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Topic: What is wrong with being Gay?
msharmony's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:41 PM






I can't believe I am reading this - is it 1973?

It has been a long long time since gender orientation was an issue.
so I actually think it is silly to worry about it




Sadly, it's still an issue for many, many people. I don't understand it.

it is still an issue, and wil continue to be, till eternity...


Or until bigotry dies.



bigotry cant die, technically, because that would call for people who already dont consider themself bigots to stand steadfast

which , technically, makes them bigoted as well

bigot : a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices


Guess I will see you all in hell then!!!


I really wouldnt take it that far...lol

people can be devoted to their opinions and be RIGHT,,,,I was just pointing out the technical definition of 'bigot'

TheCaptain's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:43 PM
And what is the deeper issue????


navygirl's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:43 PM
Edited by navygirl on Wed 11/02/11 01:44 PM







I can't believe I am reading this - is it 1973?

It has been a long long time since gender orientation was an issue.
so I actually think it is silly to worry about it




Sadly, it's still an issue for many, many people. I don't understand it.

it is still an issue, and wil continue to be, till eternity...


Or until bigotry dies.



bigotry cant die, technically, because that would call for people who already dont consider themself bigots to stand steadfast

which , technically, makes them bigoted as well

bigot : a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices


Guess I will see you all in hell then!!!


I really wouldnt take it that far...lol

people can be devoted to their opinions and be RIGHT,,,,I was just pointing out the technical definition of 'bigot'


I was being sarcastic. No one is perfect; not even God.

no photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:43 PM

I can only tell you it concerns me as a means of trying to find 'intimacy' between a woman and a woman

its a symptom of deeper issues that should be dealt with instead, in my opinion,,,and that concerns me


i'm so laughing right now.
haha.
why don't you spit it out?
give it to me straight.
what are these 'deeper issues?'
and what's your definition of intimacy?

msharmony's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:44 PM

And what is the deeper issue????





depends upon the person, really

eileena9's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:44 PM






I can't believe I am reading this - is it 1973?

It has been a long long time since gender orientation was an issue.
so I actually think it is silly to worry about it




Sadly, it's still an issue for many, many people. I don't understand it.

it is still an issue, and wil continue to be, till eternity...


Or until bigotry dies.



bigotry cant die, technically, because that would call for people who already dont consider themself bigots to stand steadfast

which , technically, makes them bigoted as well

bigot : a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices


Guess I will see you all in hell then!!!



Save me a spot next to the punchbowl, hun!!!!!!:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

Optomistic69's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:44 PM

unhealthy is unhealthy, consenting adults can consent to unhealthy activities

consent doesnt automatically make anything 'right' or 'healthy' or of noone elses concern,,,,




Consenting Educated adults can do what they want, that makes it right for them. As long as hygiene is taken care of then it is all healthy fun.

TheCaptain's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:44 PM
I never thought this would ever happen............

I agree with B!!!!!!!

no photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:44 PM



unhealthy is unhealthy, consenting adults can consent to unhealthy activities

consent doesnt automatically make anything 'right' or 'healthy' or of noone elses concern,,,,




you keep saying it's not 'right' or 'healthy.'
well then tell me why it's wrong or unhealthy.


I can only tell you it concerns me as a means of trying to find 'intimacy' between a woman and a woman

its a symptom of deeper issues that should be dealt with instead, in my opinion,,,and that concerns me


Hmm. Because two women can be intimate together, or two men can be intimate together, using your logic, something must be wrong with them because it's a symptom of a deeper issue?

TheCaptain's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:45 PM


And what is the deeper issue????





depends upon the person, really


Name some of them.

navygirl's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:45 PM







I can't believe I am reading this - is it 1973?

It has been a long long time since gender orientation was an issue.
so I actually think it is silly to worry about it




Sadly, it's still an issue for many, many people. I don't understand it.

it is still an issue, and wil continue to be, till eternity...


Or until bigotry dies.



bigotry cant die, technically, because that would call for people who already dont consider themself bigots to stand steadfast

which , technically, makes them bigoted as well

bigot : a person who is obstinately or intolerantly devoted to his or her own opinions and prejudices


Guess I will see you all in hell then!!!



Save me a spot next to the punchbowl, hun!!!!!!:banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:


Absolutely; putting the steaks on the BB as we speak. laugh

msharmony's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:46 PM


I can only tell you it concerns me as a means of trying to find 'intimacy' between a woman and a woman

its a symptom of deeper issues that should be dealt with instead, in my opinion,,,and that concerns me


i'm so laughing right now.
haha.
why don't you spit it out?
give it to me straight.
what are these 'deeper issues?'
and what's your definition of intimacy?



nah, its gotten circular and pointless enough

noone is perfect, everyone has their own individual 'issues' to deal with, but sex is not the escape or the answer, and I fear too many people convince themself that it is,,,

navygirl's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:46 PM
Edited by navygirl on Wed 11/02/11 01:48 PM


unhealthy is unhealthy, consenting adults can consent to unhealthy activities

consent doesnt automatically make anything 'right' or 'healthy' or of noone elses concern,,,,




Consenting Educated adults can do what they want, that makes it right for them. As long as hygiene is taken care of then it is all healthy fun.


You are spot on my dear :thumbsup: but what is wrong with dirty sex? laugh

msharmony's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:48 PM


unhealthy is unhealthy, consenting adults can consent to unhealthy activities

consent doesnt automatically make anything 'right' or 'healthy' or of noone elses concern,,,,




Consenting Educated adults can do what they want, that makes it right for them. As long as hygiene is taken care of then it is all healthy fun.



I love ya opt, but right for 'them' still doesnt make it right either.

a father and daughter could feel 'right' having protected/sanitary sex together,, but that still wouldnt make such sex 'right'

no photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:48 PM

nah, its gotten circular and pointless enough

noone is perfect, everyone has their own individual 'issues' to deal with, but sex is not the escape or the answer, and I fear too many people convince themself that it is,,,


so you're assuming i use sex as an escape?
if i get turned on by a female,
there's an underlying issue causing it.
if i get turned on by a male,
i'm perfectly sane.
p.s;
i'm abstinent.
(:

eileena9's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:48 PM
Edited by eileena9 on Wed 11/02/11 01:50 PM



unhealthy is unhealthy, consenting adults can consent to unhealthy activities

consent doesnt automatically make anything 'right' or 'healthy' or of noone elses concern,,,,




Consenting Educated adults can do what they want, that makes it right for them. As long as hygiene is taken care of then it is all healthy fun.


You are spot on my dear. :thumbsup:


I third this!!!drinker drinker :banana: :banana: devil (and I agree with your edit too!!!!devil devil )

TheCaptain's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:48 PM



I can only tell you it concerns me as a means of trying to find 'intimacy' between a woman and a woman

its a symptom of deeper issues that should be dealt with instead, in my opinion,,,and that concerns me


i'm so laughing right now.
haha.
why don't you spit it out?
give it to me straight.
what are these 'deeper issues?'
and what's your definition of intimacy?



nah, its gotten circular and pointless enough








noone is perfect, everyone has their own individual 'issues' to deal with, but sex is not the escape or the answer, and I fear too many people convince themself that it is,,,


Thats right. Stay vague and obscure so you can't be proven wrong.

msharmony's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:50 PM


nah, its gotten circular and pointless enough

noone is perfect, everyone has their own individual 'issues' to deal with, but sex is not the escape or the answer, and I fear too many people convince themself that it is,,,


so you're assuming i use sex as an escape?
if i get turned on by a female,
there's an underlying issue causing it.
if i get turned on by a male,
i'm perfectly sane.
p.s;
i'm abstinent.
(:




no, I dont debate what 'turns' people on

IM only addressing how they choose to DEAL with or ACT upon what else is going on in their hearts and their lives,,

Optomistic69's photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:52 PM



unhealthy is unhealthy, consenting adults can consent to unhealthy activities

consent doesnt automatically make anything 'right' or 'healthy' or of noone elses concern,,,,




Consenting Educated adults can do what they want, that makes it right for them. As long as hygiene is taken care of then it is all healthy fun.


You are spot on my dear :thumbsup: but what is wrong with dirty sex? laugh


Thank you Darling :angel: Dirty Sex...I am easily led..:wink:

no photo
Wed 11/02/11 01:52 PM



I can only tell you it concerns me as a means of trying to find 'intimacy' between a woman and a woman

its a symptom of deeper issues that should be dealt with instead, in my opinion,,,and that concerns me


i'm so laughing right now.
haha.
why don't you spit it out?
give it to me straight.
what are these 'deeper issues?'
and what's your definition of intimacy?



nah, its gotten circular and pointless enough

noone is perfect, everyone has their own individual 'issues' to deal with, but sex is not the escape or the answer, and I fear too many people convince themself that it is,,,


We're all just trying to understand how you think. You're the one who said it's a symptom of deeper issues. So why do you think sex with the same sex is a symptom of deeper issues and what are those deeper issues?

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