Im probably gonna get **** loads of abuse for this but here goes.... im in a relathionship thats been going for years now, we have 2 kids and she has 1 from b4 we met, i have (honestly) been 100% loyal and she had cheated (2wice that i know of) she has no intrest in sex and im bored. Am i wrong to cheat a few times (when i say no intrest i mean once every 3 months)...............(missionary :( )

What the hell?
You get laid that often???

well, here's a post that sums up everything a relationship shouldn't be....
*sigh*

Well, first of all yes you will probably get a lot of abuse but I would not let it bother you, If there is nothing there between you two anymore and you know she has cheated on you twice that you know of then Why stay? I know that there are kids involved, you need to really think about what is going to make you happy. If you are not happy in the relationship then move on, or you could sit down and talk with her to find out what is going on between you two, ask her how she feels, find out if she still in love with you. Find out if you are still in love with her, but let her know if things do not work out that you will be there for the kids. Good luck.

Here is your ribbon...




Or did you want one of these.....

Not really sure if your looking for others to commend you on what your doing since your partner has done it to you or not.. Sorry but truth of the matter is if you think this is a great way of getting her back???? You need to wake up for it is only bending down to her level....


JUST WALK AWAY~~~~~ Actually run like hell.. Take your kids and show them how people should treat each other...

Your own choice of word "cheat" is pejorative
so you already have the answer.

Once you cheat, you can never undo it. Whether she has done it, or not, is not how to measure your next step. Really, i'm going to say what you might not want to hear- figure things out, go to counselling with her. Then, if you can't work it out, you can say you've tried your best and can move on with a clear conscience. If you can work things through- hurray! And you and your family will all be better off.

Doesn't mean it will be easy or things will go the way you want/expect, but you are worth it, and so are your kids! I know of what I speak. Hang in there.

Sounds to me like you've been getting screwed for years.

Do two wrongs ever make a right?

leave, if you cant keep it in your pants long enough to endure her choice of abstinence,,,

less cowardly than 'cheating a few times'

msharmony..it says she cheated.

I think if she cheated and has no interest in
sex with you, something is wrong. I say move on
and find someone that YOU can love and will love
you the same way!!!

I read the question clearly enough, but somehow all I'm seeing is...someone stealing from me justifies my stealing from another.

If the two of you are going to play tit for tat, that's your game. Why would it be okay to drag an innocent girl into issues you have with your wife?

^^^^^^^^^^^^^
She said tit.

Yes, but I thought long and hard about it before I said it.

In this case...... YES M8! more a case of 7 or so wrongs dont make a right.

Just replyin to the post on the forum. First off it would be like stealing back from the person that stole your **** in the first place,secondly we'r not married (didnt quite put the hand cuffs on) and finaly it would'nt be an inocent girl, id tell women the whole situation b4 hand and let them decide if it bothers them or not, sorry im not ranting, just good to hear peoples opinions on the matter.

Nah but thats probably the shortest gap between each time.............my hand is gettin waay over-used here!

the faster you dissolve that "Relationship",the better for the both of you!

Leave the insults and attacks OFF of the forums. I have cleaned up this topic.

Kim