Now my last bit of advice then im outta here
i didn't sign up to ******** about politics and talk about it for the clueless and slow learning try being about it instead actions shine through every time and talk is cheap even free and shows no one any dedication or proves nothing to no one stop being afraid and making excuses for why your single or why your life is so miserable and take actions and do something about it you have to actually take actions and be active and answer emails and answer messages ...women here im talking especially to you guys get online and hunt and hunt and hunt while you just blow away every opportunity you have cause your not ready to date or have such low self esteem so you either deem him a con artist or say hes fake or whatever ...your just making excuses for your self feeling sorry for your self while were standing here wondering wtf ...does she not like guys? does she like bad guys? did she even read my email or message? maybe she likes women? i wonder if thats a guy? all possibilities when you give us absolutely nothing to go on if you put that same amount of effort into responding like you do in a forum ...you may just get a date actually ...if your looking that is i gotta keep reminding myself that 75% of you seem unwilling or not even here for that at all...this should go in your profile if you already haven't put it there yet .....but thats just advice youd do well to remember that some of us havent actually dated any or very very little so that may be a reason why the person went online in the first place cause obveously thats the logical thing to do and you may not always like every person that emails you but if you go ignoring it...were going to remember that and next time we go on another site and see you ...well guess what were not stupid were going to avoid you and you've just shot your self in the foot ...think about that the next time your balling your eyes out or complaining your alone ect ect ....and stop blaming us and dishing us when you never respond or met us ..let me tell you something a person's profile is never the full spectrum of their life or what the person has to offer and will not tell you everything you need to know ...for those of you that are just too freakin shallow to see anything past your own nose ...i give up ...but you just dont give a **** one way or another ....why don't you just do everybody else a big favor and leave them alone ...you think they want to hear your nasty smart *** remarks all the time when unlike you they came here to find someone ...ill just answer this for you NO THEY DO NOT ...im outta here i got bigger better things to do than sit here rambling to people and getting run around after run around after run around bye try being about it and less talking about it |
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man4sale thanks for the question topic i too was wondering myself
singmesweet thanks for filling us in dragoness and metalwing id have to say it sounds like your well informed and in touch with the forum and what the many reasons people sign up here for are as for me i guess ill start printing out personalized cards to hand out at the grocery store check out lines to the good looking babes i seem to attract and strike a conversation see where that goes and go reactivate my account on a paid site i signed up for but the trial ended ...at least for that short little time i was active there i got emailed viewed more anyway ...probably might have landed my sweetie had i had the internet a few years ago and just paid somewhere like that ..besides that some of my friends meet and are married now thanks to a few days on one of those numbers.....i guess you get what you pay for and whats free can often be used by others for their own personal gain and often times that has nothing to do with the assumed reason one would think they joined...is facebook dead too lol myspace lost it's rank ...you may be right,could be a talk show, i havent been here near as long so i wouldn't know |
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brokenhearted
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i'm young and wise enough to know that u dnt fall in love overnight thats why i thought if i took my time that everything in love would be right, but as soon as i close my eyes i was saying to love "goodbye" no more empty conversations this time i will be totally sure dnt want the pain of fallin in and out of love, its more than my poor heart should endure, so i have listened to all advice and remember how many times i cry guess i'm only brokenhearted life's not over i can start again, while am lonely, brokenhearted,its a hurting thing to get over.... ...... carrissa :( i just looked at your profile ..your gorgeous ....i don't believe people like you deserve treatment like this...your way too good to be having pain ..i guess i would say date older men ..same advice i found out i also need to be doing..dating older women ...your wise grown up superior imo and that doesn't mix well with immature people less intelligent or that just are kidlike and irresponsible or plain could be your not attracting the right guys....blame nature for that i guess...lol i hate that myself i think it may be im getting alot of that myself ...you need to be mean to guys just playing you and basically the bad ones you don't need girl,but give the guys that are right for you your best,maybe turn up the heat so that they can take you seriously and i think they will trust you easier-otherwise it just comes off fake and detached i think....just stay away from them bad guys that live with mommy or live in jail...get the guys that are a little older than you if you have to that know how to treat a woman and are responsible that actually care about you ...i think were having the same problems you and i or at least similar problems ...i just wished i could find more girls like you i keep finding these dam problematic nut case drama types or the kidlike ones lol...i know how you feel it gets old i am taking ur advice thank u, and for u i wish the best |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 21
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oh and another thing i have never meet unconfident people that were go getters lol just saying the two are like saying water and oil mix
i hope i dont have to get any better at my clarity lmao ...geeze |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 21
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Helping my neighbor to not be (single.) John, I must tell you, this is not helping you brother... You sound like your frustrated, whining and non-confindent and girls/women haaaaate that. Then putting down the other men is not helping. Makes you sound defensive and like a sissy. Take control of what you can. Be the man. Go after what you want, but first be ready to do it positively. not such a negative tone. You have good ideas, just coming off way negative. Present yourself better in your photos, bad lighting my friend. Not fake, but better, like you say that you are. How about different attire in some. Mix it up. State some insight about how you think, but not putting anyone down to build you up. Im sure some areas are really tough to find someone, others not so much. Good luck LET ME TELL YOU im not whinning and non-confident at all ironically,i think it's the other way around bud but looks like i whine and whatever because i stated that i don't want a woman that dates a guy thats basically a loser because i guess i tend to think thats all she really is interested in and doesn't think she has the self esteem to take compliments and believe it from a guy like myself that isn't like this and makes something of himself and is the go getter ....but thats just my standard i cannot stand it when a woman goes after some slime that lives in prison and does her like crap and controls her every move ...geeeze i don't understand how i can be so dam clear and be this misunderstood at the same time ...it's just crazy man but seriously NO I AM NOT A WHINER COME ON ARE YOU KIDDING ME ...but yeah on the other hand i will admit i do get rather impatient and wonder sometimes ...what the hell is wrong with that ...sounds like it's bash the good guy and worship the mofo that is nobody ...perhaps i reckon it's a poor moral thing idk but i was raised to be responsible and stay outta trouble and you listened and had some standards and how about some respect looks like thats something missin here outta a lot of women these days gezze ....plus i just said i wasn't perfect and no one is ...at least im not some crazy glass eye prison moron...idk think we go unsung all to often |
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Better to wait for mrs right then to rush into something totally wrong. It's exciting to find love but rushing and settling often leads to disappointment because u trick yourself into thinking things are more pleasant or acceptable than they are. PERFECT RIGHT ON KEY |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 21
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ok while were on the subject
that means i too am single if your not here for joking around and and your actually here for finding your man then you ought to message me ...i do not give away my full story in public sorry thats between me and my one as it should be ..understand i have nothing to hide im just not about making haste and waste for the sake of blabbery and publicity ...some things should be kept for our special person ...if your really single and not cheating,crazy,fake, a liar,and untrustworthy and you think you can give your man your best without any deception and digging into his pocket and ect and whatever else you women got up your sleeve that you know your man will not appreciate then by all means aren't you tired of being single...if you are and value the things that really matter only message me if this is you ...i just started my work in my business so really i just aint here for nonsense ...contact me if you have your head on straight lets do something about your being single BUT do not message me if your still going with little boys with a temper im a real man im seeking a real woman thank you i will soon find out if there are any REAL WOMEN left on planet earth that LIKE REAL GUYS |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 21
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hmm well obviously single
i message chat nudge do what i can but 9 times outta ten i do not hear back we know you say your looking and single but i guess there is still a question looking for what? i see a lot of women saying they want a good guy ...maybe i just don't understand their definition of good i guess oh yes im thinking of everyone here so heres the finger for my no reply types if this is truly 50% us and 50% you i have more than done my part i feel you know what to do and how to contact me why don't you prove what you say in your profile and if your NOT single i think you have no right being here if your complaining and im not going to put you together thats how you should come and if your not really looking then you shouldn't be here oh yeah and not replying in my opinion is in fact NEGATIVE try doing the doing the opposite and maybe what i say would be POSITIVE ....never mind do what you want but i don't pretend or fake anything just know this about me |
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hmm indeed a good question i think i can answer
regardless of sexes and race i think that this is something done rather quickly so i think if our partner refuses we should move on just as fast as they decided to accept us or not and i always think if our person of interest brings up the word "change" and uses it a certain way ..then thats where again we should move on cause really they're already refusing to take us like we are so i guess thats one of those simple things were going to know very early on i think |
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brokenhearted
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..i guess i would say date older men ..same advice i found out i also need to be doing..dating older women ...your wise grown up superior imo and that doesn't mix well with immature people less intelligent or that just are kidlike and irresponsible or plain could be your not attracting the right guys....blame nature for that i guess...lol i hate that myself i think it may be im getting alot of that myself Uh, no. Don't look for age when your trying to find maturity. Look for maturity. Nature doesnt do the picking. You do. ...you need to be mean to guys just playing you and basically the bad ones you don't need girl,but give the guys that are right for you your best,maybe turn up the heat so that they can take you seriously and i think they will trust you easier-otherwise it just comes off fake and detached i think... No again. Dont be mean to anyone. Be yourself and be respectful. When you see theyre a bad match, say so, or just say, 'no thank you'. And ...HILL NO, dont 'turn up the heat' to be taken seriously. Thats rididculous. Reminds me of that classic neanderthalic line from high school boys trina get laid. "If you love me, prove it" all that proves is he's willing to use your feelings to get laid. ..i just aint a believer i guess that that has to be put off until marriage blah blah blah for freakin sakes ..there are people doing far worse things than having sex..matter of fact i aint on this taboo **** about sex and it gets ridiculous anymore hearing about it ...people want to religion everything up and you cant thats just our nature it is perfectly ok to have sex i don't care that anyone disagrees with me ..but im not saying however that it's okay to do that with everyone we see and meet ..of course not but that is very much a large role in alot of people's relationships some more than others but it varies very widely among people but there is no doubt in my mind this girl will meet a great guy after all she is a great girl...now if i can find me one of those |
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brokenhearted
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your an awesome girl i wish you the best man babe
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brokenhearted
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i'm young and wise enough to know that u dnt fall in love overnight thats why i thought if i took my time that everything in love would be right, but as soon as i close my eyes i was saying to love "goodbye" no more empty conversations this time i will be totally sure dnt want the pain of fallin in and out of love, its more than my poor heart should endure, so i have listened to all advice and remember how many times i cry guess i'm only brokenhearted life's not over i can start again, while am lonely, brokenhearted,its a hurting thing to get over.... ...... carrissa :( i just looked at your profile ..your gorgeous ....i don't believe people like you deserve treatment like this...your way too good to be having pain ..i guess i would say date older men ..same advice i found out i also need to be doing..dating older women ...your wise grown up superior imo and that doesn't mix well with immature people less intelligent or that just are kidlike and irresponsible or plain could be your not attracting the right guys....blame nature for that i guess...lol i hate that myself i think it may be im getting alot of that myself ...you need to be mean to guys just playing you and basically the bad ones you don't need girl,but give the guys that are right for you your best,maybe turn up the heat so that they can take you seriously and i think they will trust you easier-otherwise it just comes off fake and detached i think....just stay away from them bad guys that live with mommy or live in jail...get the guys that are a little older than you if you have to that know how to treat a woman and are responsible that actually care about you ...i think were having the same problems you and i or at least similar problems ...i just wished i could find more girls like you i keep finding these dam problematic nut case drama types or the kidlike ones lol...i know how you feel it gets old |
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And Ron Paul..............
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ignorance ignorance ignorance
...i will not tell you anymore i doubt very seriously you are even capable of handling any real facts and truth ...go on now you just go blindly following whatever hype and bull you want,your doing scumbags like Goldman Sachs a big favor...and please guys don't even go there with me about your outdated sheep language about "respecting authority" and "politically correct" or "terrorist" ...i hear any more of that and im going to go nuts end of conversation i really don't talk about or think/care about politricks or anything having anything to do with the government but thanks to the posters trying to teach others the truth they need to know |
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Bad Boys...
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yeah really i too want to know why ...great question...ummmm ladies
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And Ron Paul..............
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im glad there are people here that know better and know the truth
about ron paul now, the rest of you can just believe whatever makes you feel good so that you can live in fantasy land and not wake up i just told you that the media does NOT USE THE VOTING RESULTS CAUCUS STATES LIKE IOWA AS WELL THEY ARE EVEN GETTING AWAY WITH VOTING FRAUD...MOST OF THE VOTING IS ELECTRONIC AND THESE RESULTS ARE ALREADY CHOSEN-THE MEDIA ALREADY KNOWS WHO WON ALL ALONG and your a complete fool if you think whoever wins any election is going to do right by the people UNLESS IT WERE SOMEONE LIKE RON PAUL ....STOP BUYING INTO PROPAGANDA AND THEN COMING ON HERE AND ARGUING IT WITH FACTS AND TRUTH ...IT'S EXTREMELY ANNOYING thank you |
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Can one find and date a serious person on internet? |
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question for the guys...
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i want to say one more thing here though that i think nowadays
at least for me i see as starting to get dry and cracked since i think this goes well with this topic and seems most appropriate ...i don't think ladies that any guy would disagree with me that a woman cannot and must not be totally bankrupt of inner beauty ...thats really important and is accounts for a lot of my decision on who id choose to meet rather id be causal or permanent relation inner beauty really makes a huge difference in the long haul and outer beauty should never ever ever take priority over personality character and who she is ...meaning that if she is ugly on the inside then im sorry but looks in this scenario won't really matter at all ...looks are skin deep but she has got to have it going on upstairs and must be a beautiful (ok at least likeable) person where it really matters on the inside ...and we don't know this if you do not reply to our messages ect...ect i understand not interested but if thats not the case when it is not then we need some kind of lead... but misleading us on isn't going to cut it...thats inner ugliness 4 me there isnt nothing sexier than a woman sweet where it really counts but takes time looking sexy 4 us to ...thats what sexy is |
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forgiveness
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Whether I can forgive or not depends on the transgression against me or someone I care about, the reason behind it, and the sincerity and extent of corrective action or apology by the transgressor. There will always be some change to the relationship. Trust is an easy thing to damage and a difficult thing to re-earn. There have been and probably will be again situations that I can not forgive, there are people that are no longer a part of my life because of there actions. I do not carry around a hatred for these people they are simply not a part of my life any more. And in some extremely rare situations it has and may again become necessary to apply the simple principle that I must sometimes live by: "I don't get mad, I get even!" |
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using the bible as an excuse
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IMO...i think we are conditioned to adhere to what ever '' authority'' is speaking at the moment. the Bible IS the authority to the Christian world, so of course they will take what it says, and, being human, will interpret it as it suits their needs/wants. unfortunately, its also our Free will to do so. |
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using the bible as an excuse
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well good question very difficult to know why i think
i think evil uses a religion for a place to tuck away deception and to gain trust and i think because beliefs tend to be strong so that trust is given then i think that evil carefully plots and plans it moves and makes it's move whatever that is ...idk im not a religious person but thats what makes sense for me and how i think it's done ...not saying im right or wrong though |
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