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Topic: Being Alone Is Painful
Dale031124 Joined Fri 02/03/12 Posts: 71	Wed 03/07/12 08:34 PM
You learn to treasure your alone time. Use it, to get chit done. Work on yourself, if anything needs doing. Be ready, when 'she' comes along. The lonely times make you appreciate the together times. View it as a good thing maybe? ...hmmm also if your a guy try to hold off on jacking off soo much....and if your a woman make your arrangements when your really horny.....yes also ....dont eat beans.....bad idea ..very bad idea,you don't wana be going at it especially doggy style and rip a loud smelly fart....do you ..no and your paint could curdle up on your walls ...not good! Leave that crap in the toilet. i guess thats all i can think of for preparation 4 now other than ladies look like you wana claw his back and break out whips...guys dont be stuffing toilet paper in front of your under where to make it look big if your not ...your sweetie is going to find out and well ...it just looks weird and ...what the hell where ya thinking anyway toilet paper is to wipe with ...if you have to go to the bathroom that much save the **** for another day Thanks John. That advice is very....concerning. But funny. Laughing my A$$ Off.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Thu 03/08/12 03:18 AM Edited by Shy_Emo_chick on Thu 03/08/12 03:20 AM
I go down in my cellar and turn the light on,,take out one of my pickle jars that houses one of my ex's,,and I turned it and shake it until,,THERE,,RIGHT there before me,,is her eyes,,,staring back into mine,,,and THEN,,we talk about everything wrong SHE USE TO DO TO US,,and how IT WAS ALL HER FAULT FOR MAKING ME CHOP HER UP INTO TINY PIECES AND STUFFING HER IN THAT BOTTLE.. THEN WE ,,,oh,,never-mind,,a,,,THATS how I spend time when I'm feeling SORRY FOR MY SELF AND HATING THE GROUND SHE WALKED ON THMNMT;.dsxv;kdj dsbk davihdbvsdgksd gjdhvb xvcbn dfknh nthb;kxvc jbcxpovJSfias fkas Ladies and Gentlemen, We are having technical difficulty and we shall be back, right after this commercial,,thanks. Help, there's a madman in the house. Is that how you roll? I suddenly remembered i've left the oven on. Taxiiiiiiiiiiii :O.

733john Joined Mon 07/18/11 Posts: 123	Thu 03/08/12 09:45 AM
lol yeah i thought it was funny

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Fri 03/09/12 08:33 AM
Being Alone Is Painful The title of your thread is not true. Being alone may be lonely, but its not painful. Besides, the world if full of people and animals. It is sometimes very hard to be alone.

winterblue56 Joined Sun 12/12/10 Posts: 2465	Fri 03/09/12 05:01 PM
lose myself in books, music, and movies ALONE. i feel so self-contained :) Not advisable... I was feeling lonesome in 2010 and wound up at Borders and five libraries, alternatively, ended up reading 800 books, not including every magazine on the shelves for 10 months. know the feeling

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Fri 03/09/12 05:44 PM
Stabing yourself......that would be Painful. Shooting yourself.....that would be painful. Hitting yourself with a bigger hammer...... That would be painful. I find no pain in being alone. It was a choice I made. It has been quality time to get to know myself well.....again. I have great friends, I get out n have a great time with them. When the right Lady comes along...... I wont be alone anymore. Till then........ I try not to..... Stub my toes!!!!!!

boonedoggy61 Joined Fri 09/09/11 Posts: 10425	Sat 03/10/12 06:35 AM
I do it 24/7 I have learned to live with it!!!!

TammyA Joined Sat 03/10/12 Posts: 300	Sat 03/10/12 05:31 PM
You can be in a room full of people and still feel lonely. It's a different kind of lonely. We are blessed with great family and friends, but that "something" that is missing makes you feel lonely.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/10/12 05:36 PM
KRUPA! Tell me in all honesty if those are yours. I have to know. they are his he is my favorite artist

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/10/12 05:37 PM
You can be in a room full of people and still feel lonely. It's a different kind of lonely. We are blessed with great family and friends, but that "something" that is missing makes you feel lonely. yes for me it is having a partner I have lived this great experiment of a single life and there are many good points in truth but I do not believe that most of us are meant to be alone

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 03/10/12 05:43 PM
water water everywhere, and not a drop to drink about sums it up.

Magicman1950 Joined Mon 03/05/12 Posts: 136	Sat 03/10/12 05:45 PM
If youre lonely, talk to somebody, if youre tired sleep, hungry eat. first find out what youre feeling and please stop calling horny lonely. If youre horny take matters in hand and stop making truely lonely people look bad.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/10/12 05:47 PM
water water everywhere, and not a drop to drink about sums it up. IDK I think there is much to drink - but not all relationships are going to be "the one" while waiting to fall in love tho I am appreciative of the friends I have made

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 03/10/12 05:57 PM Edited by burgundybry on Sat 03/10/12 05:58 PM
water water everywhere, and not a drop to drink about sums it up. IDK I think there is much to drink - but not all relationships are going to be "the one" while waiting to fall in love tho I am appreciative of the friends I have made I can understand your view, sweetest. Just that, speaking for myself, I'm pretty much old school..you know? Chivalry, respect and the like. In my opinion, that doesn't seem to be something most women have an admiration for these days. Naturally, it goes much deeper than that, but being online, it's rather pointless to go into much depth in a forum.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/10/12 06:02 PM
water water everywhere, and not a drop to drink about sums it up. IDK I think there is much to drink - but not all relationships are going to be "the one" while waiting to fall in love tho I am appreciative of the friends I have made I can understand your view, sweetest. Just that, speaking for myself, I'm pretty much old school..you know? Chivalry, respect and the like. In my opinion, that doesn't seem to be something most women have an admiration for these days. Naturally, it goes much deeper than that, but being online, it's rather pointless to go into much depth in a forum. Oh I think women want respect. And chivalry can be important - I interpret that to mean manners - required! nice to hear there are some men left who also value these things

PacificStar48 Joined Tue 10/02/07 Posts: 13764	Sat 03/10/12 06:09 PM
If youre lonely, talk to somebody, if youre tired sleep, hungry eat. first find out what youre feeling and please stop calling horny lonely. If youre horny take matters in hand and stop making truely lonely people look bad. He has a point.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/10/12 06:18 PM
I'm just weird. I don't like being alone, but also not comfortable around ppl, more ppl around, the more i need to get away to be alone, go figure :) totally understand some people are easily overstimulated - can only absorb so much before shutting down emotionally

burgundybry Joined Mon 03/05/07 Posts: 8084	Sat 03/10/12 06:18 PM
water water everywhere, and not a drop to drink about sums it up. IDK I think there is much to drink - but not all relationships are going to be "the one" while waiting to fall in love tho I am appreciative of the friends I have made I can understand your view, sweetest. Just that, speaking for myself, I'm pretty much old school..you know? Chivalry, respect and the like. In my opinion, that doesn't seem to be something most women have an admiration for these days. Naturally, it goes much deeper than that, but being online, it's rather pointless to go into much depth in a forum. Oh I think women want respect. And chivalry can be important - I interpret that to mean manners - required! nice to hear there are some men left who also value these things Thanks , I would like to think that they do too, but as I look around in today's society, I just don't know. It bothers me that I've been alone since my divorce in '99, and yet I see good, decent women, allowing themselves to be used by others, AND they stay in those relationships! Just kinda, sorta blows my mind....I'd give anything to find the right one.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 03/10/12 06:42 PM
water water everywhere, and not a drop to drink about sums it up. IDK I think there is much to drink - but not all relationships are going to be "the one" while waiting to fall in love tho I am appreciative of the friends I have made I can understand your view, sweetest. Just that, speaking for myself, I'm pretty much old school..you know? Chivalry, respect and the like. In my opinion, that doesn't seem to be something most women have an admiration for these days. Naturally, it goes much deeper than that, but being online, it's rather pointless to go into much depth in a forum. Oh I think women want respect. And chivalry can be important - I interpret that to mean manners - required! nice to hear there are some men left who also value these things Thanks , I would like to think that they do too, but as I look around in today's society, I just don't know. It bothers me that I've been alone since my divorce in '99, and yet I see good, decent women, allowing themselves to be used by others, AND they stay in those relationships! Just kinda, sorta blows my mind....I'd give anything to find the right one. same here bry....it takes awhile for people to get their priorities straight - and learn HOW to choose a partner for the right reasons. I feel like I am still learning that kind of thing - but I certainly am better at recognizing qualities that I prefer now than I ever have been - and gotten better at avoiding red flags

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 03/10/12 06:49 PM
having one of those days when I truly miss times when I could choose to 'be alone',,,,sigh it so often seem greener on the other side,,,,