Humm did anyone read the comment from a woman that had been sexually abused? She pretty much tellsit like it is.

And isn't he writing "childrens" books????? Sounds like he might not be rehabilitated

Where did you find that??

it's the highlighted link above.

Just terrible she is a mess.

She's finding it hard to dust off and move on.

AND we're smart....

Not to shut people down but I feel like continuing to put energy into him by continuing this thread makes him win. I think the best thing we can do is to never have anything with him ever again. Remember the red flags and just drop the subject and get back to our REAL Mingle friends.

What teadipper said.
YES

I am sorry for Lexie... he was one of the smart ones. I appreciate that his conduct around little girls has required a lot of improvement. I don't condone killing and torturing baby girls.

He WAS though, spirited and smart on this site. I think there is such a thing as rehabilitation into the community. We can't really convict or condemn a man on his past mistakes if he has not re-sinned or re-entered his old sinful ways. It is the promise of the correctional system, that some people learn their lesson behind the bars.

Lex seemed like a learned, smart feller, he was rather well-spoken in the written word. He made the mistake of not disclosing his identity of LexFountaine to authorities. I can believe, while I have no evidence, that this was his private refuge. He may not have created this alias and kept it secret to plan to commit some crimes, or a crime; he may have needed some refuge, a sort of identity in which he was not a convict, a condemned man. It is this identity that brought the best out of him, and he enjoyed it, even possibly without ill will or sinful or terrifyingly cruel thoughts.

I am sorry he had to go. I, for one, don't condemn him. I do believe in the occassional success of the correctional system.

I chalk up his reluctance to offer this alias of his for the authorities' knowledge to his wanting to reform and keep on the straight and narrow. I am not saying this as fact, as I hardly had a few exchanges with him, but it is possible.

Of course the possibility exists that he was harbouring sinister thoughts, and he was slowly working his way into committing more crimes agains female humanity.

I don't know. I can't tell. I am unable to decide, but I hold the opinion that we must not condemnt him until such time that we have evidence that he again had started to torture and rape after his release from prison.

It is true that his basic sexual urges never changed. No gay man will turn straight at 45, and no straight man will turn gay after 45. No sexual sadist will become a sexual giver-lover, and no sexual giver-lover will turn into a sexual sadist all of a sudden.

These tendencies are terribly unfortunate for both society, and the criminal; it is devastating to the families of the victims, and for the victims, it is hell. I hold, nevertheless, that jail and living standards there for fifteen years will make a man think twice before he commits the same crime again, and chances are he will never again.

All I am saying is that he had been punished for his old sinning, or criminal activites. We must not assume that he has done any of that since his release seven years ago, we most not condemn him automatically, we must give him the benefit of doubt.

I knew Lex fairly well at one point. He had a great deal of difficulty with interactions with adults. Asperger's persons often have trouble interacting with grown ups. THEY ARE NOT ALL CHILD MOLESTERS. I am NOT saying that. But men who are socially inept sometimes fall into a web of porn, child molestation, etc. So I am not shocked. I am glad that Charles took such swift action. I know people make fun of me using www.netdetective.com on anybody I meet in person. It's only $30 for three years with unlimited screenings. I strongly suggest you screen anyone who comes into your life.

I wonder if he is a Justin Beiber fan?.........