Topic: The Six Week Rule... | |
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seems to me there is a difference between desiring intimacy and just sweet talkin your way into a woman's pants it doesn't matter if it's 6 minutes, 6 weeks, or 6 years. Unless both are ready and desiring of it then it's just using someone for sex |
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Hummm well we are all adults and have our own preference on how long we will wait for sex. To me just do what feels best for you just because another does not feel the same way all that really matters is if they respect your feelings in the long run....
And if it so happens one gives in to there rules they have then that would be up to them not due to any pressure. At times our guidelines we have at times we tend to bend them not because we are made to just because it feels right and that is what we want to do..... Each person and each case is different honestly one does tend to get closer to another with sexually bonding with them.....it is part of the process of getting to know one another... |
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It's gonna take longer than six weeks before I share my goodies |
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well ive learned from my past dating experiences.its just better to wait.sex always complicates things.i want to fall in love with the person not fall in love with how big their dingy dong is. |
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6 weeks??? is there a time scale? I always thought that it will happen when your both ready and not before. Anna x |
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I stick with the you'll know it's right when it's right and won't define feelings to a time frame. However if he was the one by chance wanting to wait it would sorta make me wonder how bad he was at it What I can't figure out is why that would even be something to enter a woman's mind. I mean...aren't women ( for the most part ) always saying how they are tired of guys that only want sex??? I mean....guys simply can't win. If we go for sex as soon as possible...we're " typical pigs ". If we want to wait a bit...it's thought that we are just crappy lovers and want to make you like us some other way first. That or there is just " something wrong " with us. Naaaa, not all women think that way...I don't think most do. Maybe some. I do like to get through at least a few get togethers before it comes up. I think women saying guys just want sex is when the topic comes up on the second date..or even worse, on the first date before the dinner is even over. I don't really think ( and this is just MY OWN OPINION lol ) that it's necessarily a first or second date deal. I honestly think it applies to ANY point in time when it's brought up before the woman is ready for it to be brought up. |
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