but sex and love are not the same thing mikey, we can love children and siblings and everyone under the sun,, not the same as sleeping with them all though,,,

the 'born gay' theory has not been proven, its just one 'theory' of many,,,

Bad or no bad, habit or no habit..my advice is don't go for what will shorten ur life or kill you.

No. And this is one of the many confusing and sad things about the cultures insistance that we not have opinions (judgements) about what people do. The very notion that we should be 'defined' by what we feel or do in any given moment or collection of moments. If I say bisexual is what I am, and then someone says its a 'bad habit', its followed that they are saying I am 'wrong' or a 'bad person.'


If I say, more accurately, I have bisexual FEELINGS, than someone could say such feelings are not healthy and the 'attack' would not be seen against me personally. But our society says we must be defined by 'sexual preference' and we accept it. We are whatever our sexual preference is,,, as if humans have anything about them that cannot adapt and change as their environment or their conscious sees fit to.

To answer the question though, No, your lesbian friend is not better OR worse than anyone else who falls short,, that means all of us. She just isnt perfect either. None of us are. That is how the concept of us all being sinners, or for the non religious, all being imperfect comes in. Its much more loving (IMHO) than the judgemental society that would kill some for their crimes and let other starve for their weaknesses. It makes us all equally imperfect and equally capable of living each day to learn and grow into better versions of ourself.

Been a gay is very wrong, cause God created women for a man when he discovered he was alone..so a man is main for a woman and not a man for a man...

but, butt...I thought you liked me

This is so wrong. Science hasnt established anything about illness or disability. That is the job of medical professionals. Mental health professionals have also not established anything about homosexuality. IN fact, they originally classed it as an illness until politics and lobbying forced them to remove it because they couldnt PROVE that it was an illness (not because they had proven it wasnt).

And we all have to judge. That is how we make our own decisions about right and wrong. We are just not to be hypocrites that condemn others for things we are ourself guilty of but not willing to be condemned for. We judge the health and logic of actions and words so we can make decisions about how to proceed in our own.

To each his or her own Harmony...I stand by my post...Judge on sugar!

most of us do (stand by our posts)

if there isnt significant reason presented for us to do otherwise,,,

preach on girl... if everyone was gay, our species would die out...

its not even that deep, if everyone was female we would die out too.

Its just that the parts were made to compliment each other sexually, the male and female parts

that is why the other are usually called 'alternative' because they arent in line with the NATURAL biology of the species...

not to mention the heightened risks of sodomy and how it trickles down to the rest of society,,,

so your saying she shouldn't say her feelings? she can judge, just like your judging her now... she has every right to her opinion, as you do...

i just consider it bad morals, not to mention bad judgement...

I agree with the bad judgment, as to morals, I think there is some of that and I think there is also alot of confusion in a society making wrong into right and right into wrong

it FEELS right, so it must BE right,,,thats the moral standard we promote,, and children are learning early on,, so how can we flaw when they grow into adults whose actions and words reflect what 'feels' right to them...

you people keep saying it has been scientifically proven... that, sir, is a lie set forth by the gays themselves...why don't you show me how that can possibly be proven?

to some people, it feels "right" to cut themselves with razors... they get locked up for that, but they still say it is right...

Scientists have conducted brain activity scans, and it's shown that the more active zones for certain triggers with gay men are different from straight men, and more similar to that of straight women. It's same the other way around.

Excuse me for not providing a source and black/white result for this, but I'm simply relaying what I know and have seen in various docusmentaries. And I'm sure there's other similar tests.



That being said, I frankly do not care how this discussion ends. All I can say is that you are entitled to your own opinion, as long as you don't force it on others who disagree. They have reasons for sticking to their opinion. be that justified or not, they aint gonna listen.
We have spoken our mind, and even that happened in a volatile manner (goes for me too to a degree, as response to the religious ideas), and we should leave it at that if we aren't capable of having a mature discussion without reverting to acting like kids who have a fight over whose dad owns whose.

says you... everyone has an opinion, and everyone's isn't necessarily right...

And I consider those that dont accept others for who they are dont care about others unless they fit in their "beliefs" as being pretty niave in the way God wants us to work in this world,when is the last time a gay person changed your life? Maybe he or she is the one that taught U in school and the teacher U learned the most from and U didnt know they were Gay!!! Has one EVER tried to make U Gay? I am so glad I dont have YOUR "morals" or judgement of people that may not be the way we are but accept them as Human beings!!!

don't cry or get scared... you said it is a proven fact, i disagree...there is no way to prove that, as the brain changes throughout our lifetime... when you find the "gay" gene, then you can say how gays are born that way... many gays have stopped being gay, and vice versa... so how would you explain that?