Topic: Does being nice pay off?
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Sun 03/29/15 12:25 PM

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Sun 03/29/15 12:27 PM
^ Woman, we can't see the photo. Stop teasing!

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Sun 03/29/15 12:27 PM
Is this another shirtless male photo?

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Sun 03/29/15 12:46 PM
be extra nice to people who play the lottery smokin

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Sun 03/29/15 01:12 PM

be extra nice to people who play the lottery smokin



TxsGal3333's photo
Sun 03/29/15 02:17 PM
I have always believed you get what you give... Normally when you are nice to others they are in fact nice back.. Give a smile get a smile... I would rather be around those that are up and positive then those that are negative and down all the time..

To be around those that always has a positive attitude sure makes for a pleasant day.....bigsmile :thumbsup:

metalwing's photo
Sun 03/29/15 03:48 PM
Nice pays off!

Michael24888's photo
Sun 03/29/15 05:03 PM
4 pages of garbage

mikeyspace4691's photo
Sun 03/29/15 05:44 PM

4 pages of garbage


It was nice garbage.

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Sun 03/29/15 05:45 PM
My motto is, "treat others as you would like to be treated."

mikeyspace4691's photo
Sun 03/29/15 05:50 PM

My motto is, "treat others as you would like to be treated."


You're one of those golden rule fanatics, huh??ill

J/K

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Sun 03/29/15 06:01 PM
.. as he looks at his bank account...

... YEP.. being nice pays (( very well))..

...... but just between you and me !..being naughty.... pays a little bit better...mmmmm..

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Sun 03/29/15 11:05 PM

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Mon 03/30/15 09:34 PM
Edited by dreamerana on Mon 03/30/15 10:30 PM
does being nice pay off?
sometimes it does. sometimes it doesn't or at least not in the way one expects.
however when you put good things out there, in the pay it forward category, it comes back to you in an unexpected kindness

edited for spelling

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Mon 03/30/15 10:19 PM
Edited by ALBYAK on Mon 03/30/15 10:24 PM
90% of the time I can look into someone eyes before I let them break in front of me in traffic and know whether they will wave a thank you or not!! I live by that...have good incite and trust my intuition as to when to be nice or say screw them!!!! Sorry WW I have to be honestwaving

OT Edit: Only gets you ahead if you chose wisely who you help!!!

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Mon 03/30/15 11:46 PM
I think being genuine is what pays off... I would love to say I am always nice but that would be a lie sometimes I am down right nasty.. So I am hoping just being me whether I am in a mood or I am being kind and gracious...
Does that mean I am mean or unkind on purpose no but well chit happens.

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Thu 05/14/15 06:07 AM

Does being nice get you anywhere in this world?



Sometimes the timing just isn't right. It can, but know when to be nice, and when to defend yourself. I'm not telling you to be a horrible person. It's just that some may try to use you. Some may try to manipulate you.

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Thu 05/14/15 06:13 AM
does being nice pay off.....ahem...could write a book on this one

when it comes to the raising of my children? love, nurture, guidance
yes I think it does pay off in end when they become caring adults




with others? mmmmmmm it's debatable
besides, I doubt it anyone can really be nice all the time anyhow

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Thu 05/14/15 09:16 AM
Does being nice get you anywhere in this world?

Sometimes.
Just as being mean can get you somewhere you want to be, sometimes.
Just as being honest can get you somewhere you want to be, sometimes.
Just as being sexy can get you somewhere you want to be, sometimes.
Just as being evil can get you somewhere you want to be, sometimes.

Just as being nice can sometimes backfire and keep you from getting somewhere you want to be, sometimes.
Just as being honest can prevent you from getting somewhere you want to be, sometimes.
Etc.

There's no one behavior, attitude, or emotion that is universally applicable to all situations leading to one specific desired outcome where you can just stop your life and say "okay, I'm here! Now I no longer have to change, care, try, or pay attention, just wallow in happiness and contentment! Yay! I win!"

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Thu 05/14/15 09:24 AM
Being nice pays off to nice people.If they are not nice,it doesn't matter...:smile: