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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice???  but how would u decide? |
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? but how would u decide? What I said is what I hope for  Don't always work that way.
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? but how would u decide? and sometimes neither can move, so you just wait.. it just depends what works and what commitments you make. |
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i said if i fell in love here i'd b a damn fool... what was so wrong about that????? Love has made fools all my man. Here is as good a place as any. For sure, i am probably more foolish then most 
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Edited by
josie68
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Thu 09/22/11 12:00 AM
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No sweat my man. It just takes a little getting used too. Once people get to know you a bit , they loosen up. I went through the same thing. There ARE a few douches around but, not that many. Just say your piece and in no time you will blend right into this circus bro. Yeh we all luv you Krupa 
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Falling in love online could be considered a false emotion. Best to fall in love when you meet in person ^_^ I think many people in this thread may have misunderstood my whole question... What i am meaning to say, is if you fell in LOVE.....I mean of course you would be doing more than chatting in forums here. Meeting, dating, talking on phone, have intimate relationships with someone, the whole "LOVE" package... I guess what sparked my curiosity is I see a lot of couples on here..who live so far apart and some in separate countries, even tattooing their names on one another and doing different stuff. I am wondering How hard is it to live so far apart and call it love. I dont think I could be in LOVE with someone at all if ONE of US was not willing to move. I dont see a reply to your quote, but i am not calling anyone in particular out. I see MANY couples on here falling in love, getting engaged and what not....but yet also keeping the distance between them. I Dont think i can handle being so far from the ONE i love. I see so many couples on here like that. I completely agree with you beyond words simone - which is what makes the LDR thing an IDK for me but there is no way I'd enter a relationship unless we lived near by or planned to soon & it would require a ton of talking sessions to get it straight I think - it's getting to the point to even talk about that which is hard because I don't give most guys a chance who live any distance and the times I have, it didn't work out anyway <just glad I hadn't made any drastic decisions.... I would chase love and move if I had too and if it was feasible. It may not be feasible, but then again if it wasnt, i would not probably allow it to develop in the first place. I think the confusing thing is deciding whether to take the chances needed to see if it will work out.....deciding to "decide" I see what you are saying, so OKAY if the LOVE had developed, I would move if it meant staying together. I would not let stubborness destroy us. One of us has to be willing to move and if we are in love, I would think, we (the couple) involved would not think twice about it. Spending your life with the one you love is like gold at the end of the rainbow. If either party is not willing to move-then I would question the validity and depth of their love. |
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? Moving for internet love seem illogical. Make sure it's right for you and let the internet love be icing on the proverbial cake! I agree and every relationship starts somewhere. Either online or downtown or at a mutual friends party. Leaving an establishment in person-with a flirty stranger is as dangerous as meeting up with an online stranger. But devoting everyday, for hours on end is developing a relationship. The snare here is even ten year marriages can go sour, so it's like at what point do we REALLy know someone. I can be slaughtered just as easy meeting a man at a resturaunt and agreeing to leave with him and relocate for coffee(per say) as easy i can be kidnapped for meeting up with an online stranger. But say this is not the case, you meet this person and you find you really do love another, I am not against moving to live a life with them. Its a risk as in most things in life. |
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I prepared this thread, and I except all comments offensive or not. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and controversy is my friend.
If you found love here you will be a damn fool as much as you will be a damn fool for finding love in the church or at a friends birthday party, or a dance club. Love turns everyone into a giddy fool. Thats what makes it so fun. This thread is about, IF you did find love here, would you be willing to move to be with this person who holds the key to your heart? Or for some, they are comfortable and would risk losing love for the stability of their current situation. POINT IS Love is RISKY business....Are you willing to take risks in LIFE, Andrew? |
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? but how would u decide? Fate would decide on which party is more willing or able. |
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? but how would u decide? and sometimes neither can move, so you just wait.. it just depends what works and what commitments you make. Do either of you planning on moving at some point down the road though? |
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Dont be scurred!
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It's a big mistake when a guy thinks he will definitely end up being with me just because he wants me. I would have to have a special bond with a potential lover, otherwise i just don't end up feeling like we'd get on well with eac other. Also, we both need to have stuff in common. I'm not so sure anymore. I was naive to think it was quite safe. It makes me feel slightly nauses to be honest, as i'd find it odd if i was about to meet a cyber date without feeling at least a tiny bit of doubt. Think it would be a tad unnatural to not be slightly phased by the whole thing. Nerves and caution can be great safety detectors. Also seen a recent incident where a woman went to meet her online date, and the next day he murdered her. So i approach with caution. And i would always take someone i knew along with me. You never know.
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tough, i hope it is easier said than done.
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Falling in love online could be considered a false emotion. Best to fall in love when you meet in person ^_^ I think many people in this thread may have misunderstood my whole question... What i am meaning to say, is if you fell in LOVE.....I mean of course you would be doing more than chatting in forums here. Meeting, dating, talking on phone, have intimate relationships with someone, the whole "LOVE" package... I guess what sparked my curiosity is I see a lot of couples on here..who live so far apart and some in separate countries, even tattooing their names on one another and doing different stuff. I am wondering How hard is it to live so far apart and call it love. I dont think I could be in LOVE with someone at all if ONE of US was not willing to move. I dont see a reply to your quote, but i am not calling anyone in particular out. I see MANY couples on here falling in love, getting engaged and what not....but yet also keeping the distance between them. I Dont think i can handle being so far from the ONE i love. I see so many couples on here like that. I completely agree with you beyond words simone - which is what makes the LDR thing an IDK for me but there is no way I'd enter a relationship unless we lived near by or planned to soon & it would require a ton of talking sessions to get it straight I think - it's getting to the point to even talk about that which is hard because I don't give most guys a chance who live any distance and the times I have, it didn't work out anyway <just glad I hadn't made any drastic decisions.... I would chase love and move if I had too and if it was feasible. It may not be feasible, but then again if it wasnt, i would not probably allow it to develop in the first place. I think the confusing thing is deciding whether to take the chances needed to see if it will work out.....deciding to "decide" I see what you are saying, so OKAY if the LOVE had developed, I would move if it meant staying together. I would not let stubborness destroy us. One of us has to be willing to move and if we are in love, I would think, we (the couple) involved would not think twice about it. Spending your life with the one you love is like gold at the end of the rainbow. If either party is not willing to move-then I would question the validity and depth of their love. I can agree with this. I guess people just weigh all the factors. I guess what I don't get is how can you fall in love with someone who lives that far away that you never get to see in the first place? But that's just me - I lack imagination... |
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I believe at some point in time you have to make sacrifices in love. Moving to a new location might be one and there are other reasons. I sacrificed 5 years in a long distant relationship.
I made it clear in the very beginning when we met that was not the kind of relationship I wanted, and we should just call it quits, but he convinced me he was moving to start a new life where I lived and wanted us to be together. He was suppose to move but he didn't. Year after year he just made excuses for why he couldn't. So as much in love with him as I was I had to make the sacrifice of letting him go. I believe that two people have to be on the same page with each other about what they want in a relationship in order for it to work. If you're honest enough with each other and love each other you can bend and make sacrifices that are right for your relationship because in the end you are both reaching for your goal as a couple. |
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I believe at some point in time you have to make sacrifices in love. Moving to a new location might be one and there are other reasons. I sacrificed 5 years in a long distant relationship. I made it clear in the very beginning when we met that was not the kind of relationship I wanted, and we should just call it quits, but he convinced me he was moving to start a new life where I lived and wanted us to be together. He was suppose to move but he didn't. Year after year he just made excuses for why he couldn't. So as much in love with him as I was I had to make the sacrifice of letting him go. I believe that two people have to be on the same page with each other about what they want in a relationship in order for it to work. If you're honest enough with each other and love each other you can bend and make sacrifices that are right for your relationship because in the end you are both reaching for your goal as a couple. See this is exactly what i would be afraid of...the part where you are lead on, year after year. I bet that must have been hard and frustrating for you....Long distance relationships are very scary and do require a lot of maintenance and sacrifice. Also arguments...time is sparse and precious in LDR. |
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I believe at some point in time you have to make sacrifices in love. Moving to a new location might be one and there are other reasons. I sacrificed 5 years in a long distant relationship. I made it clear in the very beginning when we met that was not the kind of relationship I wanted, and we should just call it quits, but he convinced me he was moving to start a new life where I lived and wanted us to be together. He was suppose to move but he didn't. Year after year he just made excuses for why he couldn't. So as much in love with him as I was I had to make the sacrifice of letting him go. I believe that two people have to be on the same page with each other about what they want in a relationship in order for it to work. If you're honest enough with each other and love each other you can bend and make sacrifices that are right for your relationship because in the end you are both reaching for your goal as a couple. See this is exactly what i would be afraid of...the part where you are lead on, year after year. I bet that must have been hard and frustrating for you....Long distance relationships are very scary and do require a lot of maintenance and sacrifice. Also arguments...time is sparse and precious in LDR. an some of us have more time than others....I totally agree with much of what u are saying but if I do not get the vibe frm "him" I will not devote |
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? Love is absolutely real without sacrifice...but will it be enough to carry a relationship?...usually not, IMO...at some point...some point down the road...there will be a conflict...and someone will have to give a little to keep that conflict from creating and becoming a rift....if it is the same someone over and over again...plenty of sacrifice was made but nw the balance is off...the love would certainly suffer..I would have to ride it...for awhile...and see what the fates have in store....Despite the strong feelings I may be experiencing, I would be afraid to make a move of any sort too soon. |
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there definitely has to be a "vibe" and some good intuition involved to get into a LDR first, but if that is solid...I would hope he would move to be with me.
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Only live once. I would and am. My feelings are as follows to the issues most have. 1:Family- To me family moves and grows with each new place. I was lucky enough to have my ex willing to work with me about visitation with my son. My siblings are all adults and can take care of themselves or at least have no choice now lol. Friends-are the family i get to choose in this day an age communication is at the push of a button. If i end up living in paradise then they can always come visit and vice versa. My home is wherever i make it. Money is just money and there are ways to make money no matter where you are. So its a no brainer for me.  I like it. Except...now I am just speaking from experience,situations differ but do not under-estimate the impact it has on the child....not saying don't do it...just be alert for breakage and be ready and willing to pick up and put some pieces back together, before the damage is irreparable....sorry, I realize that you did not ask for advice...it's just what came to mind.
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