Community > 50 and over

Topic: SEX ON A FIRST DATE
thmcarlsbad Joined Fri 02/24/12 Posts: 6	Wed 03/06/13 08:54 AM
I agree. The three strikes your out rule is obsolete and we are all free to do as we please.

thmcarlsbad Joined Fri 02/24/12 Posts: 6	Wed 03/06/13 08:56 AM
Ditto and

ian696969 Joined Mon 02/11/13 Posts: 2	Wed 03/06/13 11:28 AM
Hi to all, I have been ridiculed by women for not trying to have sex (making love)on the first date, I have been ridiculed for trying on a first date,, But very occasionaly, when you meet someone, and you just click, bond. call it whatever, No words are needed, its just so Right, If your wondering what i mean,, Its not happened to you yet......

lonelylee50andhot Joined Fri 03/15/13 Posts: 1	Fri 03/15/13 06:02 AM
why not sex is better now than it wuz then

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Sun 03/17/13 06:37 AM
Hell, I'm EZ. I'm looking for the gal with the nickname Margarine. AKA, Easy to spread.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Mon 03/18/13 07:48 AM
It all has been said in many ways; just comes down to this. "Some Do. Some Don't. In the Right Situation? WE ALL MIGHT.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Mon 03/18/13 08:32 AM
It all has been said in many ways; just comes down to this. "Some Do. Some Don't. In the Right Situation? WE ALL MIGHT. Logic!!

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Mon 03/18/13 11:57 AM
Hell, I'm EZ. I'm looking for the gal with the nickname Margarine. AKA, Easy to spread. Good luck with that she's dating BIG FRANK................

dmckinnon Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 323	Tue 03/19/13 07:26 AM
It all has been said in many ways; just comes down to this. "Some Do. Some Don't. In the Right Situation? WE ALL MIGHT. He he...so true.

jackdwal Joined Wed 03/11/09 Posts: 9	Wed 03/20/13 07:30 PM
t The few times I ever had sex on a first date were not exactly the very best and most memorable times. lol Personally I think I prefer to know someone a little better. But that's just me....

aladytoo Joined Tue 02/03/09 Posts: 833	Mon 04/08/13 06:11 AM
Regardless of it being 2013 erra.Each person choses,whats right for themselfs.Personally I don't belief in hookin up,or the 3 strikes.Sex is just sex.I'm the only one that has to live with my desision.I'd rather wait until a meaning full relationship.that develops.

Lookingup1246 Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 63	Mon 04/08/13 08:25 AM
I have had great intimate relationships in my life, with people i knew, trusted and were crazy about, this takes time and work. Why desensitize yourself by trying to make one of the most beautiful things the equivalent of a drive thru happy meal?

dmckinnon Joined Tue 03/19/13 Posts: 323	Wed 04/10/13 04:41 AM
I have had great intimate relationships in my life, with people i knew, trusted and were crazy about, this takes time and work. Why desensitize yourself by trying to make one of the most beautiful things the equivalent of a drive thru happy meal? :)

Zero_Effected Joined Sat 12/02/06 Posts: 18395	Wed 04/10/13 07:35 AM
I have been single longer then married and I really hate dating at this age, 50+. I've heard stories of women that are willing to have sex on a first date, and I've been expected to have sex on a first date, and I can't help but wonder is this expected because at this age we're afraid we're never going to get laid again? or are we just wanting another notch on the bed post?? Or is that the new normal, sex on a first date, therefore there's no need of a second date. it may be normal for some.. but not for THIS gal.. call me old fashioned but I've lived without sex for a longgggggggg time.. some of my friends (and even my kids) suggested a Friend with benefits but it's just NOT me.. sex is PART of a relationship (IMO) and it's not something you can just turn on or off.. regardless if the chemistry is there.. there has to be a relationship too it's ALL or NOTHING..

sparkyae5 Joined Thu 03/28/13 Posts: 1595	Wed 04/10/13 03:52 PM
first date bad idea if you are looking to connect with a soul mate! it colors the relationship. a persons value system is a important part , it tells you a lot about what a person will or will not do in the present and future. if your looking for real love, where YOUR happiness is as important to THEM as there own .it is so much better with some one you love.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Wed 04/10/13 05:58 PM
It all has been said in many ways; just comes down to this. "Some Do. Some Don't. In the Right Situation? WE ALL MIGHT. Logic!! OHH for GOD's Sake. Everyone makes their OWN CHOICES. GET OVER IT.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14591	Thu 04/11/13 02:05 PM
: sex is PART of a relationship (IMO) and it's not something you can just turn on or off.. regardless if the chemistry is there.. there has to be a relationship too, it's ALL or NOTHING..

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Thu 04/11/13 02:10 PM
I like the idea of sex before the date. After one round, she'll be content with eating out.

RainbowTrout Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 13869	Thu 04/11/13 02:58 PM
It would be up to you and that other person.

LoneWolfToo Joined Tue 04/09/13 Posts: 45	Thu 04/11/13 07:07 PM
I agree with the Lady2. If you're not going to build something beauriful, then you won't understand the wait. I'm not going there until I re-marry. Love is like a fine meal, you think about it, you do all the prep work, you put things together and let things simmer awhile, add a little spice here and there, you cook a nice slow beautiful feast, then when the time is right, there will be lots of left-over dessert to last through the years.