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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? Truthfully, this is a total no-brainer for me. There is nothing for me where I am other than the fact I have no way out. I'd go in a heartbeat if the right opportunity arose. There is always a way out. Pick up and go! What's the worse that can happen...you'd end up in a homeless shelter  . You are in charge of your own life Lex...no one is going to save you but yourself  I know, I've heard it all a million times before, but the reality doesn't fit quite so conveniently into the "standard wisdom." There's a lot more to it than that. |
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Edited by
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Falling in love online could be considered a false emotion. Best to fall in love when you meet in person ^_^ I think many people in this thread may have misunderstood my whole question... What i am meaning to say, is if you fell in LOVE.....I mean of course you would be doing more than chatting in forums here. Meeting, dating, talking on phone, have intimate relationships with someone, the whole "LOVE" package... I guess what sparked my curiosity is I see a lot of couples on here..who live so far apart and some in separate countries, even tattooing their names on one another and doing different stuff. I am wondering How hard is it to live so far apart and call it love. I dont think I could be in LOVE with someone at all if ONE of US was not willing to move. No I couldn't keep a long distance thing going. What about the children? :O My children love it, They have someone on the other side of the world who sends them things They get to laugh at him when he is here with his accent and funny ways They get to take his son to school with them when he is here and show him off. They get to travel to the other side of the world every christmas to have a white christmas for there 9 weeks school holidays. and they know their mum is happy. They do not mind at all Plus I guess for the older boys they dont have another man completely invading their territory Happy for your children ^_^ For me personally, I just want the children to have mama and papa with them in person, all the time. There's some things only a mother can give, and some things only a father can give. Real hugs are better, then a kind word on video chat :) Yes, I would want my man, fully present in my childrens lives, assuming that i have grown to fully trust him and love him without doubt. I would appreciate the sacrifice on his part to be a father like figure and treat them as his own. I guess that is why i prefer dating single parent dads as well. |
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Also I think video chat would get very old very fast...I am very much a tangible person.
I long for that person to hold me in his arms, wake up next to me in the morning. Bring my dinner by at work. And have his dinner ready for him when he comes home from work..relax on the couch together watching a show. Punching in the arm as we joke around... 
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? And it didn't work out....whatever... 
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? And it didn't work out....whatever... third time is the charm. the bulldog awaits you 
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? And it didn't work out....whatever... third time is the charm. the bulldog awaits you 
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IDK
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? And it didn't work out....whatever... awww bummer! |
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Also I think video chat would get very old very fast...I am very much a tangible person. I long for that person to hold me in his arms, wake up next to me in the morning. Bring my dinner by at work. And have his dinner ready for him when he comes home from work..relax on the couch together watching a show. Punching in the arm as we joke around... Better be careful you might hurt your hand. 
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Falling in love online could be considered a false emotion. Best to fall in love when you meet in person ^_^ I think many people in this thread may have misunderstood my whole question... What i am meaning to say, is if you fell in LOVE.....I mean of course you would be doing more than chatting in forums here. Meeting, dating, talking on phone, have intimate relationships with someone, the whole "LOVE" package... I guess what sparked my curiosity is I see a lot of couples on here..who live so far apart and some in separate countries, even tattooing their names on one another and doing different stuff. I am wondering How hard is it to live so far apart and call it love. I dont think I could be in LOVE with someone at all if ONE of US was not willing to move. No I couldn't keep a long distance thing going. What about the children? :O My children love it, They have someone on the other side of the world who sends them things They get to laugh at him when he is here with his accent and funny ways They get to take his son to school with them when he is here and show him off. They get to travel to the other side of the world every christmas to have a white christmas for there 9 weeks school holidays. and they know their mum is happy. They do not mind at all Plus I guess for the older boys they dont have another man completely invading their territory Happy for your children ^_^ For me personally, I just want the children to have mama and papa with them in person, all the time. There's some things only a mother can give, and some things only a father can give. Real hugs are better, then a kind word on video chat :) Yep and I think that is what everyone wants, but a father who is there to support any way is better than one who just doesnt care of bashes you , and verbally abuses you. I guess since my kids had a Dad who took the time to bash, demoralise, steal them away and threaten them with death. That to them someone who takes time and just shows them they care is worth an awful lot. In someways it has given them time to get to know and trust him without the fear that he may change. We are a strange family but for us it is working. I'm sorry to hear that your children went through that. There's nothing strange about learning to trust, after a horrific ordeal such as that. My family is not perfect, but I enjoy time to myself, to learn, how not to be like them... and it's tough. In a way its great, because they really do appreciate the fact that someone is nice. Sometimes you dont realise that you have something good, but if you have something really bad first,, You never ever stop being thankful for a great thing 
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Also I think video chat would get very old very fast...I am very much a tangible person. I long for that person to hold me in his arms, wake up next to me in the morning. Bring my dinner by at work. And have his dinner ready for him when he comes home from work..relax on the couch together watching a show. Punching in the arm as we joke around... Better be careful you might hurt your hand. Lest yee forget I am a ninja fighting Kickboxer fool! |
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Also I think video chat would get very old very fast...I am very much a tangible person. I long for that person to hold me in his arms, wake up next to me in the morning. Bring my dinner by at work. And have his dinner ready for him when he comes home from work..relax on the couch together watching a show. Punching in the arm as we joke around... Better be careful you might hurt your hand. Lest yee forget I am a ninja fighting Kickboxer fool! Well you better be a Lion tamer if your going to play rough with me. 
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? I dont think I can fall in love online, ID have to spend REAL TIME and see them in their own environment, with their family, with their friends,,,etc,,, IF I met someone here initially and then fell after spending time and seeing them in different situations with different people,,we would have to decide to both move to a place we could build TOGETHER, I probably wouldnt want to move to 'his' home or have him move to 'mine' I have children so there are some risks IM not gonna take unless they are both ways,,(equal risk on both sides) |
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Also I think video chat would get very old very fast...I am very much a tangible person. I long for that person to hold me in his arms, wake up next to me in the morning. Bring my dinner by at work. And have his dinner ready for him when he comes home from work..relax on the couch together watching a show. Punching in the arm as we joke around... Better be careful you might hurt your hand. Lest yee forget I am a ninja fighting Kickboxer fool! Well you better be a Lion tamer if your going to play rough with me. Clearly you have already been tamed-
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Edited by
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Edited by
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Also I think video chat would get very old very fast...I am very much a tangible person. I long for that person to hold me in his arms, wake up next to me in the morning. Bring my dinner by at work. And have his dinner ready for him when he comes home from work..relax on the couch together watching a show. Punching in the arm as we joke around... Better be careful you might hurt your hand. Lest yee forget I am a ninja fighting Kickboxer fool! Well you better be a Lion tamer if your going to play rough with me. Clearly you have already been tamed- You confuse laid back for tame.  |
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If you fell in LOVE here would you move to be with your lover...or just ride it for as long as you can??? I guess I am wondering HOW strong is your LOVE and Devotion...Is love REAL without sacrifice??? I dont think I can fall in love online, ID have to spend REAL TIME and see them in their own environment, with their family, with their friends,,,etc,,, IF I met someone here initially and then fell after spending time and seeing them in different situations with different people,,we would have to decide to both move to a place we could build TOGETHER, I probably wouldnt want to move to 'his' home or have him move to 'mine' I have children so there are some risks IM not gonna take unless they are both ways,,(equal risk on both sides) seems like a logical perspective but I still vote for IDK |
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Also I think video chat would get very old very fast...I am very much a tangible person. I long for that person to hold me in his arms, wake up next to me in the morning. Bring my dinner by at work. And have his dinner ready for him when he comes home from work..relax on the couch together watching a show. Punching in the arm as we joke around... Better be careful you might hurt your hand. Lest yee forget I am a ninja fighting Kickboxer fool! Well you better be a Lion tamer if your going to play rough with me. Clearly you have already been tamed- You confuse laid back for tame. Ahh, blasphemy! |
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A chick would have to make a mean azz lasagna or maybe have a bass boat for that to happen........
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I fell in love with lasagna years ago, and it still has a piece of my heart...
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