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Topic: A very unfortunate matter concerning a Mingle2 moderator
willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 05/15/12 05:00 PM
I know of another alias that he used, I wonder if the police know about it, or of it was ever registered. I am going to take a wild guess and say since Lex Fonteyen never was then this one might not be as well... What is it? The Police want to know if there is more info on this animal.

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Tue 05/15/12 05:02 PM
WHisper, report it. If you cannot find another way to report it, report it to Charles and he can help point you in the correct directoion.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Tue 05/15/12 05:04 PM
Winx posted one earlier on OKCUPID site...XenonBaboon , I think.

EquusDancer Joined Sun 04/05/09 Posts: 6281	Tue 05/15/12 05:05 PM
I know of another alias that he used, I wonder if the police know about it, or of it was ever registered. I am going to take a wild guess and say since Lex Fonteyen never was then this one might not be as well... Yes, it all needs to be reported.

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Tue 05/15/12 05:07 PM
not when 100% of their victims are destroyed this is not true, many are destroyed, others survive, start over, and are able to move on,,, The children they would have otherwise been are indeed destroyed. Those who survive, start over & move on are NOT the people they were prior to the crime & they will never become who they would have been. I respect you a great deal, msharmony...but not even you could change my mind on this.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 05/15/12 05:08 PM
Winx posted one earlier on OKCUPID site...XenonBaboon , I think. I sent them the info. If, they act on it remains to be seen.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 05/15/12 05:11 PM
Unfortunatly Illinois law states that anyone convicted AFTER a certain date? I do not remember..but in 2010, is prohibited from all social media sites regardless of name used. So, I don't think he would be in violation on that...but, he is in violation of not registering any other alias' with the sex offender registry. He also is in violation of using UNREGISTERED names on internet sites. So, he is in violation...but, it is not true that any sexual offender cannot go to social network sites. Those convicted after 2010 can if they use their registered names. It is in here somewhere I think where I read that. http://www.isp.state.il.us/sor/faq.cfm

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Tue 05/15/12 05:12 PM
...and sadly all victims don't just brush themselves off and "Move ON". Kudos to those who can..even though they should never of had to manuever those rough waters at such tender ages. 100% of victims may not suffer. But, I bet a majority do. Tremendously. Each experience would be different. Understandably so. It is quite unsensitive to think if one person is able to "Move On", all others should! EDIT EDIT* EDIT*

whispertoascream Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 22844	Tue 05/15/12 05:15 PM
I am looking up the number now.

willing2 Joined Sun 06/08/08 Posts: 20221	Tue 05/15/12 05:19 PM
...and sadly all victims don't just brush themselves off and "Move ON". Kudos to those who can..even though they should never of had to manuever those rough waters at such tender ages. 100% of victims may not suffer. But, I bet a majority do. Tremendously. Each experience would be different. Understandably so. It is quite unsensitive to think if one person is able to "Move On", all others should! EDIT EDIT* EDIT* Especially infants and toddlers. The gall of some who think tender young lives just bounce back. Disgusting. I have Grandkids and I would track down anyone who would dare lay a finger on any one of them. Then, the perp could "Move on".

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Tue 05/15/12 05:23 PM
...and sadly all victims don't just brush themselves off and "Move ON". Kudos to those who can..even though they should never of had to manuever those rough waters at such tender ages. 100% of victims may not suffer. But, I bet a majority do. Tremendously. Each experience would be different. Understandably so. It is quite unsensitive to think if one person is able to "Move On", all others should! EDIT EDIT* EDIT* Especially infants and toddlers. The gall of some who think tender young lives just bounce back. Disgusting. I have Grandkids and I would track down anyone who would dare lay a finger on any one of them. Then, the perp could "Move on". an "event' happened to me when I was 13. It took many many years of me pretending but not being able to harness the nightmares before my life could become "normal" again. I cannot even imagine the scars it would cause to those younger than myself.

carold Joined Sun 03/23/08 Posts: 26747	Tue 05/15/12 05:34 PM
...and sadly all victims don't just brush themselves off and "Move ON". Kudos to those who can..even though they should never of had to manuever those rough waters at such tender ages. 100% of victims may not suffer. But, I bet a majority do. Tremendously. Each experience would be different. Understandably so. It is quite unsensitive to think if one person is able to "Move On", all others should! EDIT EDIT* EDIT* No they don't and it effects them all they're lives.

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Tue 05/15/12 05:45 PM Edited by LouLou2 on Tue 05/15/12 05:46 PM
{{{LouLou}}}

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Tue 05/15/12 06:10 PM
Someone found the charges to state: He and his girlfriend molested an 8 year old girl. And had her bring two friends 8 and 10 years old a couple days later. HIS girlfriend told the parents she was taking the kids to the carnival. Instead she took them back to their house where they were all raped. Both HIM and the girlfriend- I will just put initials BJD, pled guilty and both received and served 7 years in prison. My only comment: WHY ONLY 7 YEARS???

vivian2981 Joined Thu 04/16/09 Posts: 37289	Tue 05/15/12 06:11 PM
Someone found the charges to state: He and his girlfriend molested an 8 year old girl. And had her bring two friends 8 and 10 years old a couple days later. HIS girlfriend told the parents she was taking the kids to the carnival. Instead she took them back to their house where they were all raped. Both HIM and the girlfriend- I will just put initials BJD, pled guilty and both received and served 7 years in prison. My only comment: WHY ONLY 7 YEARS??? where ddi you find this?....I haven't seen it

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Tue 05/15/12 06:12 PM
..i guess these two 8 yr olds and this 10 yr old should brush themselves off and "Move On"!

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Tue 05/15/12 06:14 PM
Not to shut people down but I feel like continuing to put energy into him by continuing this thread makes him win. I think the best thing we can do is to never have anything with him ever again. Remember the red flags and just drop the subject and get back to our REAL Mingle friends.

lilangel2 Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 9096	Tue 05/15/12 06:17 PM
Right here in black and white..1989 conviction him and his gf..rape of three girls:( http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2002-09-26/news/0209260197_1_child-pornography-images-and-videos-abuse

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Tue 05/15/12 06:18 PM
Right here in black and white..1989 conviction him and his gf..rape of three girls:( http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2002-09-26/news/0209260197_1_child-pornography-images-and-videos-abuse

LouLou2 Joined Sun 04/13/08 Posts: 1685	Tue 05/15/12 06:22 PM
Right! And even if they are capable of moving on", they are changed in that instant. Changed forever. From that instant on, who they were no longer exists. Destroyed - ABSOLUTELY & TOTALLY. The children they are after "surviving & moving on" is NOT who they would have been!