Well, yes, I love larger women. In the vertical direction. I was in seventh heaven every time I dated or was in a relationship with a woman at least four inches taller than I.

The weight is not a problem for me... at all. But round body shape is. If she weighs three hundred and fifty lbs, I prefer her to be at around eight or nine feet tall. Yeah. That'd be just about right.

Any woman who is over ten feet tall and weighs the proverbial 105 lbs, would be less than skin and bones, the poor thing. Nobody would want to date her.

I am also fat, and I like to call myself fat, coz that's what I am. I like self-honesty, even more than I wish for it from others. I know about the hatred and jeers we get every time we turn around everywhere. I know about the false, forced smiles, and the disdain. But I don't mind it. I realized it's much easier to take, even with the loneliness and lovelessness that accompany it, if I face it and admit that my fatness is my development; nobody forced me at gunpoint to overeat and underexercise. And I definitely must not blame them for not liking fat people, coz I don't like fat people, can't bear the thought of dating one. (When people play with themselves, they fantasize about a good-looking person. When I love myself, I have to fantasize a partner and then another persona, I have to fantasize a person to replace me in the love scenes, coz I for one would destroy the mood for myself with my presence.)

So the key to happiness for fat people, myself included, is not to try to delude ourselves that we are unduly discriminated against, and that people are superficial and shallow. Maybe they are, but so are we.

We, instead , should learn how to live without a partner, without any prospect of ever developing into a relationship with another, and enjoy the smaller pleasures in life.

Yeah. Smaller pleasures for larger people.

Why did the Communist Manifesto not pick that line instead of the boring and too-oft repeated "workers of the world, unite! You have nothing to lose by your chains, and the whole world to gain."

We fat people have a lot of weight to lose, and nothing to gain.

And I, I I I, also want to touch her thighs.

That's a big yes yes yes from me.

This babe ain't fat. She is plus size, but not fat. That plus in her body is all massive, ravagable flesh. Of course you must realize that the picture had to do with a lot of ice cube baths, snake skin oil, puff, and fans to blow her hair and ankles. Maybe there was also some post-production work done on her.

I find this larger model sexy. If all fat women looked like her, this model, then there would be no "nice fat girl" threads, I'd venture to say.

In fact, I wish the government would do something about it. I mean, why not. We are so very micro-managed by now, that people would not even notice a new law that introduced topping off the carbohydrate intake of the citizens (and of illegal immigrants, though this latter would be harder to do).

I don't think making a law about how much food intake you can get would be a very good idea.

But also, if they were to make a maximum they HAVE to make a minimum.

So prevent obesity & anorexia/belemia.

Might as well just put a weight limit on society if they were gonna go that far.

Overweight/underweight your going to jail...

You can leave me out of this one. Too much drama. Arghhh!

lemme c um i prefer nice boobs a real a$$ size dont rweally matter but must be under 200 lbs for me

How can you tell when it is just the right amount of drama? Or is drama really unnecessary? Is there a certain amount of drama that is just right? How do you know when you have just had too much drama?

I don't even think about that to be honest with you. lol. Weight issues. The arguements to and fro just never end. Why should i get involved? I steer clear of arguements like this. I do have a mind of my own. As far as i'm concerned, it's not worth the trouble.

I know why. Because women get overly sensitive because its their issue and men tell it like it is because they like themselves the way they are. Ladies learn from the men folk.

You got involved when you posted in the thread.

You got involved when you posted in the thread.



Well, i was really just answering RainbowTrout's question.

I dont think it does matter but id say lots of men prefer curvy women

n 4 good reasons

While this statement is true I don't think it is bad for anyone to want to date someone who is at a healthy weight. That is unless they are not at a healthy weight themselves. Being a hypocrite is never good.

People will date who they want to date. Sometimes weight is a factor in that, sometimes it isn't.

"Healthy" weight is different for each guy. Least in different races and cultures. Like in Uganda...women there, especially new brides are treated like princesses if they are curvaceous.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/comfort-cravings/201004/fat-is-beautiful

That's not to say its HEALTHY to be that way (I think its more healthy to eat, take care of yourself and like who you are) but our society in this country is just so influenced by French fashion, we're so used to it. We're just so vastly under advanced as a species.

I've found that I have more of an issue with my weight than any of the guys I've known. I actually have a guy friend who has made it his life's mission to make me see the beauty in my body. So the issue has never been with the guys, but more with me. When I don't feel comfortable in my own skin, his opnion is of the least importance to me.

I meant what is considered medically healthy lol.

Please define "curvy". It's like the phrase "a few extra pound". Always defined by the user and not according to some sort of standard.

Whenever this topic arises it seems BBW's can only see two sizes of women:

1. Anorexic
2. Obese

There is a whole spectrum of sizes of women below seriously overweight. Overall men want women who have a proportionate figure. Statistics show the closer to the ratio of:

0.7 to 1
waist to hip

a woman is the more attractive she is viewed to be. Human nature is human nature and trying to shame men about this is only a turn off.

By the way, I view women's profiles around my age. The more attractive and in shape she is the pickier she is. So this isn't just a male character trait.

Yes sometime....

curvy damn it