I'm dating a girl who lives across the country, been with her for 5 months now. Just yesturday I got got a friend request on facebook from some other girl who thought I was cute, we trade phone numbers.

Once we started texting, I told her that I do have a girlfriend, this new girl didn't seem to care as she kept insisting to check out her topless pictures, after a long time of telling her no, I finally gave in and told her to send them. I honestly did not look at them, I just told her so she'd get off my back, I deleted them and lied that I saw them.

She wanted me to send her some dirty pictures but I never did, the only thing was a regular face picture. Most of last night she kinda kept disrespecting the relationship and tempting me to send her pics and help her play with herself, I refused.

I sounded like a broken record sometimes, that I'm very loyal and will never cheat and what she wanted me to do was like cheating. She kept on saying what a great catch I was and she wants to be with me... but my mind is set I've got a great girlfriend and I'm not the cheating type, I believe in flirting with other people as long as it doesn't turn into sex texting.

Advice here? Should I just delete and block this person and do like it never happened?

Or do I tell me gf about this girl? so that I'm not 'hiding' stuff?

Both, you already told this other girl no and she didn't take that for an answer, sounds like she is desparate, block her and tell your girlfriend what happened and be honest with her, just my thoughts, good luck.

Ok if it was me, since I am insecure, it would already be to late.

My man had a girl after him, he told me on her first email, he dealt with it, she continued and he was going to block her but she left.. So from the beginning i knew what was going on and although I didnt like what was happening i knew he wasnt letting it go on or encouraging it in anyway..

If he had done what you have, even though you havent done anything,Well sort of havent. I would have been incredibly hurt and ended it. Simply because you didnt just block her when she wouldn't listen to you.

So basically definately block her and hope that your girlfriend is not as insecure as I am, or you may be looking for another girl..

Play on playa

Umm Mah, that is not a relationship. That is just a horrid start to a breakup,.
Do not listen to totage he is being a very bad boy..Save you both lots of hurt, be truthful and hopefully go on from their.. Oh and block the other girl.

what your girlfriend doesn't know can't hurt her. take it from bill clinton, deny deny deny. once you admit to it, it will never go away

Ummm mah but what if the girl messages your other girl and tells her, i got messages from the girl who wanted my man, telling me that they had met and she was at his house..

so just block the picture one and then tell the one you like, maybe leave out someof it, but just tellher eventually she will find out somehow, especially if she is on mingle, and then you will be in heaps of trouble as then it is just being dishonest and decieving yuck yuck yuck,
Thats what we all run from,

Also, it's not cheating if they're in different area codes.

This stuff is usually covered at orientation.

Man you are definitely trying to rock your boat in 2 canals at the same time.
You have a gf and yet you let the other girl to pursuade you.
If you really are a man tell your gf and get the other girl off your
back. Just think of the opposite what would you feel if your gf is doing
the **** behind your back?

do what you want to and make it the best choice of action, the wisest choice. Always choose with your heart, not your d*ck or your wallet

and in your heart you already know the answer to this question - good luck, if she will still have you after what u have done

and if she forgives consider it a lesson learned and ur self lucky and her an angel

You didn't cheat. Block her and move on. Some grandiose confession about something that didn't happen doesn't seem valuable. If the big deal is that she sent you some photos ... big deal...

However, I question the logic of contacting other women and flirting...just sounds like a hazardous 'can of worms' to me ... and I anticipate, foretells the ending of your current relationship. It just is not worth it...


***She thinks I'm cute ... we trade phone numbers ... I know she doesn't respect my current relationship ... and yet ....


there you were ... bigger question to ask yourself is "why"

what shall i do? quit sounding all innocent for starters. i just love the flirting, but only to HERE, oops, you crossed the line, i have a girlfriend, go away you, but i can't even decide if i should block you. seriously? what advice do you really want? good luck with this mentality.

Exactly. This is a no-brainer situation that doesn't even need to be asked.

What type of "dating" are you doing all the way across the country? Is this just an online relationship or something real?

You already said that you did not like how forward the new girl is being, but in my experiences it sounds like one of those online scammers...they send you pics of them self and does not seem to actually read what you write back to them because they already have a script wrote out they send to everyone. Later on she will start asking you for money...lol

Either way it would probably be best just to delete the new girl and put a block on her. To tell the other girl about her is up to you, it would depend on how jealous she gets I would say but you know her better than we do. Good Luck

Yeah I agree here. This problem just reeked of bs to me.

Really if your that loyal and honest why would you need to ask advice on what to do? It really is blatantly obvious.

Seriously in my opinion sex for some people is just a thing or a verb. Doing the texting/flirting and talking like you would with your S.O with some one else is just as bad.

Do it now,block,tell gf.you'll be lucky if she forgives u.

I think you nailed it Bass.

Dude you are so not innocent in this.
Did you put on facebook that you were in a relationship?..if you did,then why would you give another woman your number?...if you put you were single,then you were playing the field and getting your ego stroked..the best choice would of been to have kept it just as friends on facebook

Boxer_briefs:

Okay dude, here is what you do.
DECIDE between Boxers and Briefs.
If you can nail that huge a call,
you may be ready for something else.