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| Topic: Wow, I can't believe he said that... | |
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Men rarely say those words? Hell, you'd be surprised at just how often alot of dudes say it. Why? Many reasons, but in your case, I earlier that he probably does "love you". Meaning, he cares about you, and he likes what you guys have now. Could he want more? Possible. But I also feel that he said those words because he doesn't want to see you with another dude. Guys hate liking a chick and seeing her date another dude. Wanna see a dude act like a prima donna? Then befriend him, and date another guy. If he has feelings for you, then he is gonna act a fool (so to speak, lol). I don't know if him saying "I love you" means that he really is "In love with you". I love my best friend to death, and she happens to be female. I tell her those three words all the time because I do love her. But I don't mean it in the manner of wanting to pursue a romantic relationship. Now, he could mean this, or he could really want a relationship with you. Like others have said, find out. Take it slow and see, but also look at how he acts towards you. If he really wants you, then he will let it show. Well, he does know that my best friend is a guy, and he does ask alot of questions about him. One time he had to stop cuz it was making me upset, and he knew it. (he stopped all on his own and said sorry) He says he wants to meet my friend, but I don't know. And with my best friend, I tell him I love him, but he doesnt say it back. My best friend says that I'm stupid for not believing that he said it on purpose, and he's usually right about these things. But like I said before, he has barely spoken to me since, just to tell me to have fun in FL on my trip and to have a safe flight. That's it. We do plan on hanging out for his birthday though... |
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no bones, and he repeats m and m?
ah well, i would keep ur options open 4 a while here. 
stop tellin him u love him.  
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no bones, and he repeats m and m? ah well, i would keep ur options open 4 a while here.
stop tellin him u love him.
I don't know what 'no bones, and m and m' mean, but I tell my best friend I love him, not the guy we are talking about. |
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somebody mentioned bones, and eminem.
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somebody mentioned bones, and eminem.
lawl |
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My guy friend just said that if I don't believe that he meant it when the guy I like said, "I love you." Then I'm stupid.
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Another quick question; I'm currently in Florida and wont be back for 5 days, he told me to have fun and to be safe, and that's all. I'm not going to call or text him while I'm here, you know make the heart grow fonder. Do I have that right?
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Of course you have the right but the longer he sits and stews over it the less likely you are to come back to a guy who still wants you.
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Of course you have the right but the longer he sits and stews over it the less likely you are to come back to a guy who still wants you. I'm not trying to make him angry, I'm trying to make him miss me, show him that I have things to do, and I'm not always thinking about him. :) You know? That way he wont even have to ask in his head if I'm needy. (I'm not btw) |
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That might be effective if he wasn't already under the impression that you're not interested because of that night. The way he backed off from contact with you tells me he's trying to save himself from heartache. I think it would be wise to tell him something reassuring.
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That might be effective if he wasn't already under the impression that you're not interested because of that night. The way he backed off from contact with you tells me he's trying to save himself from heartache. I think it would be wise to tell him something reassuring. What should I say? |
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Thats up to you, just something so he's not sitting there trying to get over you.
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<~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ I'm very needy............
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Thats up to you, just something so he's not sitting there trying to get over you. This is what I'm going to send him, tell me what you think. "Made it to Miami, leaving for palm beach tonight. Watch any of the movies yet? What about that game?" We exchange movies and games. |
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Sure why not
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you do realize you are asking relationship advice from many people who are not in relationships? that being said, what you plan to send sounds very casual, if that is the kind of relationship you have and want with this guy, then you are spot on.
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IMO-> I think he really does love you but when you said "What?" You threw him off. I think he was hoping for a different answer. All you can do is confront him about it and beat around the bush either. If he is interested in a relationship and you want that too then just be honest and tell him you want to take things slow. If he really did mean eminem well, chances are things aren't going to woork out for them.
Everyone else who has posted has lots of great advice too. But you have to make the decision you feel is right for you. Which I am sure you will. |
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you do realize you are asking relationship advice from many people who are not in relationships? that being said, what you plan to send sounds very casual, if that is the kind of relationship you have and want with this guy, then you are spot on. I made it casual so that if he doesn't reply, it wont hurt as bad, you know, if he texts me back and we chat, then I'll go from there. |
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you do realize you are asking relationship advice from many people who are not in relationships? that being said, what you plan to send sounds very casual, if that is the kind of relationship you have and want with this guy, then you are spot on. Wrong. Mingle 2 is full of relationship experts and psychiatrists and various other Dr.Phills ...like me.
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k, just sent it, lets see how long it will take for him to respond, if at all.
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