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Let school start, then ask her if she;d like to go out for lunch (less pressure). That would be a good first date,
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So we went out yesterday just for a walk and to drive around a little. Everything went well. And afterwards I texted her saying.
"so what do you usually look for in a guy?" she responded "Im not really sure haha uhmm smart funny and well, good looking and you seem to be hitting all the points " haha so that was a good sign. So needless to say we have a date scheduled for soon. Thanks again for all the advice |
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Wake up lol of course is into u ur the guy she waiting 4 u 2 ask since u havent and its been a while she is settling 4 a friendship u better do sumin quick like ask her own a date just the 2 of u before u miss the chance lol;-)
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whats up man, i actually had the same thing happen to me. but to get right to it. if she puts in her texts smilies or any continuous dots......it means she is into you and looking for this chat thing to continue. if you really want to be with her just take it slow and be the cool sweet guy i believe you can be. she obviously wants to get to know you more and more and find out a lot about you if she just texts you out of the "blue". and just to know when you do throw a party and she asks to push it back to a date tell her you will, that question for you to push the party back to at least the 1st means that she wants to be there when you have this party and flirt with you at the party. be the gentleman and be the guy you are. she is into you no doubt about it, and yes she wants a relationship, so when you feel comfortable talking to her in person. walk straight up to her and ask her to dinner, after the dinner tho ask if she wants to go for a walk to talk more. Going to dinner then a movie is just too old fashioned and common. the whole movie thing is just to make it so you both cuddle, if you want to cuddle with her invite her back to your place and put a movie on there. but you got this i know you do.
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So we went out yesterday just for a walk and to drive around a little. Everything went well. And afterwards I texted her saying. "so what do you usually look for in a guy?" she responded "Im not really sure haha uhmm smart funny and well, good looking and you seem to be hitting all the points " haha so that was a good sign. So needless to say we have a date scheduled for soon. Thanks again for all the advice   Al the best dude 
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to seal the deal, lean in and give her a kiss on the cheek, that will make her want to kiss you and when she either pulls you back or leaves it for later. just wait she will show you the opportunity to kiss her or she will kiss you
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to seal the deal, lean in and give her a kiss on the cheek, that will make her want to kiss you and when she either pulls you back or leaves it for later. just wait she will show you the opportunity to kiss her or she will kiss you Nice touch.  |
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So we went out yesterday just for a walk and to drive around a little. Everything went well. And afterwards I texted her saying. "so what do you usually look for in a guy?" she responded "Im not really sure haha uhmm smart funny and well, good looking and you seem to be hitting all the points " haha so that was a good sign. So needless to say we have a date scheduled for soon. Thanks again for all the advice 
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Hey again guys. How are your weeks going? Went out with her on our first official "date". Lol we went mini golfing and got milkshakes. Tried to escalate the interest level and held her hand while walking and then when I dropped her off we made out briefly..Im really liking her. One of the first girls in a while I actully want to just spend time being with. Haha how long should I wait before I ask her on her opinion on be exclusive? Or just go ahead and ask?
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Hey again guys. How are your weeks going? Went out with her on our first official "date". Lol we went mini golfing and got milkshakes. Tried to escalate the interest level and held her hand while walking and then when I dropped her off we made out briefly..Im really liking her. One of the first girls in a while I actully want to just spend time being with. Haha how long should I wait before I ask her on her opinion on be exclusive? Or just go ahead and ask? Go ahead and ask!! CONGRATULATIONS!! Happy for you and that it worked out. Have fun, take it slow, let it develop so it can last. |
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Edited by
joy4gud
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Wed 09/14/11 05:58 AM
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Hey again guys. How are your weeks going? Went out with her on our first official "date". Lol we went mini golfing and got milkshakes. Tried to escalate the interest level and held her hand while walking and then when I dropped her off we made out briefly..Im really liking her. One of the first girls in a while I actully want to just spend time being with. Haha how long should I wait before I ask her on her opinion on be exclusive? Or just go ahead and ask? Go ahead and ask!! CONGRATULATIONS!! Happy for you and that it worked out. Have fun, take it slow, let it develop so it can last. 
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I just checked in for the update. Sounds like things are going really well.
And listen to Troublebug's advice. She's got it right.
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I just checked in for the update. Sounds like things are going really well. And listen to Troublebug's advice. She's got it right.  Thanks for the faith in my advice Action.
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Guys I could use some advice haha. So far things have been going really well. We've hungout alot lately. I've also met her friends and they all seem to think we would be good together. And overall things seem really good and it feels like could actually really enjoy dating. My issue is some advice I have been getting. I post on another web forum and I was telling them how I thought I was ready to ask her if she wanted to be exclusive.
Immediately I was met by feedback saying "don't do it! It's not the guys job to as that" or "don't ever date someone unless you'e slept with them first!" Now maybe it's just me but this seems pretty stupid. First off we've been talking all summer and we've gone out quite a bit now. I can't possibly imagine how much longer e have to go out before I could ask her out or she get tired of waiting and moves on. Secondly Im not really feeling like I need to rush the whole sex thing. Since Im interested in something actually serious with her, having sex instantly isnt my main factor. Maybe Im naive though... Anyways what do you guys think? I really like her and I think now would be a perfect time to see if she would want to be a couple. But I just keep hearing from people that that is a bad idea.. |
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simple....just say do you want to be with me or not if not i gotta go! bottom line females play games just like us guys just know when you are being played dont be a sucker if you want or have to do something and she tries to play it off because she wants to come or do something no....dont listen to some ******** fantasies people have this is reality
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Thank you! I don't know why eerything has to be so complicated and over analyzed. If she wants to then she'll say yes and if she doesnt then I guess she'll say no. And I really dont think Im rushing things asking her either.
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Haha Anyone else got some advice pssibly?
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Haha Anyone else got some advice pssibly? don;t obsess? |
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Edited by
MrDolla
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Wed 09/28/11 08:57 PM
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haha no sorry. I meant any advice in regards to my above post ^^^^.....
Basically I feel like it's a good time to ask her if she wants to make things official. But I've gotten some advice from other people saying that a) I shouldn't be the one to bring up being exclusive or being boyfriend / girlfriend. And that I should just hold off on it until she brings it up b) And also that you shouldnt gt into a relationship if you havent slept together yet. I disagree with this advice though and am thinking I want to ask her how she feels about being exclusive. I just think its a good time and dont feel like there's really point putting it off any longer |
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Guys I could use some advice haha. So far things have been going really well. We've hungout alot lately. I've also met her friends and they all seem to think we would be good together. And overall things seem really good and it feels like could actually really enjoy dating. My issue is some advice I have been getting. I post on another web forum and I was telling them how I thought I was ready to ask her if she wanted to be exclusive. Immediately I was met by feedback saying "don't do it! It's not the guys job to as that" or "don't ever date someone unless you'e slept with them first!" Now maybe it's just me but this seems pretty stupid. First off we've been talking all summer and we've gone out quite a bit now. I can't possibly imagine how much longer e have to go out before I could ask her out or she get tired of waiting and moves on. Secondly Im not really feeling like I need to rush the whole sex thing. Since Im interested in something actually serious with her, having sex instantly isnt my main factor. Maybe Im naive though... Anyways what do you guys think? I really like her and I think now would be a perfect time to see if she would want to be a couple. But I just keep hearing from people that that is a bad idea.. Dolla, If it feels right and she's responding to you. Ask her, Or mention to her that you are a "one woman type of guy". And see where it leads, So Glad it is going good for you sweetie. |
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