Thanks that is so true.. I need to learn to do that THANKs

I think God Just made it so people are age will only find love hundreds of miles away, at this point.

Think of all the people here, that would be together right now if we were next door!!

Mitch

haha, here's a quote that goes with
discovering love...
"Youth is wasted on the wrong people"

'member that movie?

Well.... Being a 63 year old man myself, and reviewing a few of the conversations here, I find it my duty to inform you that I myself and all of my friends prefer ladies in our own age bracket! and meeting someone we feel comfortable with. Furthermore,were not always thinking about s... if you know what I mean!! and yes I'm still looking!!

I think I look great for a 50 yr old :)

It's only hard for 'older women' when they see themselves as 'older women'.

I don't agree. I don't look at myself as older and it is hard. I can find a man to be with yes but I want someone I click with. the heart thing.

lol just playing

Now playing with a lady's feelings, THAT is something to be afraid of.

Thank you pauljohnny

HI Don, Good to see you again

Very well put ... I couldn't have said it better myself.

Here is what I have been finding on this site and others like it. I am amazed at how many men in my age group 50-60 are raising their young children alone. This is because they married younger women.
Now, who knows WHY they married younger women and I'm sure it's because of various reasons but now look what they are having to deal with.
The men who have custody of their kids are looking for women who will accept their children (of course) and obviously, help raise them.
My two kids are adults. Personally, I am not interested in raising kids. I am 56 years old and those days of raising kids are gone.

If these guys married younger women because they wanted a 'trophy' wife, it back fired on them. Their young brides left them for men their own ages. Go figure.

I feel that no matter how old a guy gets, he will always desire a young, beautiful woman. It's only natural. Personally, I have no interest in younger men. My own son is 37 and I couldn't see myself getting involved with someone his age or even in their forties.
On the flip side, I am not interested in men who are older than me because I'm just not attracted to them especially when they look like my dead grandfather!
To be quite honest, I am really tired of these sites. I am tired of reading profiles that say they are looking for their "soul mate" or they are ready to get married. I'm also tired of getting messages from men who don't know how to use spell check nor do they post a photo.
I just don't know what the answer is other than to just leave all of this alone and if it's meant for me to meet someone, it will happen.

WHAT A GAGGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't even look at anything under 45 with too much interest. Now I do appreciate a good hard body but I know who and what I am.I do like the refine look of a woman that has aged well.

and girls guys are old on the outside dumb on the inside. You might say it is all about sex, well guess what that is the reason why you are out there too. In search of that ultimate orgasm. So I think that everybody should relax. At the ages that we are the major problem is that everyone is afraid of losing something., money, home,life, and things that are important to each and everyone of us.

the reason why it was easier before is because we (all of us) had nothing to begin with or basically nothing to lose., and at times I think that is why younger women chase older men because they have nothing so nothing to lose.

so let your guard down and stop acting like the dog on the end of the chain next to the house and find the things you want. And for further use that is the baggage that everybody is carrying. So wink at that guy and walk around with no panties on, show a little leg and give those young girls a run for their money

its not easy for men that r looking for women there own age that will b true to them i do agree there r a lot of men looking for younger women but there r a lot looking for women there own age to u will find someone but hold out for the right man that will treat u like the gem that u r have a blessed day

One of things to consider is to find someone is who maturely equal with you. Age can be more than just a physical thing. I am finding that out working where I do. There are drawbacks to people younger and older than yourself. When you are older one can come off as being parental and when you are younger one can come off as being less experienced.

OHH.. That is very kind and sweet of you Rainbow. I am a nurse and i have been working in an assisted living for more than 7 years now. And i just love what i am doing. To take care of my lovelies and precious elders is my passion.