well I grew up in Pa. we're enlightened there

I mean it's OK to have varying opinions about our sexuality and even to find the idea of homosexual acts unattractive - which I do - but I can't believe that anyone would refuse to befriend or work with someone who is gay

to treat gay people like anyone else

it doesn't mean you ARE gay

I think people are afraid of guilt by association, but really? have some intestinal fortitude...what if their son or daughter turned out to be gay?

that would change their 'tudes right quick

yes ...heterosexuals can also use sex as an escape or temporary fix of other issues,,

Basically what you're saying is anyone having sex (except for procreation) is doing so because of underlying issues.

I agree

its acceptable to love,, yes

its acceptable to spend our lives loving ,,,yes

its not acceptable to use the body for physical and sexual satisfaction which it was not BUILT for

I dont consider it sex, I consider it an alternative or lead in to sex, and I consider it as inappropriate as I would a father and daughter performing any of those activities together,,

no, its not what Im saying.

I said heterosexuals and homosexuals sometimes use sex because of underlying issues

heterosexuals, however, also use it to become 'one' with their partner the way their bodies are designed to do so,,,

You don't think even heterosexual people use their bodies for physical and sexual satisfaction? Do you think that's acceptable at any time?

yes, it is acceptable to do so in the way the body was DESIGNED to,,,with the parts that FIT

in a way that requires true INTIMACY and BONDING (eye contact)

I have known homosexual couples who very clearly loved each other

I don't like to think about their bedroom ball dancing, but I would not presume to judge either

just to jump in with my.02

two people I love most in the world are also homosexual
I likewise dont like to think about their bedroom ball dancing

I do believe it to be unhealthy and unclean and unnatural , but I dont consider it to be anything that defines them or undermines what wonderful people they are,,

yes, it is acceptable to do so in the way the body was DESIGNED to,,,with the parts that FIT

in a way that requires true INTIMACY and BONDING (eye contact)

yes, it is acceptable to do so in the way the body was DESIGNED to,,,with the parts that FIT

in a way that requires true INTIMACY and BONDING (eye contact)

I feel its unclean (being in the area where FECES is disposed of)
I feel it is unclean (injesting fluids from the area where urine is disposed of)

I feel it is unhealthy (rupturing and tearing internal walls that were meant to push OUT, not take in)

I feel it is unhealthy (licking what may essentially be bacteria and germs from urine and feces)

I feel it is NOT intimate (very little eye to eye contact involved, about as mutually DETACHED as two can be)

BUT, That being explained

it doesnt matter, I Cant control what people do to their bodies or others bodies with 'consent'

I dont and wont approve of everything that one can do to themself or others with 'consent'

and my opinion is my own thing, just like their sexual activity is theres

no use continuing to repeat the same explanations and opinions over and over


If some pretty little girl grows up to think daddy is the bees knees and wants to share her bed and life with him , with his consent

that will be their business, but I wont feel the least bit bad about saying it concerns me,,,,

because of the notion that all that should matter is whether two people are adults who 'consent' and love each other

adult incest would fall under that category

i wonder what your thoughts are on strap ons.
but anyways,
heterosexual couples participate in all of the above too.
they must have underlying issues as well then, no?
damn all these sexual acts used for pleasure.
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