well girl it sounds like you already thought this one out. btw there is nothing wrong with him loving you more than you can return. relationships aren't always fair. you are not responsible for his feelings, although it is very nice of you to consider his feelings above your own. continue to be honest with him about how and what you feel and you should have an awesome friendship/relationship.

All i can say is Good luck to you Jessica

ok, so I am guessing he is pretty much done with me. This was our convo:

Me: Made it to miami, leavn for palm beach tonight. Watch any of the movies yet? What about that game?

Mike: Cool. What game?

Me: Shadow of the Colossus, so that answers my question, lol.

Mike: Yep

Me: So how are you?

That last text was 30 mins ago, and he still has yet to respond.

I tried to go personal a little bit, and that back fired! Now I'm going to go cry myself to sleep.

BTW: the ball's in his court, I will not text him again!

We were supposed to celebrate his birthday together. We were gonna go to a museum he was talking about wanting to go to.

G0D Dam IT!!!! I screw everything up!!!

if you like him back its all good but if you dont RUN LIKE HELL

Thank you all for your help, but I think he's done.

Is this the best friend or guy that loves you.

Maybe he just got busy? How did you get too personal because you asked if he watched any of the movies yet? or the game?? THAT IS REDICULOUS... If that's too personal how are you suppose to have a relationship?

Jessica dear, my best friend is in a similar situation and she has finally stopped molding to his liking and being who she really is. It gets you nowhere changing for someone or making excuses as to why they are right all the time. Be true to yourself and stick to your guns.

I live by my moto when it comes to a man. I REFUSE to cry over a man who won't cry over me. I REFUSE to go out of my way for a man who won't do the same. I REFUSE to make excuses for a man when I know I need to be true to myself first and foremost!

I hope this helps you and all will work out for the best. If he isn't your one then that just means there is a better guy out there for you waiting. Keep smiling guys like that. Or so I'm told..

Not the best friend. lol. And with him I can be myself, that is why I'm so upset.

And where I touched on 'too personal' was when I asked how he was.

He may not be completely done.... his man pride is just hurt right now.

Well if he really does love you then once his heart is done healing he will come back and talk to you. Enjoy your trip in the mean time and have fun. You deserve to be happy.

Stop stressing all good things come to those who wait. Just give him his space like his msmyka said " He may not be completely done.... his man pride is just hurt right now. "

It will all work out for the best.

Thank you all. He just texted me. He said:
"Great!"

Thats it, now what?

You probably won't wanna hear this. But, I said earlier that he might not love you in the way that you thought he might. Judging by all I read, he is either wanting you to come begging for him, or he is in full d^ck mode. I know it is hard to enjoy your trip with this happening, and if the dude cared about you, then he would have not acted stupid while you were away. I am sure he fees somewhat empowered, but you are hurting. And that is a total d*ck move. But some guys do it.

I don't know if he will come back and apologize, or if he is done. But judging by this, you need to be done with him. I can't tell you to do that. You have to want to do it for yourself. But a dude who does a d*ck move like this isn't worth it. Just my opinion.

Well, we've been texting for a while tonight. He started off talking to me about food that he was making. (he is a great cook and is thinking about going to college for it) He said that he could maybe make some for me when I get back. I mentioned him looking into going into culinary school, then I was driving through Palm beach and a song that he likes came on, couldn't remember the name so I told him who sang it, and some of the lyrics, and he instantly knew who I was talking about, then it turned into a game, when a song on the radio came on, I would text him a quote and he would guess it. He even got ones that were crazy hard, like Pink Floyde. Anyways, I gave him a quote but he hasn't answered in almost 2 hours, but thats ok cuz it's late, lol.

I know now that I over reacted, and I cannot promise that it wont happen again, but I will give him more of a chance next time. Thank you everyone for your support, and even if I don't answer your comments, I listen to everyone of them.

And to chelsea466, I dont think he has a chance with Eminem either. But don't tell him that, you might break his heart.

agreed!

Life was so much easier without texting! Anybody agree or am I just an old fart!

lol, your not old! And yes, much, you either called, or you didn't, that simple. Now we have the middle man! Kill him with a spoon!

haha thanks!!

well i hate to repeat myself (ok, not really) but this is what happens when people enter relationships under the false pretences of a friends with benefits arrangement.

you clearly want more and it is clear he may have as well....ie, the i love you.

the problem here is that the two of you became comfortable "not" talking about your feelings. and when he did your reaction was akin to hitting him on the head with a hammer. you hurt him and now he is in self-protect mode.

this game of text and seek is completely destructive, someone here has to grow some balls and put it out there, again.

you may not get the answer you want or even the one you might have gotten that night, but knowing is much better than not.