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Haha, no, he texted me, but as soon as that was done, I haven't texted him since. He can contact me. It'll only make the heart grow fonder. He prolly doesn't realize he misses me right now, but when he sees me next he will. :)

Well, today is his birthday, I texted him a birthday wish, and he started textn weird stuff again. Something about Bilbo Baggins and him being 111 yrs old. I know it's lord of the rings, but he just wont talk to me normally. We texted last night cuz I got back from FL, and asked if he wanted to hang out, he said, "Now?" I said yes, then nothing for 4 hrs. Then he texted me asking if I was home yet, how did he know I wasn't at my house? Then said, "Cuz **** is bout to hit the fan, but not really though."

I don't know what to do about him, I want to talk to him, but he wont have a normal convo with me. The last txt I sent him besides, "Have a great birthday, hope you get some kick arse gifts." Was, "Ok, pls just talk to me normally. This is frustrating. Are you mad at me or something?" And he never responded.

What do I do? How do I get him to come over?

after an extensive and indept study of this thread, ive come to the conclusion that you are both really, really wierd...

call him up and say "come over dude", and "we'll have a good time" watching TELETUBBIES...." or anything you might think of in the meantime.....:}

why?...why do you continue to pursue this?

if he wanted you, you would know it! the fact that you have talked more to us about this than with him, should be enough to make you see the truth here. you are bordering on the obsessive here and the only thing you are going to get out of this is hurt.

cut your losses and find someone that actually wants to be with you for more than just "movie night" (wink, wink...nudge, nudge).

Ok, well, he ended up coming over that night. (Thurs, his b-day) and stayed until monday morning at 11 am. We had a cookout, invited friends, he cooked for me. When **** hit the fan, he was there for me when I was crying, and said he would always be there. I fell asleep on his lap for 3 hours watching tv. He cleaned for me, and in the mornings brought me a glass of water. He was really sweet, and when one of his friends tried to kiss me, he got soo jealous. The drama had to do with the guy friend I was mentioning before, and I ended up crying alot, but he was very nice, and hugged me, and defended me. He said he would be my first date. :) YAY! But I dunno. I did talk to him about his alcohol problem, and he appreciated me caring enough to talk to him. He says he likes me cuz I'm very compassionate. :) And yes, he does have a problem, I told him I'd be there for him and he liked that. He also liked that I figured it out on my own. And the FB thing, he said he had so many requests, he didn't get to mine, and hasn't been on since. Well, that's it, unless I can remember something else.

Also: I chat with his friend every so often, and his friend and I were chatting and we were talking about my guy's bday and what I was getting him. Well, when I saw my guy on his bday, he mentioned that his friend told him that I got him somthing. I was like, "So you two talk about me?" lol. Also, when his friends were over, his one friend said to him, "Dude, you need to get over your ex! Let Jessica help you, she's great, and good for you." :)

behold...future Al-Anon member in the works...

movie wink. teletubbies...