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it had some good points to it that reaffirmed where i was in the dating scene dragoness. i was housesitting when i picked it up off my gfs nightstand. im glad i read it.
 it helped me put a few things into perspective that i was questioning myself over...whether i agreed with mr harvey or not. overall a positive experience. 
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I stick with the you'll know it's right when it's right and won't define feelings to a time frame. However if he was the one by chance wanting to wait it would sorta make me wonder how bad he was at it  What I can't figure out is why that would even be something to enter a woman's mind. I mean...aren't women ( for the most part ) always saying how they are tired of guys that only want sex??? I mean....guys simply can't win. If we go for sex as soon as possible...we're " typical pigs ". If we want to wait a bit...it's thought that we are just crappy lovers and want to make you like us some other way first. That or there is just " something wrong " with us. Naaaa, not all women think that way...I don't think most do. Maybe some. I do like to get through at least a few get togethers before it comes up. I think women saying guys just want sex is when the topic comes up on the second date..or even worse, on the first date before the dinner is even over.  i dont say it...but i will admit that it goes through my mind and is a turn off...but only if propositioned directly. what i offer between the sheets is def up there but with the right person theres so much more to me. when you jump right to the sex youre hoping to get that night or the next and ignore all the other parts of me i lose interest in you quickly. however sometimes when you click with some of my other attributes and the connections seem to be going strong i def start getting turned on and turned up full throttle. |
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I'll say it again...it's ALL in the kiss! Its true give that man a beer |
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I stick with the you'll know it's right when it's right and won't define feelings to a time frame. However if he was the one by chance wanting to wait it would sorta make me wonder how bad he was at it What I can't figure out is why that would even be something to enter a woman's mind. I mean...aren't women ( for the most part ) always saying how they are tired of guys that only want sex??? I mean....guys simply can't win. If we go for sex as soon as possible...we're " typical pigs ". If we want to wait a bit...it's thought that we are just crappy lovers and want to make you like us some other way first. That or there is just " something wrong " with us. [/quote Weird double standards I know, just can't help feeling doubts about it since in the experience I have anytime it was with a man who put things off when we were both feeling the chemistry it had negative results. But as always you can't lump everyone into the same category in a broad generalization because there are always exceptions I made sure to avoid the ' generalizing ' deal...lol I get where you are coming from. ;-) |
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I stick with the you'll know it's right when it's right and won't define feelings to a time frame. However if he was the one by chance wanting to wait it would sorta make me wonder how bad he was at it What I can't figure out is why that would even be something to enter a woman's mind. I mean...aren't women ( for the most part ) always saying how they are tired of guys that only want sex??? I mean....guys simply can't win. If we go for sex as soon as possible...we're " typical pigs ". If we want to wait a bit...it's thought that we are just crappy lovers and want to make you like us some other way first. That or there is just " something wrong " with us. Naaaa, not all women think that way...I don't think most do. Maybe some. I do like to get through at least a few get togethers before it comes up. I think women saying guys just want sex is when the topic comes up on the second date..or even worse, on the first date before the dinner is even over. i dont say it...but i will admit that it goes through my mind and is a turn off...but only if propositioned directly. what i offer between the sheets is def up there but with the right person theres so much more to me. when you jump right to the sex youre hoping to get that night or the next and ignore all the other parts of me i lose interest in you quickly. however sometimes when you click with some of my other attributes and the connections seem to be going strong i def start getting turned on and turned up full throttle. Exactly. Most ( almost all ) people I know are of the opinion that it'll happen when the time is right. A few people I know, including myself, want things to move somewhat slowly. It totally depends on the two people involved. |
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well ive learned from my past dating experiences.its just better to wait.sex always complicates things.i want to fall in love with the person not fall in love with how big their dingy dong is.  I've never seen a big one!!! 
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I stick with the you'll know it's right when it's right and won't define feelings to a time frame. However if he was the one by chance wanting to wait it would sorta make me wonder how bad he was at it What I can't figure out is why that would even be something to enter a woman's mind. I mean...aren't women ( for the most part ) always saying how they are tired of guys that only want sex??? I mean....guys simply can't win. If we go for sex as soon as possible...we're " typical pigs ". If we want to wait a bit...it's thought that we are just crappy lovers and want to make you like us some other way first. That or there is just " something wrong " with us. Naaaa, not all women think that way...I don't think most do. Maybe some. I do like to get through at least a few get togethers before it comes up. I think women saying guys just want sex is when the topic comes up on the second date..or even worse, on the first date before the dinner is even over. I don't really think ( and this is just MY OWN OPINION lol ) that it's necessarily a first or second date deal. I honestly think it applies to ANY point in time when it's brought up before the woman is ready for it to be brought up. |
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I don't see anything wrong with that. I knew a guy who dated a woman for 5 months and they never had sex, so it just depends. Better later than earlier, in my opinion- if at all....
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I stick with the you'll know it's right when it's right and won't define feelings to a time frame. However if he was the one by chance wanting to wait it would sorta make me wonder how bad he was at it What I can't figure out is why that would even be something to enter a woman's mind. I mean...aren't women ( for the most part ) always saying how they are tired of guys that only want sex??? I mean....guys simply can't win. If we go for sex as soon as possible...we're " typical pigs ". If we want to wait a bit...it's thought that we are just crappy lovers and want to make you like us some other way first. That or there is just " something wrong " with us. Naaaa, not all women think that way...I don't think most do. Maybe some. I do like to get through at least a few get togethers before it comes up. I think women saying guys just want sex is when the topic comes up on the second date..or even worse, on the first date before the dinner is even over. I don't really think ( and this is just MY OWN OPINION lol ) that it's necessarily a first or second date deal. I honestly think it applies to ANY point in time when it's brought up before the woman is ready for it to be brought up. I think if both people just pay attention to each other and see when the time is right, things are fine. I've never had an issue with that. |
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So, what happens if you come to an impasse? One wants to wait...the other wants to plow through (pun intended)?
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So, what happens if you come to an impasse? One wants to wait...the other wants to plow through (pun intended)? There either has to be a compromise, or it probably won't work out. |
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Why should someone have to compromise their morals?
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Why should someone have to compromise their morals? They don't have to. But, if what both of them want doesn't match up, it isn't going to work out. |
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So, a relationship is doomed just because they disagree only on that one point of contention?
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I'm still making papersmile wait
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I'm still making papersmile wait  Good for you!
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seems to me there is a difference between desiring intimacy and just sweet talkin your way into a woman's pants
it doesn't matter if it's 6 minutes, 6 weeks, or 6 years. Unless both are ready and desiring of it then it's just using someone for sex |
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So, a relationship is doomed just because they disagree only on that one point of contention? Not something I can answer, as it's going to depend on each couple. Though, I would think that if someone wants to wait six weeks and the other person is not into waiting, that person may not stick around. |
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For me it depends on a few things like how long I have known the person and how comfortable I am with them. The less comfortable I am the longer the sexual experience would take.
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I don't think there is a time limit, it will happen when both people feel comfortable.
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