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Topic: Do You Set off Red Flags when it comes to Dating?
navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 02/21/12 02:02 PM
Have been reading topics on seeing red flags in others but how about ourselves? I will go first. Me, never married; never been in a long term relationship, never had kids, very independent, being in the military, my age, a bit too tall for most men, and too muscular. So anyone else think they set off red flags when it comes to dating?

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 02/21/12 02:12 PM
Absolutely. I've been married but it was an abominable experience, I would never do that again. I never had kids, I don't drink, I'm not really a "people person," I have Asperger's, I'm a reclusive hermit who does little other than write books and dwiddle around on the computer, and I have the attention span of a chili dog. Women are not looking for someone like that....!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 02/21/12 02:14 PM
Absolutely. I've been married but it was an abominable experience, I would never do that again. I never had kids, I don't drink, I'm not really a "people person," I have Asperger's, I'm a reclusive hermit who does little other than write books and dwiddle around on the computer, and I have the attention span of a chili dog. Women are not looking for someone like that....! I never thought you as not being a people person Lex. You seem rather friendly here on the forums.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 02/21/12 02:20 PM
Absolutely. I've been married but it was an abominable experience, I would never do that again. I never had kids, I don't drink, I'm not really a "people person," I have Asperger's, I'm a reclusive hermit who does little other than write books and dwiddle around on the computer, and I have the attention span of a chili dog. Women are not looking for someone like that....! I never thought you as not being a people person Lex. You seem rather friendly here on the forums. Well, it's different on here. I don't get incessantly pummeled by people with idiotic demands here, the way I used to in real life. I've found that the best people are on line people, because they're not trying to get something from you every 15 seconds.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 02/21/12 02:24 PM
Absolutely. I've been married but it was an abominable experience, I would never do that again. I never had kids, I don't drink, I'm not really a "people person," I have Asperger's, I'm a reclusive hermit who does little other than write books and dwiddle around on the computer, and I have the attention span of a chili dog. Women are not looking for someone like that....! I never thought you as not being a people person Lex. You seem rather friendly here on the forums. Well, it's different on here. I don't get incessantly pummeled by people with idiotic demands here, the way I used to in real life. I've found that the best people are on line people, because they're not trying to get something from you every 15 seconds. Yeah this is true. I always wonder too if you just in general you can relate better to the people here.

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Tue 02/21/12 02:30 PM
My Last Encounter Set off not so much a Red Flag but a Flaming Torch...

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Tue 02/21/12 02:38 PM
my disclaimer: i don't like humans.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 02/21/12 02:45 PM
My Last Encounter Set off not so much a Red Flag but a Flaming Torch... No, I was talking about red flags about yourself; not the other person. What would a person see as a red flag in you?

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Tue 02/21/12 02:46 PM
My Last Encounter Set off not so much a Red Flag but a Flaming Torch... No, I was talking about red flags about yourself; not the other person. What would a person see as a red flag in you? I am Talking about The Other Person.. I set off a Flaming Torch

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 02/21/12 02:48 PM
my disclaimer: i don't like humans. Is this something you would actually tell someone that asked you out on a date?

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 02/21/12 02:49 PM
My Last Encounter Set off not so much a Red Flag but a Flaming Torch... No, I was talking about red flags about yourself; not the other person. What would a person see as a red flag in you? I am Talking about The Other Person.. I set off a Flaming Torch So, are you going to tell what it was?

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Tue 02/21/12 02:51 PM
A case of mistaken Identity

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Tue 02/21/12 02:52 PM Edited by JOHNN111 on Tue 02/21/12 02:54 PM
1. I snore 2. I'm self employed... long hours 3. I live in a country Far Far away! 4. I don't put up with much Horsechit

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 02/21/12 02:54 PM
1) Biker 2) Few get past 1

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Tue 02/21/12 03:00 PM
Is this something you would actually tell someone that asked you out on a date? absolutely.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Tue 02/21/12 03:05 PM Edited by Ghostrider2u on Tue 02/21/12 03:05 PM
my disclaimer: i don't like humans. But....... but...... BUT.......... I have a............. Beard!!!!!!!!!!!

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 02/21/12 03:07 PM
1) Biker 2) Few get past 1 Yeah, most guys don't get past me serving in the military, so really the rest is never heard.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Tue 02/21/12 03:19 PM
But....... but...... BUT.......... I have a............. Beard!!!!!!!!!!! but you smoke. D:

parttime_vikingfan Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 894	Tue 02/21/12 03:26 PM
I check to see if my sock is a left or a right before I put it on.

Sneaksintoyourheart Joined Fri 10/16/09 Posts: 19261	Tue 02/21/12 03:29 PM
1. I snore ( so i can push u on the floor then? lol) 2. I'm self employed... long hours (that means u gotta cook ur own dinner) 3. I live in a country Far Far away! (i thought that was a different planet?) 4. I don't put up with much Horsechit (that means ya don't clean up messes?)