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They are programmed to do that. Us women are hard-wired differently to that. Doesn't make much sense. We might aswell all be gay :)
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men are a product of their environment as boys
so many influences, school media family friends they all factor in to what they will value and how they will define themself once they are 'grown' |
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I need to find a girl before my career takes off, I become a movie producer by next year. [quote/] Now this has me wondering why you NEED a girl before your career starts. What's so important about finding a woman before you start your job? That's the confusing part.  |
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Edited by
TexasScoundrel
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Sun 06/17/12 12:12 PM
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I'm going with the assumption that by "desires," she means sex.
The answer is a simple one. Men care only about sex because, more often than not, our lives are otherwise complete. We have enough money, we have enough food, we have enough friends, we have enough of everything except sex. There is simply nothing else a woman could add to our lives that's lacking. In fact, women often add an element of chaos that many men may prefer to avoid. So, instead of having a wife or girlfriend, he may like having several friends with benefits. I lived that way for many years and was very happy. |
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I'm going with the assumption that by "desires," she means sex. The answer is a simple one. Men care only about sex because, more often than not, our lives are otherwise complete. We have enough money, we have enough food, we have enough friends, we have enough of everything except sex. There is simply nothing else a woman could add to our lives that's lacking. In fact, women often add an element of chaos that many men may prefer to avoid. So, instead of having a wife or girlfriend, he may like having several friends with benefits. I lived that way for many years and was very happy. |
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I'm going with the assumption that by "desires," she means sex. The answer is a simple one. Men care only about sex because, more often than not, our lives are otherwise complete. We have enough money, we have enough food, we have enough friends, we have enough of everything except sex. There is simply nothing else a woman could add to our lives that's lacking. In fact, women often add an element of chaos that many men may prefer to avoid. So, instead of having a wife or girlfriend, he may like having several friends with benefits. I lived that way for many years and was very happy. No doubt. But, these women obviously feel incomplete in some way. Maybe it's nothing more than a social presser to be in a relationship, or maybe they simply want a man in their lives to blame everything on. Ask yourself, what do you have to offer the kind of man you want to be with? How will you be beneficial to him? What do you bring to the table? If your only answer is you can have sex and make babies, why would he choose to be with you if he has other options? |
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@TexasScoundrel - Well said. Great points.
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I need to find a girl before my career takes off, I become a movie producer by next year. [quote/] Now this has me wondering why you NEED a girl before your career starts. What's so important about finding a woman before you start your job? That's the confusing part. Because Rawr I'm a romantic and I care more about a real loving and emotionally intimate relationship. My career is as a film producer and I'm already getting my first film into preproduction! I got warned by a fellow producer that the second that thing is on the market girls will be lining up to bang me. He thought I'd like to hear that said I could get any girl, said every actress will want to sleep their way up the chain every other girl is going to do what ever it takes for your money. When I told him.I'm a romantic who wants a genuine relationship he put it bluntly. Once you have this career you won't meet one person who isn't out to use you! I won't tell you how much my starting salary is or the budget of my first movie that is in the middle of being pitched. But I need to find someone fast. I'm not interested in meaningless sex or anyone who is after my money. To me that sounds like a miserable existence what good is a girl to me if she just screws me to get a job or money? So I got desperate every good Christian girl at my church is married or engaged. I looked all over my city they aren't anywhere. I then decided I'd consider a non-Christians if she respected my values but I couldn't find any of them in my city either. So I resorted to online. If I cant find one before my career takes off the producer has a site I can go to for a gold digger lol! Its a site for business CEO's and producers to find a girl friend and or wife. Your profile is what's your job/position, what's your salary and instead of discussion any of your traits you list what financial stuff you can offer the girl. I don't want a gold digger lol! I want a genuine real relationship! So I resorted to online to find one! I do not like the idea of settling for a super model who is after my cash! If that happens Ill probably just go celebite for life! I'd rather not have sex ever then sleep with a chick who's after my money! Screw that! |
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Edited by
krupa
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Mon 06/18/12 05:40 PM
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....ok...
Here ya go doll....men are dirtbags because we can be. Not all men are...but, we got the option. Same as you skirts. Nobody got a gun to anyone's head to enforce loyalty and love. The real deal is there or it ain't. It is nothing that can be forced. If it helps...think of it this way....you will meet alot of wonderful people in this life....not everyone will be your lover...just cause you had sex with them ...don't make them a lover. Try focusing more on a real friendship...when you get THAT with mindblowing sex....you may be on the right path. Just my opinion. |
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Why do men hide under the umbrella of love just to get in a woman's pant?why not just tell her what you want?if she agrees fine and if she dosen't move on.why pretend to get her only to fulfill your desire and dump her? Yeah, there are men who think with their genitals. Does that surprise you? |
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Men care only about sex because . . . Correction. Some men care only about sex. |
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....ok... Here ya go doll....men are dirtbags because we can be. Not all men are...but, we got the option. Same as you skirts. Nobody got a gun to anyone's head to enforce loyalty and love. The real deal is there or it ain't. It is nothing that can be forced. If it helps...think of it this way....you will meet alot of wonderful people in this life....not everyone will be your lover...just cause you had sex with them ...don't make them a lover. Try focusing more on a real friendship...when you get THAT with mindblowing sex....you may be on the right path. Just my opinion. Thanks, Krupa. I would add that a woman sets herself up for trouble if she believes that a man will love her if she has sex with him. |
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Well, we DO love, laugh, cry
 and have other emotions. To put it simply, you and us are, eventually designed to have sex. some women like purses, other dimonds, some even 50 pairs of shoes. mabye even a man based off of some romance novel that turns out to be written BY a horny women that writes entire novles of some fantasy of how she ultimly wants sex. men like sex. 
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Ill put this bluntly. If you say you want a gentleman but won't date a virgin, your a lair. Plain and simple your a liar because if you did want a gentleman you wouldn't care in fact you'd probably be turned on! Ill say this, at 42, I wouldnt date a virgin because I want someone at an equal place in life as I am, emotionally and physically moving forward together is great, going back and waiting for the partner to 'catch up' has stopped being an option ,,,,, and being a virgin doesnt mean one is a gentleman by any means, although a gentleman Might be a virgin as well,,, |
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Ill say this, at 42, I wouldnt date a virgin because I want someone at an equal place in life as I am, emotionally and physically Does this mean that you wouldn't date a man who has never been married? |
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cause we was born with a weenie and we don't want it to rust  Now that's the best answer I've seen yet. |
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Ill say this, at 42, I wouldnt date a virgin because I want someone at an equal place in life as I am, emotionally and physically Does this mean that you wouldn't date a man who has never been married? legal marriage is the paper that documents the commitment to join two physically financially and emotionally as one, but people can maek that commitment without the legal recognition so, it would not matter if one had ever had marital 'papers', but I would most likely not date a man who had not had a SERIOUS commitment,, no I would, in fact, highly prefer a fellow single parent ,,,, |
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Mary J Blige sings a song that goes "Bad guys are no good & good guys are no fun". I'm going to speak from a man's point of view. Most women when they're young they go more for the "bad guys". When they get older they change their priorities & want a "good guy". Most females love the "bad guy" until they become pregnant & the guy doesn't support the child, then they want a "good guy" who will.
I say, women have more to offer a man than just sex. A man can get that anywhere(FWB), just like Texas Scoundrel said, a FWB usually has less drama than a "personal" relationship. A profile can be like a "diversity" class. In a class, most people know the right thing to say. In a profile most people type the right things. In life, in both circumstances reality may be different than whats written or said. I agree to the fact that because one is a "virgin", doesn't mean he is a gentleman. If thats the kind(virgin or one who hasn't slept around) of girl that is looked for, she may be found anywhere by chance. Just because a girl is a good churchgoer doeen't mean she is a good girl. |
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Mary J Blige sings a song that goes "Bad guys are no good & good guys are no fun". I'm going to speak from a man's point of view. Most women when they're young they go more for the "bad guys". When they get older they change their priorities & want a "good guy". Most females love the "bad guy" until they become pregnant & the guy doesn't support the child, then they want a "good guy" who will. I say, women have more to offer a man than just sex. A man can get that anywhere(FWB), just like Texas Scoundrel said, a FWB usually has less drama than a "personal" relationship. A profile can be like a "diversity" class. In a class, most people know the right thing to say. In a profile most people type the right things. In life, in both circumstances reality may be different than whats written or said. I agree to the fact that because one is a "virgin", doesn't mean he is a gentleman. If thats the kind(virgin or one who hasn't slept around) of girl that is looked for, she may be found anywhere by chance. Just because a girl is a good churchgoer doeen't mean she is a good girl. Words of Wisdom. Well said Victornewman |
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Why do men hide under the umbrella of love just to get in a woman's pant?why not just tell her what you want?if she agrees fine and if she dosen't move on.why pretend to get her only to fulfill your desire and dump her? Even sewer water seeks its own level. BS filters tend to clean things up a bit. As a rule, we tend to attract people that are the most compatible with who we are at that moment. It's work on self that changes things, sometimes just saying no to what we know wont work and thinking about our own part, and what about us attracts the losers. |
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