I think if you find time you are spending on dating sites as wasting time then you are probably spending too much time and emotional energy in the fantasy rather than the reality.

Date site dating is just and opportunity to meet and get a thumbnail impression of someone. You are not going to weed out all the members of the "Frog Prince(cess) Association by going through some "process" on line. It will always come down to the in person time and yes some people are toads and just play around. How is that ever different than real life?

I will say that spending a lot of money going to see someone you have not just met by doing something else you would enjoy then you are really setting yourself up to be shot down.

Are there people on line that come with and agenda of punishing any victim for the sins of others or just playing games? Sure.

Is it the sites fault? No way. They make no guarantees and clearly say so. And like some who have basically the same people they don't charge you a lot of money or put you through time wasting loops to appear legit. This one also gives really good "tips" on how to avoid the trolls and if people actually use it try to delete the creeps is why you are finding people disappearing.

Might want to look for members who have been online for a while and actually proved by longevity that they are not scammers.

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