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its an eye for an eye ..a tooth for a tooth
come to me with your bad moral pleas
then thats a vote for me & I'll set you free
when she goes out to spread n lay
and your at home thinking there's a better way
and its only you & Peter to play
feeling sorry for yourself..thats not where you needen stay
then come with me, heck I might even pay
lets head to town, there's plenty to be found
so unleash the beast and go for a feast
and if that doesn't work....and she's still got her eye and a tooth
got another plan!..you got a good heart & some youth?
this one's on me... I'll bring the loot...
and lets head on down to the house of illrepute
they'll line up..so pretty & mute...while we take our pick of some little beaut
no need to bring that fancy suit.. this is my remedy..its better than moms soup
what are your choices...some cheating boot?

Seems to me that if she's not getting it on with you but has sleep with someone else twice and you're not married. Seems like she's just using you. She tries to give just enough to get you to stay while she's screwing someone else. Just sounds like an odd relationship where someone is getting screwed in all senses of the word. I would leave if it were me. I don't think I would have stuck with her after she cheated the first time though.

Married or committed, you still used the term cheating. Are there different degrees of cheating? Did it hurt less without a ring when she did it to you? I would suggest that if you want to cheat it's because you want to hurt her back. If you wanted to find someone who will not cheat on you, why would you not want to free yourself first?

It would seem to me that if you choose to stay, you are choosing to forgive. If that's not working for you there is only one option I can see. Consider what it will say to your child growing up watching a relationship that continues the way yours is structured now....walking that line of physically staying when you've already left in your heart and mind? We teach our children how to love by example.

Just some stuff to consider when you're weighing your decision.

once every 3 months is better than once a year from a hooker behind a bar

Its not as simple as leaving. Im saying way too much here but im stuck 4 now (amarican living in the uk, no rights to work or benafits, when i say im stuck i mean it) its just a case of waiting for help from social workers which takes ****ing ages (already been 3 years now) if i end it im on the streets (no family fall backs) so taking that into consideration does every 1 have the same oppinion?

That makes it sound like she has you as a slave then. You're just screwed in to many ways. There is always a way out though. You just have to find it.

Well, what your put it that way, I suggest, sucking it up.
Piss her off and the streets you could call home.

I just got an idea. You could become a gigolo. Just start pimping yourself out to rich lonely old women and you'll have the money to get out of there in no time. hahaha

I wrote a lovely poem for use and this is how you repay me

with deception, help us help you! is there anything that you are
still withholding? take 100 PS out of her purse Next time
she gets payed & go get laid

because your all about her gettin' payed and you gettin'laid

unless you could get some money & say you lost the

grocery money then you would only be lying & cheating

and that a lot better than stealing lying & cheating

and this is how we rationalize

Dude..you obviously don't want to be there, that relationship
is as dead as dead can be, its sound convenient for both of
you, with the work and time i'm assuming you put in with your kids.
l don't even consider you two together as you guys would of had
immigration things rolling, or you got legal problems stoping you.
either way its doomed and your are just hurting the kids the longer you stay
and the older they get..she dosent want to sponsor you because
she will be financially on the hook for you for maybee three years????
it sounds like your a convenience to her with the kids & she's not
going to help sponsor if your live elsewhere? as that doesn't help her?

Ideally that would be the best to live in the UK close to the kids and
be a father.
mI'm Pretty sure they wouldn't have a problem deporting you Azz from there.
or get some under the table work for a plane ticket and if she
won't cooperate then I m sure you can stay at a shelter and get some
cash jobs.

...F♡ck! Fight! or hold the Light!....you got to do something pal

you got options, if nothings posible then get Deported! you have kids there
so you will again be admissible in the future if you get your chit together!
kids are first priority, that means a stable environment.
so if you have plans to go you should of been gone yesterday
getting laid from another one should be the last thing on you mind
unless you guys can make it work with an open relationship
that should include you been legal, but since you has hand,
in the financial department,that may not be favorable for you.
good luck

Pmsl!!!!! U know, i'd actually do that for a laugh at the moment. Make some granny's day.

Belive me the girls come first. And we seem like a regular couple. But at the end of the day its like we just function as perents and nothing else. And ive got no intention of going back to the states, i was broaght up here (from the age of 9) i'll be able to sort things once my (yuk) british pass port is sorted, got a social worker on the case but shes had trouble sorting it she will eventualy i hope. Just waiting that does my head in.

Well, parenting is hard. Relationships can certainly suffer when the kids come. Do you love her? Does she love you? If you both are willing to do some work, then coming back from this is not impossible. You could try relationship counselling. Sometimes an outside support can help.

All the best to you.

Just got out of one like that but no cheating and no sex fo 4 years I think I might be a virgin again

Just got out of one like that but no cheating and no sex fo 4 years I think I might be a virgin again

When she is banging everyone but you.....yeah....you have issues. Quick fix? Break it off and then go bang away on all the tail you want.