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Tue 03/27/12 12:16 AM
Now my last bit of advice then im outta here
i didn't sign up to ******** about politics and talk about it
for the clueless and slow learning try being about it instead
actions shine through every time and talk is cheap
even free and shows no one any dedication or proves nothing to no one
stop being afraid and making excuses for why your single or why
your life is so miserable and take actions and do something about it
you have to actually take actions and be active and answer emails
and answer messages ...women here im talking especially to you
guys get online and hunt and hunt and hunt while you just blow away
every opportunity you have cause your not ready to date or have
such low self esteem so you either deem him a con artist or say
hes fake or whatever ...your just making excuses for your self feeling sorry for your self while were standing here wondering wtf ...does she not like guys? does she like bad guys? did she even read my email
or message? maybe she likes women? i wonder if thats a guy?
all possibilities when you give us absolutely nothing to go on
if you put that same amount of effort into responding like you
do in a forum ...you may just get a date actually ...if your looking
that is i gotta keep reminding myself that 75% of you seem unwilling
or not even here for that at all...this should go in your profile
if you already haven't put it there yet .....but thats just advice
youd do well to remember that some of us havent actually dated any or
very very little so that may be a reason why the person went online in the first place cause obveously thats the logical thing to do
and you may not always like every person that emails you but
if you go ignoring it...were going to remember that and next time
we go on another site and see you ...well guess what were not stupid were going to avoid you and you've just shot your self in the foot ...think about that the next time your balling your eyes
out or complaining your alone ect ect ....and stop blaming us
and dishing us when you never respond or met us
..let me tell you something a person's profile is never
the full spectrum of their life or what the person has to offer
and will not tell you everything you need to know
...for those of you that are just too freakin shallow to see anything past your own nose ...i give up ...but you just dont
give a **** one way or another ....why don't you just do everybody
else a big favor and leave them alone ...you think they want to
hear your nasty smart *** remarks all the time when unlike you
they came here to find someone ...ill just answer this for you
NO THEY DO NOT ...im outta here i got bigger better things to
do than sit here rambling to people and getting run around
after run around after run around


bye try being about it and less talking about it

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Mon 03/26/12 11:08 PM
man4sale thanks for the question topic i too was wondering myself
singmesweet thanks for filling us in
dragoness and metalwing id have to say it sounds like your
well informed and in touch with the forum and what the many
reasons people sign up here for are
as for me i guess ill start printing out personalized cards
to hand out at the grocery store check out lines to the good looking
babes i seem to attract and strike a conversation see where that goes and go reactivate my account on a paid site i signed up for
but the trial ended ...at least for that short little time i was
active there i got emailed viewed more anyway ...probably might have landed my sweetie had i had the internet a few years ago and
just paid somewhere like that ..besides that some of my friends meet and are married now thanks to a few days on one of those numbers.....i guess you get what you pay for and whats free can
often be used by others for their own personal gain and often times
that has nothing to do with the assumed reason one would think they
joined...is facebook dead too lol myspace lost it's rank
...you may be right,could be a talk show, i havent been here near as long so i wouldn't know laugh



















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Mon 03/26/12 09:56 PM



i'm young and wise enough to know that u dnt fall in love overnight
thats why i thought if i took my time that everything in love would be right, but as soon as i close my eyes i was saying to love "goodbye"
no more empty conversations this time i will be totally sure
dnt want the pain of fallin in and out of love, its more than my poor heart should endure, so i have listened to all advice and remember how many times i cry
guess i'm only brokenhearted life's not over i can start again, while am lonely, brokenhearted,its a hurting thing to get over....

...... carrissa :(

i just looked at your profile ..your gorgeous ....i don't believe people like you deserve treatment like this...your way too good to be
having pain ..i guess i would say date older men ..same advice i found
out i also need to be doing..dating older women ...your wise grown up
superior imo and that doesn't mix well with immature people less intelligent or that just are kidlike and irresponsible or plain
could be your not attracting the right guys....blame nature
for that i guess...lol i hate that myself i think it may be im getting alot of that myself
...you need to be mean to guys just playing you and basically the
bad ones you don't need girl,but give the guys that are right for you your best,maybe turn up the heat so that they can take you seriously and i think they will trust you easier-otherwise it just comes off fake and detached i think....just stay away from them bad guys that live with mommy or live in jail...get the guys that are a little older than you if you have to that know how
to treat a woman and are responsible that actually care about you
...i think were having the same problems you and i or at least similar problems ...i just wished i could find more girls like you
i keep finding these dam problematic nut case drama types or the kidlike ones lol...i know how you feel it gets old


i am taking ur advice thank u, and for u i wish the best
thanks im happy i can be of good advice ...and i wish the best for you too sweet cheeksdrool go get em" girl and don't let anyone including haters stop you or bar your path ...they just want what they can't get,but you can :smile: take care friend

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Mon 03/26/12 08:27 PM
oh and another thing i have never meet unconfident people that were go getters lol just saying the two are like saying water and oil mix
i hope i dont have to get any better at my clarity lmao ...geeze

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Mon 03/26/12 08:07 PM

Helping my neighbor to not be (single.)


John, I must tell you, this is not helping you brother...
You sound like your frustrated, whining and non-confindent and girls/women haaaaate that.
Then putting down the other men is not helping. Makes you sound defensive and like a sissy.
Take control of what you can.

Be the man. Go after what you want, but first be ready to do it positively. not such a negative tone. You have good ideas, just coming off way negative.

Present yourself better in your photos, bad lighting my friend.
Not fake, but better, like you say that you are. How about different attire in some. Mix it up.

State some insight about how you think, but not putting anyone down to build you up.

Im sure some areas are really tough to find someone, others not so much. Good luck

LOL ok i beg to differ whatever you say man ...im just stating like everyone else does basically in their profile about what/who they are seeking and what/who they are NOT
LET ME TELL YOU im not whinning and non-confident at all
ironically,i think it's the other way around bud but looks like
i whine and whatever because i stated that i don't want a woman
that dates a guy thats basically a loser because i guess i tend
to think thats all she really is interested in and doesn't think she has the self esteem to take compliments and believe it from a guy like myself that isn't like this and makes something of himself
and is the go getter ....but thats just my standard i cannot stand it when a woman goes after some slime that lives in prison and does her like crap and controls her every move ...geeeze i don't understand how i can be so dam clear and be this misunderstood at
the same time ...it's just crazy man but seriously NO I AM NOT A WHINER COME ON ARE YOU KIDDING ME ...but yeah on the other hand i will admit i do get rather impatient and wonder sometimes ...what the hell is wrong with that ...sounds like it's bash the good guy and worship the mofo that is nobody ...perhaps i reckon it's a poor moral thing idk but i was raised to be responsible and stay outta
trouble and you listened and had some standards and how about some
respect looks like thats something missin here outta a lot of women these days gezze ....plus i just said i wasn't perfect and no one is ...at least im not some crazy glass eye prison moron...idk think we go unsung all to often

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Mon 03/26/12 07:00 PM

Better to wait for mrs right then to rush into something totally wrong. It's exciting to find love but rushing and settling often leads to disappointment because u trick yourself into thinking things are more pleasant or acceptable than they are.
WOW AINT THAT THE TRUTH
PERFECT RIGHT ON KEYdrinker

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Mon 03/26/12 06:37 PM
ok while were on the subject
that means i too am single
if your not here for joking around and
and your actually here for finding your man
then you ought to message me ...i do not give away
my full story in public sorry thats between me and
my one as it should be ..understand i have nothing to
hide im just not about making haste and waste for the sake
of blabbery and publicity ...some things should be kept
for our special person ...if your really single
and not cheating,crazy,fake, a liar,and untrustworthy
and you think you can give your man your best without
any deception and digging into his pocket and ect
and whatever else you women got up your sleeve that you know
your man will not appreciate then by all means aren't you
tired of being single...if you are and value the things that
really matter only message me if this is you ...i just started
my work in my business so really i just aint here for nonsense
...contact me if you have your head on straight lets do
something about your being single BUT do not message me
if your still going with little boys with a temper
im a real man im seeking a real woman
thank you i will soon find out if there are any REAL WOMEN
left on planet earth that LIKE REAL GUYS

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Mon 03/26/12 09:59 AM
hmm well obviously single
i message chat nudge do what i can
but 9 times outta ten
i do not hear back
we know you say your looking and single
but i guess there is still a question
looking for what? i see a lot of women saying
they want a good guy ...maybe i just don't
understand their definition of good i guess
oh yes im thinking of everyone here so heres
the finger for my no reply types
if this is truly 50% us and 50% you i have
more than done my part i feel
you know what to do and how to contact me
why don't you prove what you say in your profile
and if your NOT single i think you have no right
being here if your complaining
and im not going to put you together thats how
you should come and if your not really looking
then you shouldn't be here
oh yeah and not replying in my opinion is in fact NEGATIVE
try doing the doing the opposite and maybe
what i say would be POSITIVE ....never mind do what you want
but i don't pretend or fake anything just know this about me

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Sat 03/24/12 01:25 PM
hmm indeed a good question i think i can answer
regardless of sexes and race i think that this is something done
rather quickly so i think if our partner refuses we should move on
just as fast as they decided to accept us or not
and i always think if our person of interest brings up the word "change"
and uses it a certain way ..then thats where again we should move on
cause really they're already refusing to take us like we are
so i guess thats one of those simple things were going to know
very early on i think

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Thu 03/22/12 06:31 AM


..i guess i would say date older men ..same advice i found
out i also need to be doing..dating older women ...your wise grown up
superior imo and that doesn't mix well with immature people less intelligent or that just are kidlike and irresponsible or plain
could be your not attracting the right guys....blame nature
for that i guess...lol i hate that myself i think it may be im getting alot of that myself


Uh, no. Don't look for age when your trying to find maturity. Look for maturity. Nature doesnt do the picking. You do.


...you need to be mean to guys just playing you and basically the
bad ones you don't need girl,but give the guys that are right for you your best,maybe turn up the heat so that they can take you seriously and i think they will trust you easier-otherwise it just comes off fake and detached i think...

No again. Dont be mean to anyone. Be yourself and be respectful. When you see theyre a bad match, say so, or just say, 'no thank you'.

And ...HILL NO, dont 'turn up the heat' to be taken seriously. Thats rididculous. Reminds me of that classic neanderthalic line from high school boys trina get laid. "If you love me, prove it" all that proves is he's willing to use your feelings to get laid.

i say that cause some people work in a funny way...if people didn't take advantage of others kindness and great qualities then being nice to everyone would reciprocate more meaningfully,but you know how that goes ...then again she comes through very sincerely,definitely makes herself clear she is honestly looking,i tend to look for that cause taking chances for me and her i think as well just aint worth it ...actually she has plenty of passion and heat just the way she islove and that should only go to the man that she chooses that treats her the way i know she is going to treat him ...like hes the best thing that ever happened to her.. being nice to everyone is our choice but i aint playing da fool if i have to question anyone's motif then thats a red flag and tells me huh uh nope aint happenin..as for maturity well i think thats a majority thing in older people more commonly but yes that can and does go both directions,one more than another i think ...and nothing is wrong with sex as long as it always consented but some people get a little "CRANKY N SHITTY" of none at all or very little
..i just aint a believer i guess that that has to be put off until
marriage blah blah blah for freakin sakes ..there are people doing
far worse things than having sex..matter of fact i aint on this taboo **** about sex and it gets ridiculous anymore hearing about it
...people want to religion everything up and you cant thats just
our nature it is perfectly ok to have sex i don't care that anyone
disagrees with me ..but im not saying however that it's okay
to do that with everyone we see and meet ..of course not
but that is very much a large role in alot of people's relationships
some more than others but it varies very widely among people
but there is no doubt in my mind this girl will meet a great guy
after all she is a great girl...now if i can find me one of those laugh

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Thu 03/22/12 12:31 AM
your an awesome girl i wish you the best man babe :wink:

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Thu 03/22/12 12:24 AM

i'm young and wise enough to know that u dnt fall in love overnight
thats why i thought if i took my time that everything in love would be right, but as soon as i close my eyes i was saying to love "goodbye"
no more empty conversations this time i will be totally sure
dnt want the pain of fallin in and out of love, its more than my poor heart should endure, so i have listened to all advice and remember how many times i cry
guess i'm only brokenhearted life's not over i can start again, while am lonely, brokenhearted,its a hurting thing to get over....

...... carrissa :(

i just looked at your profile ..your gorgeous ....i don't believe people like you deserve treatment like this...your way too good to be
having pain ..i guess i would say date older men ..same advice i found
out i also need to be doing..dating older women ...your wise grown up
superior imo and that doesn't mix well with immature people less intelligent or that just are kidlike and irresponsible or plain
could be your not attracting the right guys....blame nature
for that i guess...lol i hate that myself i think it may be im getting alot of that myself
...you need to be mean to guys just playing you and basically the
bad ones you don't need girl,but give the guys that are right for you your best,maybe turn up the heat so that they can take you seriously and i think they will trust you easier-otherwise it just comes off fake and detached i think....just stay away from them bad guys that live with mommy or live in jail...get the guys that are a little older than you if you have to that know how
to treat a woman and are responsible that actually care about you
...i think were having the same problems you and i or at least similar problems ...i just wished i could find more girls like you
i keep finding these dam problematic nut case drama types or the kidlike ones lol...i know how you feel it gets old

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Tue 03/20/12 09:57 PM
ignorance ignorance ignorance
...i will not tell you anymore i doubt very seriously you are
even capable of handling any real facts and truth
...go on now you just go blindly following whatever hype
and bull you want,your doing scumbags like Goldman Sachs
a big favor...and please guys don't even go there with me
about your outdated sheep language about "respecting authority"
and "politically correct" or "terrorist"
...i hear any more of that and im going to go nuts
end of conversation i really don't talk about or think/care about
politricks or anything having anything to do with the government
but thanks to the posters trying to teach others the truth they need
to know

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Tue 03/20/12 09:28 PM
yeah really i too want to know why ...great question...ummmm ladies
?

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Mon 03/19/12 02:35 PM
im glad there are people here that know better and know the truth
about ron paul

now, the rest of you can just believe whatever makes you feel good
so that you can live in fantasy land and not wake up
i just told you that the media does NOT USE THE VOTING RESULTS
CAUCUS STATES LIKE IOWA AS WELL THEY ARE EVEN GETTING AWAY WITH
VOTING FRAUD...MOST OF THE VOTING IS ELECTRONIC
AND THESE RESULTS ARE ALREADY CHOSEN-THE MEDIA ALREADY KNOWS
WHO WON ALL ALONG
and your a complete fool if you think whoever wins any election
is going to do right by the people UNLESS IT WERE SOMEONE LIKE RON
PAUL ....STOP BUYING INTO PROPAGANDA AND THEN COMING ON HERE
AND ARGUING IT WITH FACTS AND TRUTH ...IT'S EXTREMELY ANNOYING
thank you

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Sat 03/17/12 05:47 AM

Can one find and date a serious person on internet?
lol im really starting to wonder that myself i hope so

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Sat 03/17/12 02:29 AM
i want to say one more thing here though that i think nowadays
at least for me i see as starting to get dry and cracked since i
think this goes well with this topic and seems most appropriate
...i don't think ladies that any guy would disagree with me that
a woman cannot and must not be totally bankrupt of inner beauty
...thats really important and is accounts for a lot of my decision
on who id choose to meet rather id be causal or permanent relation
inner beauty really makes a huge difference in the long haul and
outer beauty should never ever ever take priority over personality
character and who she is ...meaning that if she is ugly on the inside
then im sorry but looks in this scenario won't really matter at all
...looks are skin deep but she has got to have it going on upstairs
and must be a beautiful (ok at least likeable) person where it really matters on the inside
...and we don't know this if you do not reply to our messages ect...ect i understand not interested but if thats not the case
when it is not then we need some kind of lead...
but misleading us on isn't going to cut it...thats inner ugliness 4 me
there isnt nothing sexier than a woman sweet where it really counts
but takes time looking sexy 4 us to ...thats what sexy is

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Sat 03/17/12 01:01 AM

Whether I can forgive or not depends on the transgression against me or someone I care about, the reason behind it, and the sincerity and extent of corrective action or apology by the transgressor. There will always be some change to the relationship. Trust is an easy thing to damage and a difficult thing to re-earn.

There have been and probably will be again situations that I can not forgive, there are people that are no longer a part of my life because of there actions. I do not carry around a hatred for these people they are simply not a part of my life any more.

And in some extremely rare situations it has and may again become necessary to apply the simple principle that I must sometimes live by:

"I don't get mad, I get even!"pitchfork laugh
good point people need to realize trust isn't something that can just be granted whenever they just hold out there hands and say ..trust me dammit lol...it just isn't that simple and better care of people's trust and not making hurtful mistakes to others in the first place would really make a big difference ...the wrong doer holds just as much responsibility here as the forgiver ..sometimes actually more ...don't break trust and there will not have to be any forgiveness ...idk some people i guess that seems impossible to them i don't know

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Fri 03/16/12 06:08 AM

IMO...i think we are conditioned to adhere to what ever '' authority'' is speaking at the moment. the Bible IS the authority to the Christian world, so of course they will take what it says, and, being human, will interpret it as it suits their needs/wants. unfortunately, its also our Free will to do so.
yep,i think this has two parts really and i think this is the other part

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Fri 03/16/12 05:43 AM
well good question very difficult to know why i think
i think evil uses a religion for a place to tuck away deception and to gain trust and i think because beliefs tend to be strong so that trust is given then i think that evil carefully plots and plans it moves and makes it's move whatever that is ...idk
im not a religious person but thats what makes sense for me and how
i think it's done ...not saying im right or wrong though

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