take it from her sister...ohh.SNAP.. DID I JUST TYPE THAT OUT LOUD...
 As if ANY rational woman would take ANY of your statement seriously.
Relationships are contracts. If a man cheats, then he is in violation of the contract with that woman ( & God.. if he has any sprirtualy at all). Women are not in a contract with other women in some kind of 'sisterhood'. Anymore than men have a ' brother hood ' to leave another men's wives alone. * Believe me they don't* Besides any rational woman will tell you - women have absolutely NOTHING to gain by sleeping with a married man, except sex itself. Women who do... are in it for the same reason men are.. a taboo sex thrill. |
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My ex thinks of me as some kind of powerful witch, as if I am the reason the sun comes up, and the moon shines at night. Everything is always my fault, unless it's something he deems to be positive, then it's always his doing. I have diagnosed him as a narcissistic sociopath. Oh? Just out of curiosity, what makes you qualified to diagnose anyone? I only went out with a married man once but he was the hottest guy I've ever been with, it was worth it. Too bad the good ones are all taken!
So, a woman can be excused for helping a married man to cheat if that man is hot. Go figure. By the way, if a married man is cheating on his wife by dating another woman, then that man isn't good. He may be hot, but he isn't good. |
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I only went out with a married man once but he was the hottest guy I've ever been with, it was worth it. Too bad the good ones are all taken! |
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