Topic: Wow, I can't believe he said that...
hmlover's photo
Wed 09/15/10 04:21 PM
He was too, but he almost worked up the courage to get it out. I don't think you need to worry about feeling foolish.

9erguy's photo
Wed 09/15/10 04:23 PM
Did you say something cool and unexpected that really resonated with him? Did you say "I love you too, as a friend?"

I guess it is one of those things that slips out, like when a girl says "I love you." during sex.

no photo
Wed 09/15/10 04:24 PM

He was too, but he almost worked up the courage to get it out. I don't think you need to worry about feeling foolish.


Well, last I saw or heard from him was Tuesday morning at 4:30 a.m., he has not textd me or called me. :(

9erguy's photo
Wed 09/15/10 04:25 PM


He was too, but he almost worked up the courage to get it out. I don't think you need to worry about feeling foolish.


Well, last I saw or heard from him was Tuesday morning at 4:30 a.m., he has not textd me or called me. :(


1) don't say "I love you" until he says it first. Let him know that you want to stay with him.

hmlover's photo
Wed 09/15/10 04:27 PM


He was too, but he almost worked up the courage to get it out. I don't think you need to worry about feeling foolish.


Well, last I saw or heard from him was Tuesday morning at 4:30 a.m., he has not textd me or called me. :(


Call him... he's probably embarassed, thinking he fell flat on his face with you.

kc0003's photo
Wed 09/15/10 04:29 PM


lol yeah sounds like he was just testing those "waters" ....lol the boy probably fell for you heheh


How can you tell if a guy falls for you?



well he comes to your house to watch tv and hangs out with you a lot and....he says things like, (oh i don't know)....I LOVE YOU!


hello? this is you life calling....are you paying attention?

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Wed 09/15/10 04:48 PM



lol yeah sounds like he was just testing those "waters" ....lol the boy probably fell for you heheh


How can you tell if a guy falls for you?



well he comes to your house to watch tv and hangs out with you a lot and....he says things like, (oh i don't know)....I LOVE YOU!


hello? this is you life calling....are you paying attention?


Well, he hasn't called me yet, and we did hang out all day the next day, and that night.

kc0003's photo
Wed 09/15/10 04:59 PM




lol yeah sounds like he was just testing those "waters" ....lol the boy probably fell for you heheh


How can you tell if a guy falls for you?



well he comes to your house to watch tv and hangs out with you a lot and....he says things like, (oh i don't know)....I LOVE YOU!


hello? this is you life calling....are you paying attention?


Well, he hasn't called me yet, and we did hang out all day the next day, and that night.


probably because your reaction hurt him. if you hung out the next day and didn't clear things up about the night before and what he said to you...well, now he feels like a fool.

i don't get it...you are too shy to talk to him about something as important as how you feel about him, but you are not to shy to sleep with him??????...is it just me or is this just a tad bit backwards?

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Wed 09/15/10 05:04 PM





lol yeah sounds like he was just testing those "waters" ....lol the boy probably fell for you heheh


How can you tell if a guy falls for you?



well he comes to your house to watch tv and hangs out with you a lot and....he says things like, (oh i don't know)....I LOVE YOU!


hello? this is you life calling....are you paying attention?


Well, he hasn't called me yet, and we did hang out all day the next day, and that night.


probably because your reaction hurt him. if you hung out the next day and didn't clear things up about the night before and what he said to you...well, now he feels like a fool.

i don't get it...you are too shy to talk to him about something as important as how you feel about him, but you are not to shy to sleep with him??????...is it just me or is this just a tad bit backwards?


True, true, but I did text him earlier about a movie he let me borrow, and he hasn't responded.

Dragoness's photo
Wed 09/15/10 05:11 PM

does he love eminem
or in love with eminem?
cupcakes like to hang out with women...


I have never seen a cupcake hanging out with women but if there is one that is going to follow me around I like mine vanilla with sprinkles please.

kc0003's photo
Wed 09/15/10 05:11 PM






lol yeah sounds like he was just testing those "waters" ....lol the boy probably fell for you heheh


How can you tell if a guy falls for you?



well he comes to your house to watch tv and hangs out with you a lot and....he says things like, (oh i don't know)....I LOVE YOU!


hello? this is you life calling....are you paying attention?


Well, he hasn't called me yet, and we did hang out all day the next day, and that night.


probably because your reaction hurt him. if you hung out the next day and didn't clear things up about the night before and what he said to you...well, now he feels like a fool.

i don't get it...you are too shy to talk to him about something as important as how you feel about him, but you are not to shy to sleep with him??????...is it just me or is this just a tad bit backwards?


True, true, but I did text him earlier about a movie he let me borrow, and he hasn't responded.


ok look at it this way....sexual relationships change things between people. you have feelings for him and now you know for sure he has them for you...yes? yes!

stop hiding behind the sex and the borrowed movies and be straight with him. like try calling him (instead of texting) and invite him over to discuss (specifically) what he said.

Lpdon's photo
Wed 09/15/10 05:31 PM


lol yeah sounds like he was just testing those "waters" ....lol the boy probably fell for you heheh


How can you tell if a guy falls for you?


Ummmm, hard to do, we are unpredictable...........

Lpdon's photo
Wed 09/15/10 05:33 PM

Yes. He loves you. Well, he loves the friendship you have, the sex you guys have. He loves that and I am sure he cares for you. But I think he said this because he doesn't want to see you with someone else. He "thinks" he loves you. But I don't feel he does.




Goof, I think your saying that because you love this one too.

Lpdon's photo
Wed 09/15/10 05:35 PM

Oh, yes, I'm going to give him a shot, but I'm taking it slow, don't wanna scare him away.

Does anyone have any tips on how to show him, I'm the one he wants?


Well for starters, get a pair of knee pads. He will love you for sure then. bigsmile

beachdog50's photo
Wed 09/15/10 06:49 PM
yea invite him over. slip on those knee pads and plug in eminem

CatsLoveMe's photo
Thu 09/16/10 12:16 AM
Was there alcohol involved in this tv watchin' affair? People throw around the words, "I love you" quite liberally wherever the beer, wine, or vodka flows.

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 09/16/10 12:24 AM
To tell ya the truth......

men very rarely...if ever...say THAT by accident....

Go eith your heart and recipricate with honesty

Jtevans's photo
Thu 09/16/10 02:53 AM

Sunday night, this guy who I have been hanging out with, comes over to watch tv with me, we were talking about the VMA's and stuff. Well he starts talking, and he seems nervous, not able to finish sentences, and messing up his words, then out of nowhere he says, "I Love you." I looked at him and said, "What?" He just said he didn't mean to say that, he meant to say he loves Eminem. (The rapper) Do men say that by accident? I wouldn't think so. What is going on?
Also he said that he'd be there for me, and kept asking if I was committed to the relationship we have.

Please help.



I love you = Let's get naked and bone


glasses

no photo
Thu 09/16/10 08:20 AM


Sunday night, this guy who I have been hanging out with, comes over to watch tv with me, we were talking about the VMA's and stuff. Well he starts talking, and he seems nervous, not able to finish sentences, and messing up his words, then out of nowhere he says, "I Love you." I looked at him and said, "What?" He just said he didn't mean to say that, he meant to say he loves Eminem. (The rapper) Do men say that by accident? I wouldn't think so. What is going on?
Also he said that he'd be there for me, and kept asking if I was committed to the relationship we have.

Please help.



I love you = Let's get naked and bone


glasses


I thought that for a second, but he already got it. :) And there was no alcohol until after the 'i love you'. I dont wanna scare him away, I'm gonna take it slow, see where it goes from there. His b-day is soon, I'm gonna bake him a cake, buy him a movie I know he's been wanting to complete his collection, and go to a kick arse museum. (it's basically a jungle gym for adults) I don't think it's too personal of a gift, and it shows I care. I went on a trip recently, and had to get on a plane, and he texted me and told me to be safe and have fun. awww. ;)

Goofball73's photo
Thu 09/16/10 01:37 PM
Men rarely say those words? Hell, you'd be surprised at just how often alot of dudes say it. Why? Many reasons, but in your case, I earlier that he probably does "love you". Meaning, he cares about you, and he likes what you guys have now. Could he want more? Possible. But I also feel that he said those words because he doesn't want to see you with another dude. Guys hate liking a chick and seeing her date another dude. Wanna see a dude act like a prima donna? Then befriend him, and date another guy. If he has feelings for you, then he is gonna act a fool (so to speak, lol).

I don't know if him saying "I love you" means that he really is "In love with you". I love my best friend to death, and she happens to be female. I tell her those three words all the time because I do love her. But I don't mean it in the manner of wanting to pursue a romantic relationship. Now, he could mean this, or he could really want a relationship with you. Like others have said, find out. Take it slow and see, but also look at how he acts towards you. If he really wants you, then he will let it show.