So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Well I've heard some stories before, this is a good one Lol.. You know this girl already so you are one step ahead, believe it or not. Of course you can message and ask her on Facebook, it's 2012 people do it all the time. All you have to say is Hey ''Mary'' How are you? I won't be able to take that concert ticket after all, sorry about that. I haven't seen you around in a long time, I was wondering are you seeing anyone at the moment? Do it, do it, do it....Oh and let us know how you get on Let me just be clear we went to highschool together but I havent seen her in 2 years really. But yea I think I will straight up ask her out. |
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You could have just started a conversation with her, asked her for her number, then asked her out. Making up excuses is not the adult way of doing things. Who said anything about doing it the adult way? :p And idk I just feel weird striking up convos on facebook. |
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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Is she selling an extra ticket or one that she had? Maybe you could enjoy the concert with her. Eitherway, if you're going to waste her time pretending to buy the ticket, you could at least actually buy it. She is selling it cause she can't go. But yea I probably will end up buying it and reselling it lol. |
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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ Just ask her out. Why fake interest in buying a ticket? I mostl want an excuse for us to meet up and ask her out that way. Cause only other option is asking her on facebook which i dont really want to do |
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so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" I think that you should buy the tickets, otherwise you run the risk of making her mad. i will probably just buy it if i can as an excuse to meet up and then sell it right away lol You could turn it around into something romantic. If I did that, I would probably buy the tickets and ask her out. When she said yes, I would eat the cost of the tickets and save them. If it works out between you guys, give her the tickets on your anniversary with a note admitting that you bought them just to meet her. But the thing is is she cant go to the concert which is wh she's selling it in the first place. Just figured id get her to meet up. bu the ticket mabe and ask her out seperately |
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Well looks to me that you started out with a lie. What do you think? Not a lie. I just asked her how muc for her ticket and if she still had it? Nothing lying about that. Never even said I wanted it. hmm well you mentioned you only asked in order to know her or chat ..so I would think that is deceiving. I wish you the best of luck on it. Thanks I think lol. And well obviously it isn't optimal but I it seemed like a good excuse to get together with her. |
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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like " hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ u could also tell her the truth and hope for the best NO MORE GAMES yea but the thing is is I havent seen this girl in a while. And I dont really want to ask her out over facebook. Hence why I wante to at least have an excuse to meet her and ask her out that way. I could still buy the ticket and ask her out. |
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so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" I think that you should buy the tickets, otherwise you run the risk of making her mad. i will probably just buy it if i can as an excuse to meet up and then sell it right away lol |
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Well looks to me that you started out with a lie. What do you think? Not a lie. I just asked her how muc for her ticket and if she still had it? Nothing lying about that. Never even said I wanted it. |
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So this girl I really like who I have on facebook posted some status about how she was trying to sell a ticket to some concert. And me this girl never really talk but I messaged her and was like
" hey Im interested in your ticket if you still have it etc....blah blah blah" The thing is is Im not interested in this concert at all. I just wanted to have an excuse to message her and maybe be able to meet up and parlay it into a date. You see what Im saying? So she replied back something like "I might be selling it to a friend, but I will let you know in a few days if that doesn't pan out! I just wanted __ for it" so.....I guess just wait to see if she wants to sell it and meet up somewhere? And then be like "Hey I just realized I don't want your ticket but how about we go grab cofee?" lol or how do I play this/ |
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Topic:
What Should I Do?
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Why are you taking things so seriously at the age of 21? If I were you, I would just take things as they come. Say 'please', and 'thank you', and 'I dont know', where necessary. Lol I have major add and over anxiety. I over think most things. Which is why I get myself into these overly complicated situations. I know Im young... Your right though Im sure. |
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Topic:
What Should I Do?
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MrDolla
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Sun 02/12/12 06:00 AM
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The thing is is she was the one who originally suggested we take a break while I sort my situation out. But then I re suggested the idea and she said we can make it work.
But I feel like I can't show her how I really feel yet no matter what she says. And that even though I do like her Im at a point where I can't be happy with what I can offer her and won't be able to show her I how I really feel till Im happy with myself. So yea I guess I will try and explain this to her. Sucks but I think it's the right thing. I know she would be a good friend but Im not sure that's what I want. |
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Topic:
What Should I Do?
Edited by
MrDolla
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Sun 02/12/12 04:17 AM
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Just basically confused what's going on with this girl. Maybe y'all can help me sort it out?
I'll try and sum it up with cliffs Cliffs - Been seeing this girl for about a month now -When we first met I was sort of interested but not to much and was keeping my options open. -We each have had some serious issues to deal with lately. And I have helped her through her's and she has helped me greatly through mine - She's made it clear that she likes me but she's not sure I can be the bf she needs based off where am at in my current situation. -She has liked me alot more then I liked her and she has put in alot of effort to me. -But just yesterday I started feeling like maybe she won't be so interested if I keep acting the way I do. Like I don't feel like I've show her enough affection or how I truly feel. Haven't really been able to take her out much and stuff. I haven't really show her how I felt I guess cause I know Im not the guy yet that I think she needs or wants. She likes me but I feel like Im just dragging her along as I get my life back on track. I have a court case coming up she knows about, and I just got diagnosed with add and its changed me alot figuring that out. And Im in between jobs and I just feel like she knows I can be alot better but Im just not there yet so it sucks not being able to show her. Like last year I was making lots of money, was in school, had a car and now Im builiding bac up but I dont know when I will be back to where I was. So I feel like I havent show her how I really feel cause I know it wont work. |
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WOW..............
I didn't direct my comment that was deleted at anyone specific. And that's a fact. Yet people can say a cow should of stomped me more is ok? hmm..... lol funny stuff. I know being an admin can be a thankless job but still I just don't think my comment needed to be deleted. |
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WOW..............
I didn't direct my comment that was deleted at anyone specific. And that's a fact. Yet people can say a cow should of stomped me more is ok? hmm..... lol funny stuff. I know being an admin can be a thankless job but still I just don't think my comment needed to be deleted. |
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In fairness to the OP, at least in my opinion, it was an obvious joke. I guess some people just dont find jokes about animal abuse funny. We are all different. There ya go, thats my pounds worth, now i'm off to spank my monkey. Lol I don't know if you just scolded me for making the joke or not. haha but ok you have fun man |
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After all those replies, you come back and say it was a joke? Uh huh. Lol yea cause I totally got my friend to punch me and then missed tackled a cow and got stomped repeatedly by it and then after all that was in so much pain I was able make a post on this forum..... hahahahahah OH BOY! It's a joke. jeeeezzz |
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HAHAHA Y'all it was a joke!
Thanks for the laughs though! No cows were actually hurt. sheesh... |
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Well a little while ago me and a friend thought it would be a cool idea to go out to a cow pasture and practice our wrestling moves on cows. We figure if we can take those fucckers down, we can take down anything. So I hop the fence and have my friend punch me in the head a few times to get my adrenaline running and to piss me the hell off, because I hate getting punched. So he hits me a few times and tells me I should go wrestle first. So I pick the weakest looking cow I can find, which is probably a thick hunk ton of meat of cow and I walk up to it. I punch it in the eye and go in for the tackle, however the thing dodges out the way and I hit the ground. The cow steps on me. It steps on me hard, roars, and runs off. It hurt like hell. Any good ideas on how to heal this new wound of mine? I plan on drinking milk the rest of the night and eating steak tomorrow just so I can feel the taste of revenge.
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