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I can only tell you it concerns me as a means of trying to find 'intimacy' between a woman and a woman its a symptom of deeper issues that should be dealt with instead, in my opinion,,,and that concerns me i'm so laughing right now. haha. why don't you spit it out? give it to me straight. what are these 'deeper issues?' and what's your definition of intimacy? nah, its gotten circular and pointless enough noone is perfect, everyone has their own individual 'issues' to deal with, but sex is not the escape or the answer, and I fear too many people convince themself that it is,,, Thats right. Stay vague and obscure so you can't be proven wrong. there is no way to prove an opinion 'wrong' I Cant possibly answer what issues people have in their lives, but I Can be of the opinion that such issues often lead them to other things like drug use or homosexual activity or promiscuity or cutting or any other number of 'outlets' humans have discovered as momentary fixes,,, |
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no, I dont debate what 'turns' people on IM only addressing how they choose to DEAL with or ACT upon what else is going on in their hearts and their lives,, eh? so there has to be something going on in my life causing me to be bi? |
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I think I've got Mr.Harmony's opinion.
Its okay to have an attraction or desire for members of the opposite sex, and that makes you bisexual. But if you act on those desires or attractions, then there are deeper issues that need to be addressed. |
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Guess I will see you all in hell then!!! If you are going down I will Join you 
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no, I dont debate what 'turns' people on IM only addressing how they choose to DEAL with or ACT upon what else is going on in their hearts and their lives,, eh? so there has to be something going on in my life causing me to be bi? no, I am bi too there is something causing you to engage in bi sexual SEX |
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no, I dont debate what 'turns' people on IM only addressing how they choose to DEAL with or ACT upon what else is going on in their hearts and their lives,, eh? so there has to be something going on in my life causing me to be bi? no, I am bi too there is something causing you to engage in bi sexual SEX So you're telling us that you have deeper issues which cause you to be bi? |
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Guess I will see you all in hell then!!! If you are going down I will Join you Oh goody. 
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unhealthy is unhealthy, consenting adults can consent to unhealthy activities consent doesnt automatically make anything 'right' or 'healthy' or of noone elses concern,,,, Consenting Educated adults can do what they want, that makes it right for them. As long as hygiene is taken care of then it is all healthy fun. You are spot on my dear.  I third this!!!    (and I agree with your edit too!!!! ) Count me in Yes the edit did take me by surprise
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I think I've got Mr.Harmony's opinion. Its okay to have an attraction or desire for members of the opposite sex, and that makes you bisexual. But if you act on those desires or attractions, then there are deeper issues that need to be addressed. close enough the jury is still out on how 'ok' it is to have certain feelings, but feelings are trickier and harder to control Actions though, are usually preceded by some type of catalyst,,, |
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no, I am bi too there is something causing you to engage in bi sexual SEX didn't i just say i'm abstinent? i don't understand why there has to be a reason to why i have sex with other females, but no reason as to why i have sex with males. |
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I think I've got Mr.Harmony's opinion. Its okay to have an attraction or desire for members of the opposite sex, and that makes you bisexual. But if you act on those desires or attractions, then there are deeper issues that need to be addressed. close enough the jury is still out on how 'ok' it is to have certain feelings, but feelings are trickier and harder to control Actions though, are usually preceded by some type of catalyst,,, All I can say is wow. |
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no, I dont debate what 'turns' people on IM only addressing how they choose to DEAL with or ACT upon what else is going on in their hearts and their lives,, eh? so there has to be something going on in my life causing me to be bi? no, I am bi too there is something causing you to engage in bi sexual SEX So you're telling us that you have deeper issues which cause you to be bi? no, Im saying my issues dont cause me to engage in bi sexual sex,,, |
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Wed 11/02/11 02:02 PM
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no, I dont debate what 'turns' people on IM only addressing how they choose to DEAL with or ACT upon what else is going on in their hearts and their lives,, eh? so there has to be something going on in my life causing me to be bi? no, I am bi too there is something causing you to engage in bi sexual SEX So you're telling us that you have deeper issues which cause you to be bi? no, Im saying my issues dont cause me to engage in bi sexual sex,,, YOu're saying it's perfectly ok to be sexually attracted to the same sex, yet there's something wrong with you if you act on that attraction. I'm not even quite sure how to respond to this. |
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Thats because you are Heterosexual. LMFAO
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Is this like the person who says they are a vegetarian that only eats certain meats??????????
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no, I dont debate what 'turns' people on IM only addressing how they choose to DEAL with or ACT upon what else is going on in their hearts and their lives,, eh? so there has to be something going on in my life causing me to be bi? no, I am bi too there is something causing you to engage in bi sexual SEX Some of us are getting little or none and you two are doubling up....not fair 
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no, I am bi too there is something causing you to engage in bi sexual SEX didn't i just say i'm abstinent? i don't understand why there has to be a reason to why i have sex with other females, but no reason as to why i have sex with males. noone said that there should be no reason to have sex there are reasons we decide NOT to have sex that includes those who decide to be abstinent those who decide they wont have sex with females those who decide they wont have sex with males there are reasons we decide we will have unrestricted sex that includes those who are promiscuous and those who engage in sex with both genders there is some catalyst that causes them to come to such absolute exclusion or complete detachment |
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Is this like the person who says they are a vegetarian that only eats certain meats?????????? no, because vegetarian is not based upon a FEELING, but the activity of what one eats |
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hm.
so i'm abstinent right now, but bi. therefore my issues must not be that horrible since i'm simply attracted but not acting. the day i decide to go have sex with a female, my issues must have gotten way worse. O: i'd say that's an impossibility. haha. |
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no, I am bi too there is something causing you to engage in bi sexual SEX didn't i just say i'm abstinent? i don't understand why there has to be a reason to why i have sex with other females, but no reason as to why i have sex with males. noone said that there should be no reason to have sex there are reasons we decide NOT to have sex that includes those who decide to be abstinent those who decide they wont have sex with females those who decide they wont have sex with males there are reasons we decide we will have unrestricted sex that includes those who are promiscuous and those who engage in sex with both genders there is some catalyst that causes them to come to such absolute exclusion or complete detachment And some of those would include.................please fill in the blank!!!!!! |
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