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| Topic: Wow, I can't believe he said that... | |
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ah drunk texting. if only cellular telephones came with one of those devices they put on cars where you have to pass a breathalizer test in order to operate it. But he just said he wasn't drunk. Was there a reason for him to say, "Chill"? |
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Wow you have more drama than me as a single momma.
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I know, and it sux. I dont know what is going on with him.
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girl you have been around this cat long enough to know when he is sober and having a conversation with you. alot of drunk people say they are not drunk when asked if they are. if what he is saying doesn't make sense (and you should know what his normal state of mind is) then he must be using something to alter his normal thought patterns. you know him better than any of us on here, so go with your gut.
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girl you have been around this cat long enough to know when he is sober and having a conversation with you. alot of drunk people say they are not drunk when asked if they are. if what he is saying doesn't make sense (and you should know what his normal state of mind is) then he must be using something to alter his normal thought patterns. you know him better than any of us on here, so go with your gut. So you agree, his convo doesn't make any sense. |
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well it's not just his part, you are contributing to the insanity. you said earlier that you were done with him because he made you cry, so are you going to drop this and move on to a new thread?
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He's playing it cool.. He feels rejected and is trying to save face...
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well it's not just his part, you are contributing to the insanity. you said earlier that you were done with him because he made you cry, so are you going to drop this and move on to a new thread? All I know is, I'm not contacting him! He can call or text me! I'm done trying. |
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good girl, if we were in the nfl at this point i would slap you on the butt and give you a cup of gatoraid.
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good girl, if we were in the nfl at this point i would slap you on the butt and give you a cup of gatoraid. lol. 
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well it's not just his part, you are contributing to the insanity. you said earlier that you were done with him because he made you cry, so are you going to drop this and move on to a new thread? All I know is, I'm not contacting him! He can call or text me! I'm done trying. this is the smartest thing you have said in this entire thread. |
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he just texted me. All he said was: "You did". Weird.
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I got a good one today: after sex, my boyfriend told me I was "one of the best he'd ever had!" I had to correct him on that.
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as the world turns.......................
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Then what was that whole, "I love you" thing? Don't forget, guys also love, nascar, star trek and kung fu----nothing makes sense anymore!! |
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Then what was that whole, "I love you" thing? Don't forget, guys also love, nascar, star trek and kung fu----nothing makes sense anymore!! "I love lamp" |
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Thats up to you, just something so he's not sitting there trying to get over you. This is what I'm going to send him, tell me what you think. "Made it to Miami, leaving for palm beach tonight. Watch any of the movies yet? What about that game?" We exchange movies and games. Above is where I think things went sideways. I didn't offer advice because nobody can understand the dynamics of the situation better than you can. However, shooting the chit is exactly that... shootin chit. It's not deep, serious or emotional. Talking movies/games/how are you? is not serious and can be considered "fluff". "Hi babycakes(or whatever pet name you want) I made it to Miami and have been thinking about you. I really miss you and enjoy our time together. When I get back, I'd like to talk about something important and texting you about it just doesn't seem right. Are you available?" The kicker here is "are you available" sounds innocent enough but it should have a double meaning. 1. Is he interested in talking about something important to you? 2. Is he romantically available?(subliminal question) The Minglers advice are spot on: -His Facebook crap irritated you and I bet he has no clue what he did wrong... -Drop the electronic communication texts&emails until you know him much better... even then I'd say drop it altogether unless it's "fluff" -Stop being bent out of shape over things (his text telling you to chill, reflects that he's worried about your reaction(s). Conclusion: -Don't think you gals have us all figured out by our actions... most times even we don't know. Go with the flow... and if it really doesn't seem right.... just ask! Cheers! |
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well it's not just his part, you are contributing to the insanity. you said earlier that you were done with him because he made you cry, so are you going to drop this and move on to a new thread? All I know is, I'm not contacting him! He can call or text me! I'm done trying. of course you are going to contact him..you so into him, Im sure youve been texting him the whole time you said you werent going to do it anymore..come on now, admit you did..go on...admit you did.... 
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I'LL DO IT I'LL DO IT....
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