Topic: If you fell in LOVE here
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Mon 09/19/11 10:31 PM
I still believe in the magic of love and I would do anything, go anywhere to have that in my life again.

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 09/19/11 10:35 PM
Edited by Simonedemidova on Mon 09/19/11 10:36 PM

I still believe in the magic of love and I would do anything, go anywhere to have that in my life again.


Me too, well i cant relocate due to custody issues, but I am very open spirited and never scorned. Although OC,CA is not such a bad place you would want to leave. bigsmile

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Tue 09/20/11 09:04 AM


I still believe in the magic of love and I would do anything, go anywhere to have that in my life again.


Me too, well i cant relocate due to custody issues, but I am very open spirited and never scorned. Although OC,CA is not such a bad place you would want to leave. bigsmile

Well, you can still get Lasagna in OC, CA. I'm jealous.:wink:

OrangeCat's photo
Tue 09/20/11 09:12 AM
Nope


wont do long distance relationships, wont move for any one. tried it one time never again.

Sandelwood4's photo
Tue 09/20/11 11:53 AM
I don't regret that I gave up my life in Germany, my friends, my family and all for the man I loved because there was no other way for us to be together and now I my life is here. But what hurts is that after 7 years when we divorced and I had to put a restraining order on him, I received hate letters from his mom claiming I used his son for the green card. sad2 That hurts after giving up my life to be with her son.

If I met "my man" in person that is and we hit it off I would do the same thing again if it made sense at the time in my life. :smile:

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Tue 09/20/11 02:21 PM

If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can???

I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice???

no. there is no love without sacrifice, for me i dont think i will fall in love with whom i have not being with physically, but in case it happen, he will have to look for me. happy

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Tue 09/20/11 07:01 PM




Falling in love online could be considered a false emotion. Best to fall in love when you meet in person ^_^


I think many people in this thread may have misunderstood my whole question...

What i am meaning to say, is if you fell in LOVE.....I mean of course you would be doing more than chatting in forums here. Meeting, dating, talking on phone, have intimate relationships with someone, the whole "LOVE" package...

I guess what sparked my curiosity is I see a lot of couples on here..who live so far apart and some in separate countries, even tattooing their names on one another and doing different stuff. I am wondering How hard is it to live so far apart and call it love. I dont think I could be in LOVE with someone at all if ONE of US was not willing to move.



I dont see a reply to your quote, but i am not calling anyone in particular out. I see MANY couples on here falling in love, getting engaged and what not....but yet also keeping the distance between them. I Dont think i can handle being so far from the ONE i love. I see so many couples on here like that.


I completely agree with you beyond words simone - which is what makes the LDR thing an IDK for me

but there is no way I'd enter a relationship unless we lived near by or planned to soon & it would require a ton of talking sessions to get it straight I think - it's getting to the point to even talk about that which is hard because I don't give most guys a chance who live any distance and the times I have, it didn't work out anyway <just glad I hadn't made any drastic decisions....

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 09/20/11 07:47 PM

I don't regret that I gave up my life in Germany, my friends, my family and all for the man I loved because there was no other way for us to be together and now I my life is here. But what hurts is that after 7 years when we divorced and I had to put a restraining order on him, I received hate letters from his mom claiming I used his son for the green card. sad2 That hurts after giving up my life to be with her son.

If I met "my man" in person that is and we hit it off I would do the same thing again if it made sense at the time in my life. :smile:


Thats nice, you never know really know a person, until you spending your life with them for awhile, on a daily-----Love is not something you want to risk having regrets about! Good for you!

Simonedemidova's photo
Tue 09/20/11 07:50 PM





Falling in love online could be considered a false emotion. Best to fall in love when you meet in person ^_^


I think many people in this thread may have misunderstood my whole question...

What i am meaning to say, is if you fell in LOVE.....I mean of course you would be doing more than chatting in forums here. Meeting, dating, talking on phone, have intimate relationships with someone, the whole "LOVE" package...

I guess what sparked my curiosity is I see a lot of couples on here..who live so far apart and some in separate countries, even tattooing their names on one another and doing different stuff. I am wondering How hard is it to live so far apart and call it love. I dont think I could be in LOVE with someone at all if ONE of US was not willing to move.



I dont see a reply to your quote, but i am not calling anyone in particular out. I see MANY couples on here falling in love, getting engaged and what not....but yet also keeping the distance between them. I Dont think i can handle being so far from the ONE i love. I see so many couples on here like that.


I completely agree with you beyond words simone - which is what makes the LDR thing an IDK for me

but there is no way I'd enter a relationship unless we lived near by or planned to soon & it would require a ton of talking sessions to get it straight I think - it's getting to the point to even talk about that which is hard because I don't give most guys a chance who live any distance and the times I have, it didn't work out anyway <just glad I hadn't made any drastic decisions....


I would chase love and move if I had too and if it was feasible. It may not be feasible, but then again if it wasnt, i would not probably allow it to develop in the first place.

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Tue 09/20/11 07:52 PM






Falling in love online could be considered a false emotion. Best to fall in love when you meet in person ^_^


I think many people in this thread may have misunderstood my whole question...

What i am meaning to say, is if you fell in LOVE.....I mean of course you would be doing more than chatting in forums here. Meeting, dating, talking on phone, have intimate relationships with someone, the whole "LOVE" package...

I guess what sparked my curiosity is I see a lot of couples on here..who live so far apart and some in separate countries, even tattooing their names on one another and doing different stuff. I am wondering How hard is it to live so far apart and call it love. I dont think I could be in LOVE with someone at all if ONE of US was not willing to move.



I dont see a reply to your quote, but i am not calling anyone in particular out. I see MANY couples on here falling in love, getting engaged and what not....but yet also keeping the distance between them. I Dont think i can handle being so far from the ONE i love. I see so many couples on here like that.


I completely agree with you beyond words simone - which is what makes the LDR thing an IDK for me

but there is no way I'd enter a relationship unless we lived near by or planned to soon & it would require a ton of talking sessions to get it straight I think - it's getting to the point to even talk about that which is hard because I don't give most guys a chance who live any distance and the times I have, it didn't work out anyway <just glad I hadn't made any drastic decisions....


I would chase love and move if I had too and if it was feasible. It may not be feasible, but then again if it wasnt, i would not probably allow it to develop in the first place.


I think we are saying pretty much the same - regardless of whether it develops or not OR how - I know I agree I could not live separated. period.

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Tue 09/20/11 07:54 PM

If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can???

I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice???


Moving for internet love seem illogical. Make sure it's right for you and let the internet love be icing on the proverbial cake!

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Wed 09/21/11 02:45 PM






Falling in love online could be considered a false emotion. Best to fall in love when you meet in person ^_^


I think many people in this thread may have misunderstood my whole question...

What i am meaning to say, is if you fell in LOVE.....I mean of course you would be doing more than chatting in forums here. Meeting, dating, talking on phone, have intimate relationships with someone, the whole "LOVE" package...

I guess what sparked my curiosity is I see a lot of couples on here..who live so far apart and some in separate countries, even tattooing their names on one another and doing different stuff. I am wondering How hard is it to live so far apart and call it love. I dont think I could be in LOVE with someone at all if ONE of US was not willing to move.



I dont see a reply to your quote, but i am not calling anyone in particular out. I see MANY couples on here falling in love, getting engaged and what not....but yet also keeping the distance between them. I Dont think i can handle being so far from the ONE i love. I see so many couples on here like that.


I completely agree with you beyond words simone - which is what makes the LDR thing an IDK for me

but there is no way I'd enter a relationship unless we lived near by or planned to soon & it would require a ton of talking sessions to get it straight I think - it's getting to the point to even talk about that which is hard because I don't give most guys a chance who live any distance and the times I have, it didn't work out anyway <just glad I hadn't made any drastic decisions....


I would chase love and move if I had too and if it was feasible. It may not be feasible, but then again if it wasnt, i would not probably allow it to develop in the first place.


I think the confusing thing is deciding whether to take the chances needed to see if it will work out.....deciding to "decide"

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Wed 09/21/11 03:59 PM
So...don't try to find love here bro...Love will find you. It won't matter if it is here or a club or a grocery store. None of us get to pick and choose whe we find love. I just happened to find it here.

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Wed 09/21/11 04:04 PM
i said if i fell in love here i'd b a damn fool... what was so wrong about that?????

krupa's photo
Wed 09/21/11 04:06 PM

i said if i fell in love here i'd b a damn fool... what was so wrong about that?????


Love has made fools all my man. Here is as good a place as any.

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Wed 09/21/11 04:20 PM
No sweat my man. It just takes a little getting used too. Once people get to know you a bit , they loosen up. I went through the same thing. There ARE a few douches around but, not that many. Just say your piece and in no time you will blend right into this circus bro.

Don't worry about Sweet...she is actually a cool bird.

andrewb1771's photo
Wed 09/21/11 04:26 PM

No sweat my man. It just takes a little getting used too. Once people get to know you a bit , they loosen up. I went through the same thing. There ARE a few douches around but, not that many. Just say your piece and in no time you will blend right into this circus bro.

Don't worry about Sweet...she is actually a cool bird.
do doubt bro i'm a vet i know what it is, but when i'm challanged for no reason i will speak my peace.. i can be the most intelligable intelligent person or the most dastardly!!! i let people choose which they want!!

krupa's photo
Wed 09/21/11 04:29 PM
Apparently, I ain't that bright.

andrewb1771's photo
Wed 09/21/11 04:30 PM
lmao don't b facetious with wisdom i know better than that bro!!! lol

carold's photo
Wed 09/21/11 04:33 PM

If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can???

I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice???
I kind of hope he would come to me.flowerforyou