i know the cure for a cheating man cook him a nice heavy meal he will be too tired to go out and cheat

If problems exist in a relationship then it's the responsibility of both parties to get it out in the open and address it. If the attempt to fix whatever's wrong fails, odds are the relationship isn't going to last much longer. If people take this logical progression of steps, cheating doesn't even become a factor. So there's no excuse for cheating, unless you're admitting you're a complete idiot or a coward. None of those labels sounds desirable, and shows an obvious lack of consideration about the future, since that stigma stays with you (if it gets out). A bad reputation for handling relationships like that can surely hurt someone's chances of having further relationships. So really, when someone says a guy is only thinking with his ****, they aren't being figurative.

.. runs to the top of the hill..
. unfolds his lawn chair...
.... takes a ice cold Dr Pepper out of the cooler...
...... takes a piece of licorice from the bag...
..... whoever comes next bring popcorn please... I have Mountain Dew and root beer in the cooler...lol

I thought that this was supposed to be a serious discussion. Once again, I have lost interest in a forum topic.

No offence, but women don't believe in second chances... One small misunderstanding and they move on!!!

Cheating isn't a small misunderstanding

Why cheat...(both sexes)...I think most cheaters are in search of the fairytale romance...some people believe that a relationship is all bubbles and happily ever after...when the relationship loses that "feeling"...becomes mundane...the cheater has to get busy...it's all about the butterflies and bubbles...sadly...as time passes these dream chasers usually wind up alone...just one excuse in thousands...really cheaters probably cheat simply because they can..lol..

shoulda been better, huh...

I don't believe in cheating...

The Women should line-up and patiently wait for their turn !

right? there's always the dreams...

Where is Estelle?

.. One of my employees..is dating a married woman... we all give him a hard time about it..lol... but he says it comes down to this... she can't afford to leave her husband.... they have children.... he does not make a great income.... they have a mortgage.. debt..... he says she says financially she can't afford it...... she cares for her husband... she is just no longer physically attracted to him.... over the years he has put on... a lot of weight..
.... I tell my friend he should find a single woman... but he says she makes him happy..... and he understands her .. predicament...
.... I tried to reason with him...
.. but if they are both happy with a few stolen hours..... so be it..

.. he found them out once..
.. was upset..... from what I understand.. ..so she went back to him to try to make it work.... but she is now back . Seeing my employee...

.... I tell him he needs to cut her lose..
... but in some weird way it works for him he says.... he works not only for myself in my company... but he holds down another job...... he says a regular relationship commands too much time..... this one is perfect..
..... she is not needy of his time...lol.. because obviously she has a full time relationship..lol.... and what she has with him my friend works for her...

.... I suppose they both take from the relationship what they need.... B IT..companionship.... someone to have a meaningful conversation with... or just sex..

QUESTION:
"I wanted to know what drives men to cheat.If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her?"
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ANSWER: Why do scorpions bite? It is their nature. Why do men/women cheat? Because they can. It is their nature.

.. unfortunately I know a lot of couples. that are not completely happy in there relationships..
. but they don't throw the whole thing away.... just so they can start all over again....ohhh.. I'm sure if they could... financially, emotionally..
... Perhaps if no children... and did not want to put them through a divorce.
and have them grow up in... a split family.... I suppose for some people.
.. it is like having a pizza with everything on it.... but you don't like peppers.... well they don't simply throw away the whole pizza.. they just pick off the peppers... this way they can still have their pizza.... and the piece of cookie that comes with it... I mean pizza cookie..lol


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at the dog park I take Milo to.. generally at the same time every evening.... some ladies make a point of being there when I'm there.. just so they can chat me up...
..... I see how they look at me.
..... I can see in there eyes what there thinking..lol... and I know it would not take much to push them... in that direction..... but then we begin to talk..
.. they talk about how much they care for their spouse..... about the life they have built together..... but now they are just lonely... they no longer really talk with their partner.... he's busy watching football are tinkering in the garage.... I can see it in their eyes... and hear it in there voice how desperate they are to connect to somebody..... even if its just a gigolo walking his dog...lol